Oral sex arrangement for Women?

[eroticspank]

I wonder how many women out there would be into an Oral Sex arrangement?

The Arrangement: You are given oral sex until you are satisfied and you provide nothing in return to the guy.

First you get to know the guy a bit online. Eventually you meet and he takes you out for drinks and dinner. IF you feel comfortable, you go home with him or to his hotel room or yours and receive oral until you are satisfied. IF you like him, you see him again and it becomes a regular thing like a FWB.

What do you think ladies? Could you do something like that? Does it help that you do nothing to him in keeping your distance emotionally? If he was very good could you resist the temptation to want more than just oral?

This has been a fantasy of mine for years and I have always wanted to try it. IF you feel uncomfortable talking about it here, feel free to PM me.

Thanks
ES

 

[MrRetro]

I wonder how many women out there would be into an Oral Sex arrangement?

The Arrangement: You are giving oral sex until you are satisfied and you provide nothing in return to the guy.

First you get to know the guy a bit online. Eventually you meet and he takes you out for drinks and dinner. IF you feel comfortable, you go home with him or to his hotel room or yours and receive oral until you are satisfied. IF you like him, you see him again and it becomes a regular thing like a FWB.

What do you think ladies? Could you do something like that? Does it help that you do nothing to him in keeping your distance emotionally? If he was very good could you resist the temptation to want more than just oral?

This has been a fantasy of mine for years and I have always wanted to try it. IF you feel uncomfortable talking about it here, feel free to PM me.

Thanks
ES

I found this thread of yours from years back ES..! Thought it deserved a revival..

I fantasise about an arrangement like this all the time, I’m sure a lot of men do.. Sadly I’ve not stumbled across many women that admit to desiring it though..

 

[eroticspank]

I found this thread of yours from years back ES..! Thought it deserved a revival..

I fantasise about an arrangement like this all the time, I’m sure a lot of men do.. Sadly I’ve not stumbled across many women that admit to desiring it though..

Thanks MrRetro!

It seems on other sites to be a big deal and I have found a lot of women would be interested, especially if there is no return favor expected. In some cases, I have talked to a few ladies on Lit that have had someone come over, give them cunnilingus, and leave. One woman told me it was a guy she met here on Lit and they kept the lights down low during so it was semi anonymous. She said it was great and she did nothing to the guy in return.

ES

 

[moonflasher]

For me it will always be a two way street....Me pleasing him excites me

 

[MrRetro]

Thanks MrRetro!

It seems on other sites to be a big deal and I have found a lot of women would be interested, especially if there is no return favor expected. In some cases, I have talked to a few ladies on Lit that have had someone come over, give them cunnilingus, and leave. One woman told me it was a guy she met here on Lit and they kept the lights down low during so it was semi anonymous. She said it was great and she did nothing to the guy in return.

ES

Really..?! Well I’m obviously not chatting with the right ladies..!

 

[eroticspank]

Really..?! Well I’m obviously not chatting with the right ladies..!

Exactly! It does seem like it is not in woman's DNA to do this, more like a guy thing. A lot of women feel like they need to reciprocate and give the man pleasure, like the woman mentioned above.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

For me it will always be a two way street....Me pleasing him excites me

So I wonder if the guy went down on you first and you got off, do you feel a need to please him out of obligation or because it turns you on? Or maybe both?

IF you didn't have time for both of you to receive oral, would you let him do you
and you please him later?

ES

 

[MrRetro]

Exactly! It does seem like it is not in woman's DNA to do this, more like a guy thing. A lot of women feel like they need to reciprocate and give the man pleasure, like the woman mentioned above.

ES

It is definitely something that men desire more than women.. What I find curious is that there are a plethora of internet sites and threads about women devoting themselves to giving oral sex, but there’s virtually no content with a reciprocal arrangement..

Maybe women just don’t realise how pleasurable it is to perform cunnilingus.. The fact that one can provide this and not expect anything in return adds a level of devotion to the woman’s pleasure, it’s so very sensual and intimate..

 

[screwher]

My wife loves having her ass licked. But she says I don't do it often enough. Neither do you lovers. So I'm thinking what we need is to introduce another man into our marriage whose sole purpose is to lick her ass. Maybe once a week he drops by our place. Then him and wife adjourn to our bedroom where he pleasures her to her heart's content.

 

[Jada59]

Old thread but no. Would not be interested in that at all. And the OP started out saying "giving" then changed it to "getting".

