One thing that I do not understand.....

[barn888]

One of the things that I enjoy most about sex is giving my girl oral, looking up at her while I lick and suck her, seeing her expresion change time after time, I love it, some of my friends say they hate giving their ladies oral, of course they love getting oral, I tell the selfish bastards that they have no idea what they are missing! So do you enjoy giving oral to your girl, if not why? And ladies, would you dump a guy if he did'nt like to eat the muffin???

 

[Hoss1026]

I like givng oral - to me, it's the best way to ensure the lady has an orgasm or two or three before I do...

 

[barn888]

Exactly! And thanks for the responce, I was starting to feel very unliked!

 

[shescurious]

I was in a relationship with a man who didn't give oral. However, I like to give oral. I found myself always giving and never recieving. I eventually told him that if I didn't get oral he didn't either. So he did once and it was awful. The relationship didn't last much longer after that but I never did give him oral again. We didn't split up over that though...see he had this other girlfriend...but hey that is a whole different thread....

So would I dump a guy over it...probably not but he shouldn't expect what he won't give either. So maybe...

 

[Native Alien]

i would have to agree with shescurious on the don't expect what you aren't willing to give. and to take that one step further, don't expect what you aren't willing to learn to do right if you don't know how.

i think that some people, (not any one sex, because i know women who are the same way), just do awful oral so as to not to have to do it at all. they aren't willing to invest the time to learn to do it right, thinking that they won't have to do it at all if they do it badly.

that generally leads to a breakdown (or breakup) of the relationship eventually. because it affects the sex of a relationship.

 

[wanton wonton]

I also think it should be a 2-way street in oral lovemaking. If a guy really really doesn't want to put his mouth where his cock usually goes then he should watch some instructional videos or have therapy or SOMETHING. The same with a woman. If it floats her guy's boat to be blown, and he loves pleasing her orally, then she should learn the art of fellatio.

Wonder where the vague notion that oral sex is "dirty" came from. Maybe back in the days of Christopher Columbus when people didn't bathe for years.

WW

 

[Bachlum Chaam]

I also think it should be a 2-way street in oral lovemaking. If a guy really really doesn't want to put his mouth where his cock usually goes then he should watch some instructional videos or have therapy or SOMETHING. The same with a woman. If it floats her guy's boat to be blown, and he loves pleasing her orally, then she should learn the art of fellatio.

Wonder where the vague notion that oral sex is "dirty" came from. Maybe back in the days of Christopher Columbus when people didn't bathe for years.

WW

Nice madam sums it up a treat I believe
greetings Bachlum Chaam

 

[English Lady]

I think ALL sex matters come down to give and take. A relationship where one person gives and the other receives is one sided and won't last, you ned to find a balance.

same with oral sex, either you both do it on each other or you don't. Thats the only fair way to deal with it i think

 

[BlueDaisy]

One of the things that I enjoy most about sex is giving my girl oral, looking up at her while I lick and suck her, seeing her expresion change time after time, I love it, some of my friends say they hate giving their ladies oral, of course they love getting oral, I tell the selfish bastards that they have no idea what they are missing! So do you enjoy giving oral to your girl, if not why? And ladies, would you dump a guy if he did'nt like to eat the muffin???

You might be interested in a thread that is ongoing here, called "men who truly love to lick".

 

[barn888]

Thanks for the responces, it pretty much confirmed what I thought, if ya want to get it then you should be willing to give it and give it good! I still can't understand why some guys don't like to give oral to a woman, I love it!