One sided Foreplay

[mnwidrummer]

Does anyone else seem to experience one sided foreplay? I feel like everything we do is to prepare her for intercourse. I do all the kissing, all the touching, the caressing, the rubbing and fingering. I love treating her like a queen and making her feel as good as I can, but occasionally I'd like some reciprocation. I know she doesn't like oral sex, so I'm not even asking for that. Its like I need to take her hand and put it on my balls and cock and even then she doesn't really do anything with it.

Regardless I will continue to do whatever I can to make her happy cause nothing is better than that!

 

[womaneater58]

Sounds like my ex. That's why she is my ex.

 

[JacquesSade]

I often experience this as well... in some relationships where I am allowed\expected to be mildly domme it comes with the territory. mostly I go with the flow... my current likes me to be the active seducer and it works well enough but I sometimes think she is missing out. by never initiating an guiding the experience.

 

[hopeful_wife]

First, I'd say keep in mind that depending on her level of experience before meeting you, she might not know how to make you feel good. It seems like common sense, but if a girl hasn't been with a lot of guys and doesn't watch a lot of porn, where would she learn? (A funny G&O song about this problem.)

Talk to her at some point when you're not in bed-- driving home after a nice day out or an otherwise low-pressure situation. Tell her what you love about your sex life-- how you like to rub and touch and tease her. And then ask her if there's anything else she would like that you don't know about, yet. Hopefully, somewhere in that conversation, she asks what you need/ would like. If she doesn't, you can bring up that it would feel really nice if she: rubbed your back, touched your face, kissed your chest, ran her fingers over your penis, gently rolled your balls, whatever it is that you're into and missing. It's okay to tell her that you want to feel wanted, too.

 

[Damanhere]

Does anyone else seem to experience one sided foreplay? I feel like everything we do is to prepare her for intercourse. I do all the kissing, all the touching, the caressing, the rubbing and fingering. I love treating her like a queen and making her feel as good as I can, but occasionally I'd like some reciprocation. I know she doesn't like oral sex, so I'm not even asking for that. Its like I need to take her hand and put it on my balls and cock and even then she doesn't really do anything with it.

Regardless I will continue to do whatever I can to make her happy cause nothing is better than that!

You know I have a girlfriend I have been away for 3 months I came back she met me at the door in a nice negligee we started kissing caressing I slowly let her to the bedroom started slipping her negligee off kissing nibbly licking her skin as it became exposed later back on the bed we were making out for quite a while my hands roaming over naked body she was moaning every bit of it as I worked my way down her neck cross her breasts he's in her nipples licking my way down along her tummy taking my tongue all the way down she opened her legs as I went down on her after she came I wound up hearing her phone ringing she picked up her phone talked to a guy repairing her car got out of bed got dressed and said well I got things to do I laid there dressed with my shoes still on wondering what the hell just happened

 

[Kimlikes]

Does anyone else seem to experience one sided foreplay? I feel like everything we do is to prepare her for intercourse. I do all the kissing, all the touching, the caressing, the rubbing and fingering. I love treating her like a queen and making her feel as good as I can, but occasionally I'd like some reciprocation. I know she doesn't like oral sex, so I'm not even asking for that. Its like I need to take her hand and put it on my balls and cock and even then she doesn't really do anything with it.

Regardless I will continue to do whatever I can to make her happy cause nothing is better than that!

If you could last as long as it takes to give her the pleasure we all deserve it wouldn’t be so 1 sided but because men and women are so different but so compatible we have to work a little to give our partners the pleasure they deserve

 

[TheSearcher51]

She is either selfish or has not had much experience, discuss it first, tell her how you feel, and go from there. But I would really try to get her into being a lover instead of a piece of wood.
And to Damanhere No doubt in my mind she is selfish and you need to shop around. Just saying

 

[subcherry]

Does anyone else seem to experience one sided foreplay? I feel like everything we do is to prepare her for intercourse. I do all the kissing, all the touching, the caressing, the rubbing and fingering. I love treating her like a queen and making her feel as good as I can, but occasionally I'd like some reciprocation. I know she doesn't like oral sex, so I'm not even asking for that. Its like I need to take her hand and put it on my balls and cock and even then she doesn't really do anything with it.

Regardless I will continue to do whatever I can to make her happy cause nothing is better than that!

