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How to Give a Good Blowjob - Thought Catalog


Don’t go right into sucking dick. Make him wait a little bit. Tease him a little. Don’t just slide down and clamp your mouth right on his cock. If he’s lying down, run your body up and down his chest. Brush your tits against his skin. Kiss his neck while you run your hand towards his dick. Lightly scratch his thighs. Trace a path down his body with your lips very gently till he shivers. YOU decide when to take it in your mouth, not him. I like to take just the head in my mouth and lick its underside gently a few times before I start working.

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Take your goddamn time! Once you have it in your mouth, don’t go from licking to sucking to hardcore bobbing in under five minutes. That’s what you did in high school and you have no business doing that shit now.

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Use your hands. Always, always, always use your hands. You can finger yourself with one hand so you’re getting something out of this experience, but the power of a hand and your mouth is unparalleled. Lube your hand up with that good, slimy spit in the back of your throat and use it as an extension of your mouth. Not too tight, but not gentle either. Keep a firm grip on that dick. I like to alternate using my whole hand and just a few fingers. A popular trick I discovered is making a ring shape with my thumb and two fingers and sliding that over the head and down like it’s attached to my mouth. Tight feels good. Remember that.

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Act like you like it. You should be enjoying it anyway; if you need encouragement, just remember how much power you have over him in this moment. He is at your mercy. This is not a chore. Giving is fun. Enjoy it. Moan a little. That stupid “Cosmo” tip about humming the Star-Spangled Banner is true; men really like a little vibration. But don’t hum the national anthem, OK? He’s not gonna enjoy it as much if you make it feel like a chore.

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Give him a show. He’s gonna be watching you while you’re down there, so look up at him and hold his gaze for a few moments while you take his dick in your mouth. They go CRAZY for that shit. They love watching it slide in and out of your mouth or watching your tongue flick away as you lick. Talk dirty – this is a good tip if you need a minute to breathe normally. Tell him you love sucking his big cock. (“Big cock” seems to be magic words for dudes.)

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Get creative. Take your panties off and wrap them around the base of his dick. Don’t be boring. Take your time – you don’t like short-ass head sessions, and neither does he. Stop for a minute and let him watch you touch your nipples or play with yourself.

Watch and listen to him for cues to figure out what he likes. Alternate between slow, teasing licks and quick, tight sucking movements in and out of your mouth to build up the tension. Once he’s getting close, cup his balls in one hand as you suck – they LOVE that. (Side note: Don’t ignore the balls. Lick ‘em. Suck ‘em. Dudes like it and balls get wrongly ignored in Blowjob Land. I’m a fan of balls. I give them their due attention.)

And don’t fucking spit out the cum, OK? Suck it down. Get excited about it. You did it, didn’t you? You are the catalyst for this cum situation! Be proud of yourself. TC mark
 
Ladies posting here, I'm curious. Most women I've known have generally liked giving blowjobs or at least didn't mind, but very few who actively loved sucking dick, and only one lady, one magical, lovely lady, one special unicorn snowflake, who actually said giving head was her #1 favorite sexual activity. (I really should have married her, honestly.)

But I digress. My questions for those of you who love giving BJs:

How did you become lovers of blowjobs and cock worship?

Were you always fascinated by penises, or did you just happen to have really positive blowjob experiences with one of your first lovers?

Was there a moment or moments when you realized you loved sucking cock, or was it a gradual thing, or was it always there?

Last question: can we come up with a special handshake or code word so that I know when I meet one of you? :D
 
Ladies posting here, I'm curious. Most women I've known have generally liked giving blowjobs or at least didn't mind, but very few who actively loved sucking dick, and only one lady, one magical, lovely lady, one special unicorn snowflake, who actually said giving head was her #1 favorite sexual activity. (I really should have married her, honestly.)

But I digress. My questions for those of you who love giving BJs:

How did you become lovers of blowjobs and cock worship?

Were you always fascinated by penises, or did you just happen to have really positive blowjob experiences with one of your first lovers?

Was there a moment or moments when you realized you loved sucking cock, or was it a gradual thing, or was it always there?

Last question: can we come up with a special handshake or code word so that I know when I meet one of you? :D


I NEVER had positive sexual experiences before my Master/Husband. I had given a few bjs, it was something I did because they shoved my head down there. I didn't enjoy it, or most sexual activities. Mostly I think because I felt more like a wet hole in those moments than their partner. There was little interest in giving me pleasure, if any. So I did very little to reciprocate.

My Master has always prioritized my pleasure. One of 2 men I've been with that actually gave me an orgasm. (The other having been a one night stand.) he's the only man to ever go down on me, to finger me, to initiate foreplay, and derive pleasure from getting me off. It's so sexy when the one you're with strives to make your toes curl. It made me want to make him feel as good as he makes me feel. I love sucking his cock and taking him to new levels of euphoria. It's my way of saying thank you. :)
 
Okay, this brings to mind my first foray into this, also probably awkward and bumbling, though I thought I was cool.
I had an older friend that was a complete mind connection, which is, really, the sexiest thing ever. He wasn't really my physical type at that time, but I was young, so what did I know? He made me laugh. If you can make me laugh? D'awww...
I knew he wanted me. One day I called him up and told him I wanted him to teach me "everything". How to fuck, how to give head, whatever he knew. Looking back, it wasn't much more than me, probably.

I don't know how I had the guts to ask for that: "I want you to teach me."
I remember his reaction, to this day, a quizzical but really sexy "...but this isn't my Birthday..."
So, we went out. The lessons commenced.

His cock was beautiful. To this day I remember everything about it. About him.
He taught me cock worship. I remember him saying, "this is all you see, all you want..." and it was.
He taught me to love my own body, and my own sexuality.
We were together for a year, and then he moved. We both moved on.

Too bad I couldn't clone him.

Ladies posting here, I'm curious. Most women I've known have generally liked giving blowjobs or at least didn't mind, but very few who actively loved sucking dick, and only one lady, one magical, lovely lady, one special unicorn snowflake, who actually said giving head was her #1 favorite sexual activity. (I really should have married her, honestly.)

But I digress. My questions for those of you who love giving BJs:

How did you become lovers of blowjobs and cock worship?

Were you always fascinated by penises, or did you just happen to have really positive blowjob experiences with one of your first lovers?

Was there a moment or moments when you realized you loved sucking cock, or was it a gradual thing, or was it always there?

Last question: can we come up with a special handshake or code word so that I know when I meet one of you? :D

Much of what you asked I talked about earlier in the thread. Allow me to be lazy and quote it.

A handshake, hmm?
I can't just wear my pink t-shirt that says: I LOVE HAVING BALLS IN MY FACE!

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