RoamingTyro
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- Dec 6, 2005
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I've been turning this over in my head for quite some time and have decided to start taking steps to unlocking my self-imposed chastity belt. I've come here to bounce these thoughts off of you all who may have had some experience doing the same or, at the least, are sexually thoughtful enough to give rational, hopefully unbiased, reactions and opinions. I'm aware that I may be giving too much thought to this as well, over-thinking something that for some is purely natural. So it goes.
I've always had a kinky side and for the past few years have had the pleasure of dating a woman with whom I was able to explore and share in that side. We made it to a swingers club a few times and enjoyed it. We've been split on good terms for a while, occasionally still sleep with one another and have even spoken about meeting with other couples again. As great as that is, I've wanted to venture out on my own. Needless to say the single male rarely gets the worm and usually for good reason. With the intent on not putting myself on a pedestal I'd like to think that I'm different. Original, right?
I've specifically been looking for a woman with whom to find other couples to play with, go to clubs with, etc... I've prowled craigslist for a while and have had luck but only with couple to couple. I've found a few other sites offering swinger dating services, the most legit of which seems to be SLS. I've always been leery of online dating / meeting but that's what it's come to. And I'm wondering... is that my only option?
Also I've been having further thoughts on the ethics of looking for a partner for just that one reason. Is it naive of me to think that such a relationship, no strings, no bonds forming, can actually persist, even if both parties enter into it claiming the same?
I guess that's as good a place to start anyway.
Thoughts?
I've always had a kinky side and for the past few years have had the pleasure of dating a woman with whom I was able to explore and share in that side. We made it to a swingers club a few times and enjoyed it. We've been split on good terms for a while, occasionally still sleep with one another and have even spoken about meeting with other couples again. As great as that is, I've wanted to venture out on my own. Needless to say the single male rarely gets the worm and usually for good reason. With the intent on not putting myself on a pedestal I'd like to think that I'm different. Original, right?
I've specifically been looking for a woman with whom to find other couples to play with, go to clubs with, etc... I've prowled craigslist for a while and have had luck but only with couple to couple. I've found a few other sites offering swinger dating services, the most legit of which seems to be SLS. I've always been leery of online dating / meeting but that's what it's come to. And I'm wondering... is that my only option?
Also I've been having further thoughts on the ethics of looking for a partner for just that one reason. Is it naive of me to think that such a relationship, no strings, no bonds forming, can actually persist, even if both parties enter into it claiming the same?
I guess that's as good a place to start anyway.
Thoughts?
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