 

[StarGazer58]

I have posted this in other threads but the concept of CMNF is very interesting and something that I would love to try out. I love seeing and hearing a woman as she gets aroused, seeing her body move as a wave of pleasure washes over her, the little jumps of her hips when the right spot is licked and hearing her passion grow as she gets closer and closer to climax. Definitely would like to do this.

 

[tasteyourthighs]

For me it will always be a two way street....Me pleasing him excites me

Yes if I get a chance to get pleased , my first thought is to pay back what I recieved, only logical thing to do I think.

 

[Lotusflower2010]

only oral?

For me it will always be a two way street....Me pleasing him excites me

I agree with moonflasher, a big part of the pleasure is giving as well as receiving

For me, receiving oral is a warm up, typically just the first O before things really get going....

And so, no, the oral sex arrangement as original posted would not be a turn on for me.

 

[tasteyourthighs]

I agree with moonflasher, a big part of the pleasure is giving as well as receiving

For me, receiving oral is a warm up, typically just the first O before things really get going....

And so, no, the oral sex arrangement as original posted would not be a turn on for me.

pre planned or just by accident , what should we do?

 

[carlos1of2inher]

Not a working concept for me

To me I don't see the point of an arrangement like this. If I am going to let a guy go down on me it means I am sexually attracted to him and trust him. So why would he be the only one that gets to give oral pleasure? It would be frustrating to be eaten and not allowed to suck. Also, if you are having oral sex with someone it seems only natural to go ahead and fuck too. I think sex needs to be all or nothing. I can see just giving a guy a hand job if you are not sure about him and I have done that but once you let a guy eat you to me it is time to fully enjoy each others bodies because that is the whole point.... isn't it?

 

[eroticspank]

Old thread but no. Would not be interested in that at all. And the OP started out saying "giving" then changed it to "getting".

That is a clear mistake on my part. Thank you for pointing that out. I meant you are "given" oral sex until you are satisfied. Not "giving"


ES

 

[eroticspank]

To me I don't see the point of an arrangement like this. If I am going to let a guy go down on me it means I am sexually attracted to him and trust him. So why would he be the only one that gets to give oral pleasure? It would be frustrating to be eaten and not allowed to suck. Also, if you are having oral sex with someone it seems only natural to go ahead and fuck too. I think sex needs to be all or nothing. I can see just giving a guy a hand job if you are not sure about him and I have done that but once you let a guy eat you to me it is time to fully enjoy each others bodies because that is the whole point.... isn't it?

Thanks for your comments. That is why I think this kind of relationship is not in the DNA of most women. I have talked to some that would do it, but most are not interested because they see it as you do, an all or nothing type of thing.

I find it interesting that a woman can give a guy a HJ or BJ as a one and done thing and be okay not receiving anything in return, but would not consider the reverse? I have met women who have given HJs to good male friends, or as a thank you for a favor, but rarely do you see the opposite. I don't know the reason....ladies let us know what you think....but my guess is intimacy. When a woman receives oral it is very intimate, her opening herself up, and that is not easily done with male friends or a new date.

ES

 

[eroticspank]

It is definitely something that men desire more than women.. What I find curious is that there are a plethora of internet sites and threads about women devoting themselves to giving oral sex, but there’s virtually no content with a reciprocal arrangement..

Maybe women just don’t realise how pleasurable it is to perform cunnilingus.. The fact that one can provide this and not expect anything in return adds a level of devotion to the woman’s pleasure, it’s so very sensual and intimate..

I agree. There is something about the way it is done too. If done in a loving, giving way that is all about the woman receiving and her pleasure as you mentioned, that is very important. If it is just about a guy playing with a woman's body until he is tired, that is completely different.

When a woman gives a loving HJ to a friend or lover with nothing expected in return, there is a certain genuine sincerity and feel good energy that is passed from one person to another. I think the same kind of energy can be passed along when a man gives a woman oral.

I do understand that for many women an oral orgasm is just the beginning and stopping at that point would be very frustrating. However, I do remember a guy telling me he gave a woman friend oral until she was satisfied. That meant 3 or 4 orgasms and then he helped her clean up and left. She was between boyfriends and their arrangement really helped.

ES

 

[Wld1936]

I ever thought about it! I’m a man. I would love to do it!!!

 

[Jada59]

Thanks for your comments. That is why I think this kind of relationship is not in the DNA of most women. I have talked to some that would do it, but most are not interested because they see it as you do, an all or nothing type of thing.

