Oral Sex Fantasy

[Snowman5933]

My SO and I have been having a MFM relationship with a friend of ours for a few months now. It's been great, and the more we do the stronger and wilder my fantasies are becoming. I've begun to fantasize about giving our friend a blowjob. At first I thought I was having a gay fantasy, and then I thought I was having a bi fantasy. After thinking about it for a while I've decided its just a fantasy about oral sex. I mean, I don't want physical contact with my friend (no kissing, caressing....I'm just curious about what its like to give a blowjob). The problem is I'm scared to tell him. I've shared the idea with my SO many times, as its becoming a very strong and satisfying fantasy for me.

Well tonight I made a small step closer. We had planned to get together with our friend tonight, so I talked my SO into blindfolding him and really getting him all worked up. She gave him head and alternated with her hand, taking him right to the edge and then pulling him back. When she finally let him cum, it was a gusher. I sucked a considerable amount off her fingers without him knowing it. I really liked it and want to live out my fantasy. What do I do?

Snowman

 

[SweetErika]

You might pose it as a hypothetical to gauge his reaction. For example, you could say, "A friend referred me to a really hot MFM story the other day. It was great, and much like our activities, but one of the guys gave the other head in the heat of the moment. I surprised at my reaction to MM oral in that context, and was curious as to what you thought." Or, find and send/give him such a story under the pretext that a friend/your wife sent it to you, then ask what he thought about it.

Alternately, when they're alone, your wife could tell him the thought of MM oral in the heat of the moment turns her on, and while she doesn't want to make him uncomfortable in any way by talking about it, she was wondering what he thought about it. I think this might be a good approach because it's just a chat about turn-ons, and if he's not into it, there shouldn't be any discomfort between you and him in the future. It might be easier for him to be honest with a woman he's attracted to, as well, and it gives him a "non-gay" rationale to do it if the idea's somewhat appealing ('I'm doing it to turn HER on' might sound better to him than, 'I want a man to suck my cock,' mentally).

If you don't want to risk it, or he doesn't want to do it, you could always find a partner who's into receiving. This could be something the two of you do alone or while your wife watches, or maybe a guy who wants to watch you two and only be involved in getting oral from you (and maybe your wife, if that's part of your fantasy). In other words, this is a fairly easy fantasy/curiosity to satisfy, and it doesn't have to be a full-blown threesome, if you guys don't want it to (I know it's tough to find someone that you both click with in that way). Just advertise for what you're looking for specifically, and see what comes back.

 

[Snowman5933]

Alternately, when they're alone, your wife could tell him the thought of MM oral in the heat of the moment turns her on, and while she doesn't want to make him uncomfortable in any way by talking about it, she was wondering what he thought about it. I think this might be a good approach because it's just a chat about turn-ons, and if he's not into it, there shouldn't be any discomfort between you and him in the future. It might be easier for him to be honest with a woman he's attracted to, as well, and it gives him a "non-gay" rationale to do it if the idea's somewhat appealing ('I'm doing it to turn HER on' might sound better to him than, 'I want a man to suck my cock,' mentally).

I like this approach, but I'm still nervous about it. This is a very long term friendship and I don't want to risk it. As for finding another partner: no way. Neither of us would be interested in being with anyone else. This may be one of those things that must remain a fantasy. If it never happens, I'm cool with it.

 

[human_male]

I agree the best way to do it would be to have the missus ask him, if she's comfortable with that. If he does have a problem with it, it'll probably be much less of an issue for him comming from her instead of you.

 

[CaribbeanStudd]

My SO and I have been having a MFM relationship with a friend of ours for a few months now. It's been great, and the more we do the stronger and wilder my fantasies are becoming. I've begun to fantasize about giving our friend a blowjob. At first I thought I was having a gay fantasy, and then I thought I was having a bi fantasy. After thinking about it for a while I've decided its just a fantasy about oral sex. I mean, I don't want physical contact with my friend (no kissing, caressing....I'm just curious about what its like to give a blowjob). The problem is I'm scared to tell him. I've shared the idea with my SO many times, as its becoming a very strong and satisfying fantasy for me.

Well tonight I made a small step closer. We had planned to get together with our friend tonight, so I talked my SO into blindfolding him and really getting him all worked up. She gave him head and alternated with her hand, taking him right to the edge and then pulling him back. When she finally let him cum, it was a gusher. I sucked a considerable amount off her fingers without him knowing it. I really liked it and want to live out my fantasy. What do I do?

Snowman

DO IT! I've been in many situations like that and it is absolutely amazing.