On a scale of 1-10, where do these relationship offenses rate?

[CoyoteHoward]

Assume a traditional, monogamous marriage. Traditional vows.

1 is "Eh, no big deal."
10 is "Divorce. Right now."

• Not taking out the trash
• "Huh?" constantly
• Physical sex with someone other than the partner
• Sexting
• Harmless flirting
• Fishing without partner
• Guys/poker night
• Girls night
• Strip club
• Bachelor/bachelorette one night stand
• Punching or hitting.

Feel free to add your own and get feedback from the group.

 

[Justhappytobealive]

Don’t forget,
Not Loading The Dishwasher Right…!

 

[Rob_Royale]

Hitting/abuse is a solid 9.
Infidelity is my only 10 - one strike and you're gone infraction. She's known it since we were dating.
I've let her do a little sexy chatting/sexting years ago, and it got real creepy real quick. She's never mentioned it since, as an interest, except with me. The rest of it isn't even a blip on the radar.

 

[Noor]

• Not taking out the trash 3
• "Huh?" constantly 5
• Physical sex with someone other than the partner 10 if without me
• Sexting 7
• Harmless flirting 2
• Fishing without partner -fishing?
• Guys/poker night 3
• Girls night 7
• Strip club 9
• Bachelor/bachelorette one night stand 10
• Punching or hitting. 10

 

[FL30]

Assume a traditional, monogamous marriage. Traditional vows.

1 is "Eh, no big deal."
10 is "Divorce. Right now."

• Not taking out the trash
• "Huh?" constantly
• Physical sex with someone other than the partner
• Sexting
• Harmless flirting
• Fishing without partner
• Guys/poker night
• Girls night
• Strip club
• Bachelor/bachelorette one night stand
• Punching or hitting.

Feel free to add your own and get feedback from the group.

It's whatever you want them to be. Everyone's different, everyone's relationship is different.

But hitting/punching is a solid no-no and should be a no-no in everyone's book. It only escalates from there and can lead to more abuse or even death.

 

[Stewart_Pidd]

• Not taking out the trash - 1
• "Huh?" constantly - 1
• Physical sex with someone other than the partner - 9
• Sexting - 9
• Harmless flirting - 1
• Fishing without partner (don't do)
• Guys/poker night (don't do)
• Girls night - 1
• Strip club (no interest)
• Bachelor/bachelorette one night stand (don't do)
• Punching or hitting. (wouldn't happen)

 

[Plasmaball]

All 10s