I find it interesting that a woman can give a guy a HJ or BJ as a one and done thing and be okay not receiving anything in return, but would not consider the reverse? I have met women who have given HJs to good male friends, or as a thank you for a favor, but rarely do you see the opposite. I don't know the reason....ladies let us know what you think....but my guess is intimacy. When a woman receives oral it is very intimate, her opening herself up, and that is not easily done with male friends or a new date.

ES

I love sex but have reservations about getting oral. There must be a book or video out there somewhere that tells men to isolate the clit and do nothing but lightly dab the tip of their tongue at that. Starts out as tickling, leads quickly to be annoying. And then the threats begin. As in, "Stop now or I'll put you in a head lock!" And then I follow through on that.

I always tell guys of my reservations now. Two of them did go down on me and it was good but they were careful. They didn't do it until after they had fucked me and I'd had several orgasms. I did like it then, but given my reservations, they seemed a bit fearful to do more.

One of my favorite things ever is giving blow jobs so if I'm with a guy, I will want to do that, or do that and have intercourse as well. Would not do much for me for him to give me pleasure and not be able to give him some too.

 

[JerseyJade]

I love sex but have reservations about getting oral. There must be a book or video out there somewhere that tells men to isolate the clit and do nothing but lightly dab the tip of their tongue at that. Starts out as tickling, leads quickly to be annoying. And then the threats begin. As in, "Stop now or I'll put you in a head lock!" And then I follow through on that.

I always tell guys of my reservations now. Two of them did go down on me and it was good but they were careful. They didn't do it until after they had fucked me and I'd had several orgasms. I did like it then, but given my reservations, they seemed a bit fearful to do more.

One of my favorite things ever is giving blow jobs so if I'm with a guy, I will want to do that, or do that and have intercourse as well. Would not do much for me for him to give me pleasure and not be able to give him some too.

I feel the same way, Jada. I'm very picky about who goes down me and I have to be in the mood for that to begin with. As for blowjobs, I love giving them and I'm almost always in the mood to do that. So when it comes to oral sex, I get way more enjoyment in giving than receiving. But that's just me.

 

[Feistygirl13]

Exactly! It does seem like it is not in woman's DNA to do this, more like a guy thing. A lot of women feel like they need to reciprocate and give the man pleasure, like the woman mentioned above.

ES

Actually, I would enjoy that scenario. I don't give oral until I'm comfortable with the guy. He can eat me out if he likes, and if he's good and doesn't give up after 10 minutes, then I know he truly enjoys cunnilingus. Plus, I'm not a woman who gives oral on command. If after the first couple of times I get with someone and he gives a solid effort in bed, with performing oral or having sex, then I will be more likely to be in a high state of arousal when around him and *want* to give oral. I believe that everyone should *want* to do any sex act and not do as repayment. If I met with a man and we both were attracted to each other and if after one or two more meets led to going back to his place or hotel, I would be fine with receiving oral only. If he was good enough to give me at least one orgasm, then I'm happy with receiving only.
If he had mad skills, and was interested in having intercourse, I'd be happy to do so as well.

 

[702Hotwheeler]

Love it!

I would definetly love a scenerio like this. I love to please a woman orally and get her off and cumming. Love it, it excites me. I personally would mind if she didnt recipricate me back. I think eventually something may happen down the line where she would want to do something back. Would love to be in that situation to find out..lol

 

[Mtnmike]

I love sex but have reservations about getting oral. There must be a book or video out there somewhere that tells men to isolate the clit and do nothing but lightly dab the tip of their tongue at that. Starts out as tickling, leads quickly to be annoying. And then the threats begin. As in, "Stop now or I'll put you in a head lock!" And then I follow through on that.

I always tell guys of my reservations now. Two of them did go down on me and it was good but they were careful. They didn't do it until after they had fucked me and I'd had several orgasms. I did like it then, but given my reservations, they seemed a bit fearful to do more.

One of my favorite things ever is giving blow jobs so if I'm with a guy, I will want to do that, or do that and have intercourse as well. Would not do much for me for him to give me pleasure and not be able to give him some too.

Really Jada, you're not interested in men going down on you ? I thought was the 1 thing women always wanted

 

[Jada59]

Really Jada, you're not interested in men going down on you ? I thought was the 1 thing women always wanted

Not me. Now maybe if I'd had someone do it right to begin with... But no. They all had some lame technique that wasn't in the least bit arousing. I'm also not big into clit stimulation. I prefer internal stimulation.