MY fella thinks foreplay is two plays bro , he grabs my hand puts it on his cock n expects me to be hungary for it , i now have more fun on my own in seperate bedrooms , being held from behind hot breath on my neck being touched n teased is all it would take n id be his every desire. , he lives on this and other sites , ive give up im happier alone and extremly satisfied surprisingly ,

 

[Goldenfinger]

When I was younger it seemed to mostly be one sided. Normally I would rub the button and pinch nipples. Kissing was the only forplay the girls I was with knew. Then I met my wife and we are both give and take.

 

[Bbl87]

Pretty much describes our foreplay.

It's basically my job to get her in the mood, usually via some breast worship, maybe cuffing her if the mood strikes, and gradually working her up to where she actually wants to have sex. She doesn't like receiving oral, otherwise I'd do that as well because I enjoy it. But like I said, it's 99.9% for her benefit to get her to want to have sex with me. And, to be fair, to get her as wet as possible because I'm not exactly small.

Every once in awhile, she may stroke me for a minute or go down on me but that's a pretty rare occurrence. Which is odd because she claims she enjoys giving oral, but it is what it is.

 

[Bbl87]

MY fella thinks foreplay is two plays bro , he grabs my hand puts it on his cock n expects me to be hungary for it , i now have more fun on my own in seperate bedrooms , being held from behind hot breath on my neck being touched n teased is all it would take n id be his every desire. , he lives on this and other sites , ive give up im happier alone and extremly satisfied surprisingly ,

Ironically, my wife swears up and down that move would work on her. It really doesn't, but she always says to just be direct.

 

[stxjimmy]

MY fella thinks foreplay is two plays bro , he grabs my hand puts it on his cock n expects me to be hungary for it , i now have more fun on my own in seperate bedrooms , being held from behind hot breath on my neck being touched n teased is all it would take n id be his every desire. , he lives on this and other sites , ive give up im happier alone and extremly satisfied surprisingly ,

Are you the subcherry who used to post/be posted on ukex back in the day?

 

[lil_jenni]

I like mutual foreplay, but sometimes Hubby likes to just concentrate on me. So, I let him. And sometimes, I want to just concentrate on him, especially if it's foreplay leading to a round two (or three or four... ).

 

[live4thebj]

Does anyone else seem to experience one sided foreplay? I feel like everything we do is to prepare her for intercourse. I do all the kissing, all the touching, the caressing, the rubbing and fingering. I love treating her like a queen and making her feel as good as I can, but occasionally I'd like some reciprocation. I know she doesn't like oral sex, so I'm not even asking for that. Its like I need to take her hand and put it on my balls and cock and even then she doesn't really do anything with it.

Regardless I will continue to do whatever I can to make her happy cause nothing is better than that!

Yes and no. My fiancé has told me she doesn’t like giving head but she continues to do it to me to get me hard. But in the early days she would ride me then slide down suck me then ride me then suck me over and over again. For someone that doesn’t like giving head she sure does it a lot. And I also learned when she is drunk on wine she has no gag reflex. She admitted to it after deep throating me.

She can only cum by direct clit stimulation so me going down on her happens about 98% of the time.

 

[hulmule]

Yes and no. My fiancé has told me she doesn’t like giving head but she continues to do it to me to get me hard. But in the early days she would ride me then slide down suck me then ride me then suck me over and over again. For someone that doesn’t like giving head she sure does it a lot. And I also learned when she is drunk on wine she has no gag reflex. She admitted to it after deep throating me.

She can only cum by direct clit stimulation so me going down on her happens about 98% of the time.

Boy i miss going down on a sweet pussy... Wife thinks its dirty now... sad

 

[Damanhere]

MY fella thinks foreplay is two plays bro , he grabs my hand puts it on his cock n expects me to be hungary for it , i now have more fun on my own in seperate bedrooms , being held from behind hot breath on my neck being touched n teased is all it would take n id be his every desire. , he lives on this and other sites , ive give up im happier alone and extremly satisfied surprisingly ,

Good for you.

 

[GD88]

It depends on the context of the one sided foreplay. For me and my wife, "one sided foreplay" is what happens when one of us is too tired, the other is too horny, and we just let the other do what they want to do. Normally the "tired" partner gets horny enough and it becomes a two-sided affair.