Opinons on oral

[Wizard]

I was ask in a forum I was in the other day, why us guys love to see a woman who is in front of us giving us oral take “us” in the face or mouth.
I tried to give my explanation as I though and equate it to acceptance. Taking us completely and unconditionally.

For me at least (and I’m sure many men) it is such a turn on to look down see our lady sucking us and to take “us” in the face or down the throat, well what more can they offer.

I would love to hear what others think of this and what it means to them. Anyone care to share with me. I’d love to forward this thread to her.

 

[rosco rathbone]

Yes, there's something to that.

To me, the male orgasm is the acme of sexuality. The "point" of the entire thing. Now as I see it, an orgasm in the three hole "goes unnoticed". It happens "down there". An orgasm in the mouth, on the other hand, commands the full attention of the recipient. It forces her focus.

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Idle Thoughts

• She accepts your genitalia in no uncertain terms. (Call the act an in your face thing, pun intended.)
• If she can't breathe, she has surrendered her life into your hands for a moment in time. (Control rush anyone?)
• If you take her past the involuntary point of her body's reaction (gag reflex with all the attendant unpleasantries) and you both accept it while continuing ... whoa.
• If she nurses you to the point of completion, and relishes what you offer, walk on sunshine.
• If she can't wait to do it again, what was your question?

 

[Wizard]

• She accepts your genitalia in no uncertain terms. (Call the act an in your face thing, pun intended.)
• If she can't breathe, she has surrendered her life into your hands for a moment in time. (Control rush anyone?)
• If you take her past the involuntary point of her body's reaction (gag reflex with all the attendant unpleasantries) and you both accept it while continuing ... whoa.
• If she nurses you to the point of completion, and relishes what you offer, walk on sunshine.
• If she can't wait to do it again, what was your question?

Outstanding!!!

 

[AngelicAssassin]

Outstanding!!!

Like a fool in the rain ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/2cool2.gif

 

[nusubgurl]

• She accepts your genitalia in no uncertain terms. (Call the act an in your face thing, pun intended.)
• If she can't breathe, she has surrendered her life into your hands for a moment in time. (Control rush anyone?)
• If you take her past the involuntary point of her body's reaction (gag reflex with all the attendant unpleasantries) and you both accept it while continuing ... whoa.
• If she nurses you to the point of completion, and relishes what you offer, walk on sunshine.
• If she can't wait to do it again, what was your question?

<laying myself prostrate at your feet> i love you....

 

[Wizard]

Like a fool in the rain ... http://img.villagephotos.com/p/2003-8/363868/2cool2.gif

It was well put.

This is an intresting topic and love the diffrent views!!

 

[arctic-stranger]

if she likes it when you grab her by the hair, and pull her on to you, as far as she can take it

If she is able to lick your balls while taking you in her mouth

If she moans with pleasure afterwards, and seems to enjoy it more than you did

If all you have to do is cast your eyes downward, and she is on her knees, with that subservient look

If you wake up at night, and she giving you oral pleasure

if she insists on taking all you can give her, and does not let a drop go to waste......

Then you have found the right girl.....

 

[Wizard]

if she likes it when you grab her by the hair, and pull her on to you, as far as she can take it

If she is able to lick your balls while taking you in her mouth

If she moans with pleasure afterwards, and seems to enjoy it more than you did

If all you have to do is cast your eyes downward, and she is on her knees, with that subservient look

If you wake up at night, and she giving you oral pleasure

if she insists on taking all you can give her, and does not let a drop go to waste......

Then you have found the right girl.....

Your so right!!!!! LOL Man I love oral!!!

 

[babiesmiles]

another angle point of view

when I'm on my knee
looking for his eyes
ready to please him
with my mouth and mind
his hands on my hair
my hands on his hips
I see his pleasure
I feel his lust
I am close to his soul
he is close to my heart
and giving him
the depth of my being
the power on my thought
makes me so proud
to be his
makes he so strong
to give me his strenght
no words
no thoughts
only the pureness
of the precious act
of my total
submission
to him .

for Him from me
b.

 

[Wizard]

when I'm on my knee
looking for his eyes
ready to please him
with my mouth and mind
his hands on my hair
my hands on his hips
I see his pleasure
I feel his lust
I am close to his soul
he is close to my heart
and giving him
the depth of my being
the power on my thought
makes me so proud
to be his
makes he so strong
to give me his strenght
no words
no thoughts
only the pureness
of the precious act
of my total
submission
to him .

for Him from me
b.

Wow was that well put!!!!!

Many thanks!!!

 

[Seduce]

Hm...... want me to tell you about it from my point of view...... no, I guess not.....
It might spoil the fun.

 

[babiesmiles]

Wow was that well put!!!!!

