one touch and I'll cum

[bigdaddy56]

My wife has not been in the mood latley, I seems like like forever, since I came. She is always not in the mood, I think think things might be slowing down due to our age ( 28 both of us). Any ladies want to help me in this time of need.

 

[the_momur]

Old?

I feel bad for you but...slowing down becasue you're 28?

 

[bigdaddy56]

Slowing down

I am not slowing down but, my wife is. Thats why I was hoping to find a regular erotic email friend,or phone sex. Some one I can have a friendship with, But with no stings attached.

 

[DevineDD]

31 and still...

Going. I am bi, married with 3 children and can keep up with hubbie and g/f. I am not slowing down and don't intend on doing anytime soon.

Maybe you have lost the desire for one another...or maybe you need to spice things up.

Kisses and sucks

DevineDD

 

[bigdaddy56]

Not me

I find my wife sexy and fun. However, she spends all day with our kids, and when I get home she is wearing teh same old t-shirt, her hair is a mess. I know it is hard to take care of our kids. I recently lost 115 lbs, and I would like to use my new body but She seems to be so tired all the time. I had a phone sex friend for a while but I lost her. Any suggestions

 

[DevineDD]

How many kids do u have? And like I said I have 3 kids and my lil sister makes 4 kids...a hubbie, a g/f and I still have time for 2 sex partners..... Oh and lots of masturbating

DevineDD

 

[corkie2]

Oh come on!!!! I am 50 yrs old and am always horny! LOL

This is the POV of a used to be stay at home mommy and is written assuming you would like to rekindle romance with the wife. Now.....on the other hand if you don't.....well please disregard this message! lol


No, if she is slowing down it is most likely because she is stressed out and tired by the time she gets to bed. Have you tried a week end get away? If you can't afford to go somewhere get some one to take the kid's for the night and fix her a nice grilled steak......rent a couple of hot porn type movies (take her with you to go get them......maybe buy a new toy to play with). Have some nice wine ready chilled......and have fun.

I was a full time stay at home mommy for year's when raising my kid's. Believe me after spending the day with a bunch of little kid's a woman does not feel sexy. I felt emotionally wore out just because of never having adult's to talk to. I was starved for adult companionship. Does she have any outside interest's?

I suggest trying a romantic weekend. You might even suggest she help plan it unless you want to surprise her. It would let her know you still find her desirable. Tell her you want the two of you to get away together......

 

[odonna]

Corkie...you are soooooooooooooo dead on right!!!!!!!!!! I just had one child and I was dead by the end of each day.

I strongly recommend you find small ways to show her how desireable is she to you. Then don't expect her to rip off her clothes and beg for sex either....that takes some time.

The surprise weekend away for JUST adults is perfect also. You may not get the immediate results you want...but it will happen.

Keep us posted on how things are going and feel free to ask for suggestions!

 

[the_momur]

Wish you the best

A getaway is a good idea but she might need something more long-lasting. I can only speak from my experience (and male perspective) but I found that exercise helped my energy level immensely. I know, watching the children is a tiring, full time job and I've had many physically demanding jobs that have tired me out BUT, I've found that being tired from a long day and being tired from a workout are two seperate types of "tired". Even something as simple as taking a walk every day can be a 'relaxing workout". (kind of an oxymoron I know but it's true). If she could find just a little time each day, who knows?
Anyway, that's my two cents worth. I hope everything works out for you both. TM

 

[bigdaddy56]

Thanks

I just wanted to say thanks for the advice, I do agree about exercise. I workout 4 times a week and I feel great. I will be trying to find some one to watch our boys a weekend I would love, but We know no one in town. But I will make every effort. Thanks again to allof you.