Oral Sex help

[GlovelySave]

Ok Im a guy with a question, my GF has become disapointed in the past that I was unable to cum during oral sex. I have told her that in the past it has been the same way. But she would really like for me to cum this way. Is there anyone out there who could help get us over this little bump in the road. Past girlfriends have thought that a guy cuming in thier mouth was degrading so as a young guy starting in the dating world I just didnt, now I have a woman who would really love me to and wants me to, so I need yto figure out how to give her this gift!

 

[Star of Penumbra]

It's entirely a mental thing. You just have to relax and stop worrying about it, and you should be fine.

 

[lisa_in_ct]

If you're both open to this (and if you know whats GOOD for you you will be), while she's giving you head, let her slip her finger into your ass. You'll cum quickly after that, in her mouth if she keeps you there. Maybe that will get you over the "hump." Relax, enjoy and let her please you.

 

[jacqui4u2]

just lie on your back and relax

your way to tense..

lie back and relax,
have her lie between your legs and let her use her hands and mouth as she wants to..

let her please you. and have her use her tongue as she moves her lips up and down,

and encourage her to take deep breaths

and moan to encourage her

and then let it go..

hope this helps

 

[deliciously_naughty]

Re: just lie on your back and relax

you've probably created a mental block b/c the other girls thought it was degrading so you learned not to. Don't worry, you can unlearn it. Just close your eyes, and let the feelings overtake you

 

[Ass_tronaut_T]

mental block

Don't -the mental block will go away.. Sometimes our mind plays strange tricks with us.. I remember the first time I wanted to sleep with my current girlfriend - I was extremely in love (still am btw) highly aroused, the setting was perfect --and I lost my erection.... just TOO excited... and getting caught in this "oh no, this can not happen now!" -thought..... But she was very sweet we just did some touching ...fell asleep cuddling... - and woke up in the middle of the night to have the best sex imaginable without saying a word....

So trust me, that mental block will go away -just don't put any pressure on you...if it doesn't work the next time -doesn't matter..just do something else and have fun with each other... it will work sooner or later...

A bit of 'mental training' might work as well.. go stroke yourself and imagine it's her giving you a damn good BJ and wanting and loving it....
Or maybe a combination of both. When she sucks you finish it yourself... cumming on her stomach or chest or wherever you two like....
I'm sure you'll come 'over it' quickly.....

good luck, have fun,

T.