Oral for men

Justine

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Hello everyone.

I would like to know if men prefer oral sex over intercourse. If so, why? Can you cum with just the mouth?

Hmmm... guess that is good enough for starters...
 
Oral 4 me....

My feelings are that I can finish faster with a blowjob because their is so much variety coming from the female. Depending how fast she is going at it, if she is biting the head and playing with my nuts...these are all factors that determine how fast I can cum. If I lived in my own perfect world I would take a blow job over intercourse. I think intercourse is great also but not quite as erotic as a blowjob (seeing a lady look up at you as she has complete control of your manhood is unreal).
 
I would prefer blow job over intercourse simply because seeing a pretty lady's head bobing up & down the length of the penis while she is caressing the the balls and the periferal areas including the anus is realy erotic. Besides the pressure can be applied in different areas of the penis i.e at the head or on the shaft increases stimulation and pleasure.
 
From a female point of view...

I enjoy all aspects of sex, from oral to intercourse and everything in between. But, if I had to choose one thing specifically that I enjoyed more, it would be oral. I absolutely love to give my sweetie oral. (Of course, it is not one sided...he always reciprocates) There is so much you can do to the whole situation to keep it from being just a "blow job". A little imagination with a lot of passion and the possibilities are endless!:D


*smile* Reina
 
I personally prefer to cum during intercourse. Don't get me wrong, I love oral sex, but just find it difficult to ejaculate...... it almost get too sensitive.
 
mmm, I just love oral sex, but not just the receiving. I am just absolutely turned on by going down on a woman. There's something about the feel of that soft skin on a woman. I love to explore all the hidden recesses, searching out what it is that makes her react, and giving her mutiple orgasms of varying intensities and types. I like to do her first, and then have her go down on me, and finish with intercourse. 69 is ok, but to hard to concentrate on what your doing, and I want to make sure she gets more than she expected, :p :p
 
xx_La_Reina_xx said:
But, if I had to choose one thing specifically that I enjoyed more, it would be oral.

I like giving and receiving oral too. However, for me, intercourse leads to an orgasm... different... from the one I get from oral. I think there is a psychological effect of being taken versus just having pleasure.

Hotrod mentioned that oral makes him perhaps too sensitive... my ex used to say that at times too, and I never really understood how it can get too sensitive for comfort. Care to elaborate, hotrod?
 
I love both. I love a long blowjob with a girl that really knows what she is doing. I love it when I'm about ready to cum and she backs off for a bit and starts over again and teases me like that. The release after being teased a few times is incredable. Then, if I am lucky, she will give me a nice sloppy kiss and share my cum with me.
 
The Best!

Variety is great and I love it all!

For me, nothing beats a long slow fuck where she has one or more orgasms building to a real major orgasm that triggers mine leading to hard, fast, mind numbing, belly slapping, humping to simultaneous orgasms.

Oral is great but giving that much pleasure adds so much to mine, it’s hard to imagine anything better. If there is I want to try it!
 
my guy like a blow job first, then i get pleasured! then he can last a long time in intercourse, because intercourse makes him so much hotter and he cums so fast! :)
 
Okay... for what I can see, oral gives different sensations than intercourse. Now... is the orgasm different too?

For me, orgasm through oral is somewhat milder and longer. Do guys feel it differently too? And do other women feel the same differences?
 
as for me

what man in his right mind doesn't love a good blowjob? However, you have left us with a question of choice or preference. I can only speak for myself, but I think it varies depending on the person, the situation, and the relationship. If I am with a casual date a blowjob is fine, well for that matter I never turn one down. However, if I am with person I really care about or love, I much prefer to "finish" during actual intercourse. Maybe I am just old fashion or too much of a romantic but there is a great deal to be said for lookin your lover in the eyes as you climax, especially if you have the good fortune I have been blessed to experience, simultaneous orgasms. Now don't get me wrong enjoy oral sex immensley, both giving and recieving. And if my woman prefers to climax during oral then I'm all for that, preferrably she have more than one and experience both sensations. I have just ound that it is so much better either way you go if you tune yourself into her needs, wants, and desires and have always tried doing just that. I think the key to the answer of this question lies within the confines of communiction between the two lovers at question. I hope you find my observation informative and enligtening, good love to all.
 
I prefer both my wife is very orally gifted and knows where how and when to lick nibble and suck all the right places. I like it before intercourse,but usually want to finish with intercourse..
 
Variables

I really don't think there is a set answer to this question.

There are some men in the world who would never even conceive of the idea that oral could replace intercourse or be more preferable.

My own opinion really does vary with the time of day, the day of the week, the month of the year etc. With so many variables I couldn't even begin to pick a favourite.

I guess i'll just keep on enjoying both ;-)
 
no

wait a second... hold on, now that i think about it...HELL NO! sorry but every one knows that sex is best:)
 
Re: no

felixdakat said:
wait a second... hold on, now that i think about it...HELL NO! sorry but every one knows that sex is best:)

But isn't oral, sex also??
 
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