Online playmate

[firefighterscott]

I'm back again lol. I am in search of a online playmate for some adult fun. I'm hoping to find someone that we can turn it into a friendship also. I am in New York and I'm a firefighter. I'd like to be able to open up to someone and also be able to play with them on a regular basis. Married women welcome as long as it's not a issue on your end. Role play is also a good thing as well as voice. I do use Kik and Skype. If you have questions please feel free to ask anything.

 

[bdbeauty]

hi - intrigued domme here

my fire boy, what exactly are you looking for. I am a "married" woman, who plays on the side. My relationship is not a hinderance to my collection of toys, but it does not limit my availability. I enjoy writing as well. If you would like you can check out my ongoing series under the name bdbeauty. I would like to find someone like minded or at least someone who has good writing skills and a vivid imagination. So, please tell me more.

J

 

[firefighterscott]

my fire boy, what exactly are you looking for. I am a "married" woman, who plays on the side. My relationship is not a hinderance to my collection of toys, but it does not limit my availability. I enjoy writing as well. If you would like you can check out my ongoing series under the name bdbeauty. I would like to find someone like minded or at least someone who has good writing skills and a vivid imagination. So, please tell me more.

J

Thank you I will check them out

 

[firefighterscott]

Good morning. I was just wondering do married women really do play around or is it just a fantasy in all our heads?

 

[Blase]

Good morning. I was just wondering do married women really do play around or is it just a fantasy in all our heads?

I'm neither married, nor a woman, but I can tell you that the answer is, "It depends".

I've talked to a good number of women who were either married or in relationships and found that, as with anything else, they're all across the board. Some women are happily partnered and have no wish to play with anyone who isn't their SO. Some women are happily partnered but still open to playing with others, for a variety of reasons. Some, of course, are unhappily partnered.

I will say that it can cause unexpected challenges when someone who is new to online relationships starts to realize just how real and intimate they can become. Your mileage may vary, but I've had more than one girl freak out when they found themselves getting to know a person as opposed to just playing with some kind of faceless, interchangeable partner. In other words, what they essentially wanted was a kind of masturbation with a sex bot that could pass the Turing Test: What they got was someone who took an interest in them as people and made them laugh even as they took their clothes off. And suddenly their harmless play felt more like intimacy with someone who wasn't their significant other.

So, is it "just a fantasy in all our heads"? Not always, but you need someone who's okay with the reality...

 

[firefighterscott]

I'm neither married, nor a woman, but I can tell you that the answer is, "It depends".

I've talked to a good number of women who were either married or in relationships and found that, as with anything else, they're all across the board. Some women are happily partnered and have no wish to play with anyone who isn't their SO. Some women are happily partnered but still open to playing with others, for a variety of reasons. Some, of course, are unhappily partnered.

I will say that it can cause unexpected challenges when someone who is new to online relationships starts to realize just how real and intimate they can become. Your mileage may vary, but I've had more than one girl freak out when they found themselves getting to know a person as opposed to just playing with some kind of faceless, interchangeable partner. In other words, what they essentially wanted was a kind of masturbation with a sex bot that could pass the Turing Test: What they got was someone who took an interest in them as people and made them laugh even as they took their clothes off. And suddenly their harmless play felt more like intimacy with someone who wasn't their significant other.

So, is it "just a fantasy in all our heads"? Not always, but you need someone who's okay with the reality...

thank u very well put. I'm not having much luck anyways.

 

[firefighterscott]

Any ladies wanna chat?