Oops, I dropped my hanky and I'm hoping you will pick it up.

A Desert Rose

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I freely admit, I am one of the most unknowledgeable people who post here. Some might call me ignorant... others might call me -- something else not quite so kind.

I never knew this color coding even existed. And you know, I don't think I have the time to memorize or learn this stuff. But I thought it was interesting, all the same.

Hell, I'm from the school of "ask-me-I'll-tell-ya." I'm sure if you met me, it wouldn't take long to determine which side of the fence I lounge on.

Well anyway, I certainly do learn something new every day.
 
what is the color for wanting to fuck desert rose for 72 hours?
 
WriterDom said:
what is the color for wanting to fuck desert rose for 72 hours?

LMAO... only 72? How many days is that? (You know how I am with math.)

Not a color. I'm into prints... like roses, maybe. :kiss:
 
LOL, well you are not alone ADR. Had heard of the keys thing a longtime ago, but certainly not this huge list. Sheeesh I am thinking some people could end up looking like a badly dressed Arabian Nights dancer if they wore a scarf for everything they were into!! :eek:

Catalina :rose:
 
catalina_francisco said:
LOL, well you are not alone ADR. Had heard of the keys thing a longtime ago, but certainly not this huge list. Sheeesh I am thinking some people could end up looking like a badly dressed Arabian Nights dancer if they wore a scarf for everything they were into!! :eek:

Catalina :rose:


LMAO... now that's just damned funny!

You also know, that men see colors differently than women do... Does anyone really think most men know the difference between teal blue and robin's egg blue?
 
A Desert Rose said:
Does anyone really think most men know the difference between teal blue and robin's egg blue?
Yes, and i know the difference between ecru and eggshell, periwinkle and cornflower, crimson and red, & gold and goldenrod ... subtle (except the yellow based choice), perhaps, but definitely can see it.
 
AngelicAssassin said:
Yes, and i know the difference between ecru and eggshell, periwinkle and cornflower, crimson and red, & gold and goldenrod ... subtle (except the yellow based choice), perhaps, but definitely can see it.

For me? Don't even bother trying to send the right message to me with colour coded handkerchiefs.
 
Xelebes said:
For me? Don't even bother trying to send the right message to me with colour coded handkerchiefs.
We were speaking of color and color name recognition, not messages.
 
AngelicAssassin said:
Yes, and i know the difference between ecru and eggshell, periwinkle and cornflower, crimson and red, & gold and goldenrod ... subtle (except the yellow based choice), perhaps, but definitely can see it.

Well, ok. You are a rare fella, then.

And I did say MOST men. ;-)
 
AngelicAssassin said:
We were speaking of color and color name recognition, not messages.

If the messages were of such specific colours, I would most likely misinterpret them leading to unpleasant things ahead.

i.e. My recognition of the differences between colours would be hard pressed to do so.
 
A Desert Rose said:
LMAO... now that's just damned funny!

You also know, that men see colors differently than women do... Does anyone really think most men know the difference between teal blue and robin's egg blue?


isn't one of them a little lighter than the other?
 
lorddragonwolf said:
isn't one of them a little lighter than the other?

You know what is absolutley hilarious about this post?

LDW is asking a serious question.

LMAO... You do so crack me up, dolly! I always love seeing you post to my threads.
 
InnerDarkness said:
... the first article says the hanky code is outdated...who makes these rules up???

Outdated? Yes, that would make perfect sense, since I just discovered such a thing even exists.
 
A Desert Rose said:
Outdated? Yes, that would make perfect sense, since I just discovered such a thing even exists.

to me, communication would seem to eliminate the need for elaborate hanky and bracelet codes, but perhaps at that age they don't quite know how to go about expressing themselves...and likely shouldn't be anyway!
 
A Desert Rose said:
You know what is absolutley hilarious about this post?

LDW is asking a serious question.

LMAO... You do so crack me up, dolly! I always love seeing you post to my threads.


yes and i so love to read your threads. you come up with some great ones. but i can just see it now the next time i wear a bandana i better not hang it from my belt.
 
I'm with Catalina on this one.

If you had all those colours plus the teddy bear, chamios, doily, handwipes and toothbrush how on earth would you manage to make a move on anyone??

Your hands would be full and by the time they had unwrapped all those scarves for the your left and right hand pockets; you would have forgotton why you were both there in the first place lol

Added to which I don't know left and right terribly well.
I know I masturbate with one of them but can never remember which one ~ so may end up with more than i bargined for :rolleyes:

Actually looking down that list ~ what the heck is tearoom top & tearoom bottom?

Am i being stupid again, as i can't work it out?

Edited to ask Is it to do with Richard49's AV perhaps?
 
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A Desert Rose said:
You know what is absolutley hilarious about this post?

LDW is asking a serious question.

LMAO... You do so crack me up, dolly! I always love seeing you post to my threads.
 
shy slave said:


Added to which I don't know left and right terribly well.
I know I masturbate with one of them but can never remember which one ~ so may end up with more than i bargined for :rolleyes:

Actually looking down that list ~ what the heck is tearoom top & tearoom bottom?

Am i being stupid again, as i can't work it out?

Edited to ask Is it to do with Richard49's AV perhaps?

Wow, i was wondering the same things about tearoom. And i could manage the colors ok but do they mean My right -- or yours, as you're looking at me? And if you're switchy do you just hang them over your crotch?
 
Originally posted by FungiUg
Black and blue?

mmmm... okay.

Phoenix Stone said:
...but do they mean My right -- or yours, as you're looking at me?...

I think it would be your right. But if you're like me, my right and left always confuse me. And can you imagine all those scarves hanging on one side? How gaudy is that? Makes me shudder to think.

shy slave said:
...Added to which I don't know left and right terribly well.
I know I masturbate with one of them but can never remember which one ~ so may end up with more than i bargined for :rolleyes:...

See? It's a woman thing. And you're woman after my very own heart.
 
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