one night stand heat

[daisycarly]

A month or so ago I had an incredible encounter with a boy who I've had a crush on for about a year. I met him through one of my friends but he always had a girlfriend, so I never realized how attractive he really is, slim tan build, with full lips, lush shiny long hair, a nice smile (but he never smiled on purpose he's too punk rock), usually a flannel and a cup of coffee or PBR in his hand. Me, about a foot shorter then him with a curvy post gymnast body.

One night I was out with friends drinking pretty heavily when I bumped into him. We had been chatting more and more since I found out he was newly single. We chatted at the bar and this is where I blacked out, only to wake in my bed with him in it, roll over, and there he was. I had to pinch myself from the excitement(was I dreaming?)

Foggily kind of remembering slamming him into the door and kissing him it the night before. It was a hot day today and my room was making us both drip in heat. We started kissing, me lightly biting his bottom lip as if it was a cold ice cube. We used the sweat to slide around each other exploring our bodies and choked on him until tears starting streaming down my face, I didn't even care..

Flashback now and we haven't talked since then. I moved to a new city, actually his hometown, and he is touring with his band. But I want it to happen again. Just with less alcohol so I can remember the whole thing. But I'm afraid I ruined it all by giving it up to him too quickly..help?

 

[Vagina_Dentata]

A month or so ago I had an incredible encounter with a boy who I've had a crush on for about a year. I met him through one of my friends but he always had a girlfriend, so I never realized how attractive he really is, slim tan build, with full lips, lush shiny long hair, a nice smile (but he never smiled on purpose he's too punk rock), usually a flannel and a cup of coffee or PBR in his hand. Me, about a foot shorter then him with a curvy post gymnast body.

One night I was out with friends drinking pretty heavily when I bumped into him. We had been chatting more and more since I found out he was newly single. We chatted at the bar and this is where I blacked out, only to wake in my bed with him in it, roll over, and there he was. I had to pinch myself from the excitement(was I dreaming?)

Foggily kind of remembering slamming him into the door and kissing him it the night before. It was a hot day today and my room was making us both drip in heat. We started kissing, me lightly biting his bottom lip as if it was a cold ice cube. We used the sweat to slide around each other exploring our bodies and choked on him until tears starting streaming down my face, I didn't even care..

Flashback now and we haven't talked since then. I moved to a new city, actually his hometown, and he is touring with his band. But I want it to happen again. Just with less alcohol so I can remember the whole thing. But I'm afraid I ruined it all by giving it up to him too quickly..help?

With a boy?

 

[daisycarly]

hes 25, but he seems to be like a boy. He's on tour in his band, but thats his life..

 

[parodyluvr75]

So you didn't talk because he didn't call you or you didn't return his calls?

 

[Noor]

Text him and ask him out next time he is in the same town you are?

Men are willing to give up sex all the time, and we still want more of them, why should this be any different?

 

[Conager]

A guy in a traveling band who is too punk-rock to smile on purpose...

Let me guess, he is the bass player?

What could possibly go wrong in this happily-ever-after story?

 

[Garnate]

A guy in a traveling band who is too punk-rock to smile on purpose...

Let me guess, he is the bass player?

What could possibly go wrong in this happily-ever-after story?

You mean after the cops have to get involved because of her stalking? I mean, I'm too lazy to move to the hometown of a guy I want to sleep with again so I applaud her.

 

[Conager]

You mean after the cops have to get involved because of her stalking? I mean, I'm too lazy to move to the hometown of a guy I want to sleep with again so I applaud her.

I don't think you can stalk a a band. I think that behavior is called being a groupie and is encouraged.

 

[Ms_McG]

Waiting would not have changed whether he was into you or not. He is young, having fun.

 

[DesEsseintes]

You mean after the cops have to get involved because of her stalking? I mean, I'm too lazy to move to the hometown of a guy I want to sleep with again so I applaud her.

You won't even come to England, and it's barely 10 hours away.

 

[kbate]

The basic problem as I see it (based solely from your OP) is that it indicates that you are a drunken slut and he's unlikely to see that as attractive beyond the encounter already completed.

Blackout drinkers aren't worth keeping around.

