Online Vs. Real Time BDSM

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I have read some of these personals with interest. It seems that a majority of them, both men and women, prefer an online bdsm relationship. Now, I won't disrespect the needs and desires of having something just online. In fact, I have had one or two of them myself. I became very close with my o/l submissive, but there was always that frustration that there would not be an eventual meeting.

I have also had real time bdsm relationships with women who are local. It is those that are my preference. You have the luxury of achieving the closeness that one may get in an online relationship, plus being able to see each other's eyes, feel each other's touch, hear each other's moans and sighs (and occasional screams..lol).

Now, if one starts online with another, and eventually meet, I think is an excellent thing. People tend on occasion to open up more while chatting, otherwise being too shy or unable to communicate in a face to face setting. I have had those as well, and the beauty of finally meeting him or her that first time, the built up lust and desire finally fulfilled, is a joyous thing.

Saying all this, I would like to find someone local, but if things start out online for an eventual meeting, I am satisfied. I have been in this lifestyle for almost 20 years and practice it in a safe/sane manner. I am mature, fit, intelligent, well educated and very well employed. What I am looking for is a woman who is young in spirit, beautiful inside and out, and sincerely desires to learn and grow in her submission. Is that you?
 
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