Many thanks!!!

you are welcome

 

[Wizard]

Hm...... want me to tell you about it from my point of view...... no, I guess not.....
It might spoil the fun.

Really I would like to hear....

 

[Seduce]

Really I would like to hear....

Trust me, you wouldnt.

 

[Wizard]

Trust me, you wouldnt.

Alright then............

 

[TaintedB]

I think we've talked about this in the humble oral thread on the main bdsm forum, but one nice thing about it is that, unless you're doing a face fuck, the receiver gets to lay back and let someone else do most of the work. No effort, no humping involved. Just relax and enjoy it.

I've got to wonder though about how much the current (last two decades or so) upsurge of interest in oral has to do with AIDs and the fact that for a lot of men, oral is the only kind of sex they do without a condom dulling the sensations. Maybe that's why it feels so good?

Wizard did you see the thread in the how-to forum in which lots of men spoke up saying they either didn't like oral sex or couldn't orgasm from it? Apparently its enjoyment is nearly as universal as I thought.

 

[Wizard]

I think we've talked about this in the humble oral thread on the main bdsm forum, but one nice thing about it is that, unless you're doing a face fuck, the receiver gets to lay back and let someone else do most of the work. No effort, no humping involved. Just relax and enjoy it.

I've got to wonder though about how much the current (last two decades or so) upsurge of interest in oral has to do with AIDs and the fact that for a lot of men, oral is the only kind of sex they do without a condom dulling the sensations. Maybe that's why it feels so good?

Wizard did you see the thread in the how-to forum in which lots of men spoke up saying they either didn't like oral sex or couldn't orgasm from it? Apparently its enjoyment is nearly as universal as I thought.

No, I didn't catch it but I did run a search before starting this thread.

I go check for it. I'd like to pass it along to her also...

 

[Wizard]

Anyone from the nightshift care to join in???

 

[tealsphynx]

I take a lot of pleasure from giving oral. I love to take it all as deep as I can. My man gives me such a great reaction I know what I do is loved and appreciated. If a guy ever expects me to give him oral I don't enjoy it and it becomes a chore. I love the feeling of him swelling in my mouth right before he comes, though sometimes the taste is strong and makes me gag I still love to swallow all of it. Sometimes when I have him in my throat I'll put my hand, or his hand on my neck to feel the widening of my body to take in all of him. I love to nibble on the frenulum, it's soft and feels neat between my lips and teeth and on my tongue. I love it when he gets weak in the knees and needs to sit or lay down while I'm going down on him. I swallow every time, it just seems right to me, the way I see it if it's in there, that's where it cums.

 

[Wizard]

I take a lot of pleasure from giving oral. I love to take it all as deep as I can. My man gives me such a great reaction I know what I do is loved and appreciated. If a guy ever expects me to give him oral I don't enjoy it and it becomes a chore. I love the feeling of him swelling in my mouth right before he comes, though sometimes the taste is strong and makes me gag I still love to swallow all of it. Sometimes when I have him in my throat I'll put my hand, or his hand on my neck to feel the widening of my body to take in all of him. I love to nibble on the frenulum, it's soft and feels neat between my lips and teeth and on my tongue. I love it when he gets weak in the knees and needs to sit or lay down while I'm going down on him. I swallow every time, it just seems right to me, the way I see it if it's in there, that's where it cums.

Whew, great post!!!!!

Thank you!!!

 

[shy slave]

An activity I never tire of.

I love to lick him slowly over his balls, every fold given my fully focused attention.
Taking them in my mouth and treating them as if they were a reverent and precious gift.

Move up the shaft licking and savouring the taste and smell of him.

Move my mouth over the head of his cock.
Sometimes positioning my mouth directly above his cock as though my mouth were a cunt moving downwards to cover him
Sometimes positioning myself so he can see it disappear into my mouth, sucking and caressing him with my tongue.

Looking up at him or eyes downcast, bold yet shy, slut then embarrassed.

His hand in my hair, either softly caressing or urging me forwards, both are a bonus.

Taking all he can give and holding it in my mouth before swallowing.
Taking over my face and hair feeling him cover me and being allowed to taste it.

Bliss

AS and AA for me these lines sum it up:
She accepts your genitalia in no uncertain terms.
If she nurses you to the point of completion, and relishes what you offer, walk on sunshine.
If she can't wait to do it again, what was your question?
if she likes it when you grab her by the hair, and pull her on to you, as far as she can take it
If she moans with pleasure afterwards, and seems to enjoy it more than you did


Although its more than acceptance its a longing, a craving, a passion, a need, a desire

 

[Neomagalie]

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[Wizard]

Outstanding comments, great to hear these!!!!!