 

[daisycarly]

So you didn't talk because he didn't call you or you didn't return his calls?

he left to go tour while i was home at school and i didnt really know what to text him or say to him days after

 

[daisycarly]

Text him and ask him out next time he is in the same town you are?

Men are willing to give up sex all the time, and we still want more of them, why should this be any different?

idk hes extremely handsome and has a huge ego but im intrigued with him because he is very sweet and interesting and funny

 

[daisycarly]

The basic problem as I see it (based solely from your OP) is that it indicates that you are a drunken slut and he's unlikely to see that as attractive beyond the encounter already completed.

Blackout drinkers aren't worth keeping around.

to respond to the above post no hes a drummer hahaha but also plays bass. and yes i do feel like a drunken slut the tequila took over me and i went too far inviting him back to my house. exactly. i really want a do-over because im unsatisfied. but im not a groupie either

 

[JohnnySavage]

he left to go tour while i was home at school and i didnt really know what to text him or say to him days after

Just go back to the bar and get passed out drunk. I'm sure you'll wake up in the bed of another knight in shining armor.

 

[bronzeage]

hes 25, but he seems to be like a boy. He's on tour in his band, but thats his life..

That pretty settles it. An immature musician, what a catch.

I don't see any future in this until you start calling the men in your life, "men", instead of boys.

 

[Aquagal]

He has a girl in every port, you'll probably get your turn again...eventually.

 

[pollynova]

usually a flannel and a cup of coffee or PBR in his hand.

Yay! A hipster.

 

[Lord Pmann]

I'm wondering if you feel this heat mostly when you pee. If so... The clap.

 

[parodyluvr75]

he left to go tour while i was home at school and i didnt really know what to text him or say to him days after

Then he's not into you or has someone he's into more. If you sleep with him again use condoms, please.

 

[CyranoJ]

daisycarly: If your black-out truly starts pretty much right at the point where you started chatting with him at the bar, that sounds kind of... suspect, to be honest.

 

[Conager]

to respond to the above post no hes a drummer hahaha but also plays bass. and yes i do feel like a drunken slut the tequila took over me and i went too far inviting him back to my house. exactly. i really want a do-over because im unsatisfied. but im not a groupie either

You like guys with very few redeeming qualities other than the fact that they are in a band and have long hair. By definition that makes you a groupie.

Guys learn how to play the bass and grow their hair long in hopes of meeting groupies. Actual musicians do not pose in flannel with a PBR in their hand and a scowl in hopes of looking punk rock.

There's nothing particularly wrong with wanting to play with a stereotype. Plenty of guys are fine with bangng bleach blonde augmented Barbie dolls. The good news for you is there are lots of girls that like guys in the band. So he's getting lots of practice and he should be really good at it when he comes back through town.

 

[CyranoJ]

Actual musicians do not pose in flannel with a PBR in their hand and a scowl in hopes of looking punk rock.

Preach it.

 

[thør]

A month or so ago I had an incredible encounter with a boy who I've had a crush on for about a year. I met him through one of my friends but he always had a girlfriend, so I never realized how attractive he really is, slim tan build, with full lips, lush shiny long hair, a nice smile (but he never smiled on purpose he's too punk rock), usually a flannel and a cup of coffee or PBR in his hand. Me, about a foot shorter then him with a curvy post gymnast body.

One night I was out with friends drinking pretty heavily when I bumped into him. We had been chatting more and more since I found out he was newly single. We chatted at the bar and this is where I blacked out, only to wake in my bed with him in it, roll over, and there he was. I had to pinch myself from the excitement(was I dreaming?)

Foggily kind of remembering slamming him into the door and kissing him it the night before. It was a hot day today and my room was making us both drip in heat. We started kissing, me lightly biting his bottom lip as if it was a cold ice cube. We used the sweat to slide around each other exploring our bodies and choked on him until tears starting streaming down my face, I didn't even care..

Flashback now and we haven't talked since then. I moved to a new city, actually his hometown, and he is touring with his band. But I want it to happen again. Just with less alcohol so I can remember the whole thing. But I'm afraid I ruined it all by giving it up to him too quickly..help?

Roofied?

 

[CyranoJ]

Roofied?

That's what it sounds awfully like to me.