Online Domination question.....

[chelleb]

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[FurryFury]

You might find this thread somewhat useful.

http://forum.literotica.com/showthread.php?t=388631

Good luck switching.

 

[chelleb]

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[Etoile]

Kudos and applause to you for doing it. A lot of submissives, when asked to play the opposite role, get squirmy and insist they simply cannot do it. But I have always felt that being dominant on command is just another part of being submissive. If you do it, you are following orders, and there should be no mental disconnect there. I'm not saying people should instantly know what to do without asking for help, or even enjoy the change. But my theory is, if you don't at least TRY, now that's willful disobedience!

 

[catalina_francisco]

I would suggest talking to him about how he feels he want to be dominated, and what is definately not possible or wanted. Not everyone reacts to the same ways and so it is more important to connect with what would possibly work for those in question, than anonymous ideas pulled out of a hat from multiple people. There is nothing worse than having a hunger, and then having someone try to feed it with all the wrong nutrients. Also from your own standpoint, you might find it helpful once you know what sends his pulse racing how you feel in that same situation, what you hunger for, how it works for you...this can be translated into a situation where you return the favour with the right headspace as opposed to playing the role of trying to please from a perspective you do not feel entirely comfortable with at this point.

http://farm3.static.flickr.com/2233/2052066401_be7d982856_t.jpg Catalina

 

[chelleb]

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[chelleb]

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