Older Women with Young Men

hotjimmy

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I'm curious to hear peoples thoughts or experiences on why we hear about a lot of women who seduce younger men.
Female teachers, tutors or someone in a position of power who sleep with a younger man.
Is it a Maternal instinct thing where the female feels like she needs to nurture the younger adult or is it just lust and temptation?
Any females ever get into a situation like this ?
 
Im in my early 30s and get hit on far more aggressively by older women than I do women my age or younger. I find this especially to be the case when im wearing something form fitting that accentuates the chest and arms or if im in dress clothing. I think it may be because those older women maybe feel they have less time to waste so they be more forward about things.
 
Im in my early 30s and get hit on far more aggressively by older women than I do women my age or younger. I think its because those older women maybe feel they have less time to waste so they be more forward about things.
That's true. Also, older women don't need to get the thrill of being chased, etc. They've been there, done that.
 
I think both men and women are often physically attracted to partners that are younger than themselves. It's just easier for women to act successfully on it. When an older woman flirts with a younger guy, it's slightly embarrassing at worst. When an older guy tries to pick up a younger woman, it's considered creepy.

Also, younger women can more easily have sex when they want to, compared to younger men. So it's only natural that the younger men will leap at the opportunities offered to them.
 
I've got nothing against the older woman - younger man hookup or relationship. What strikes me is how many older women -- especially teachers -- have been charged recently with sex crimes because they've engaged in a sexual and/or grooming relationship with their male students. It almost seems like it's an epidemic in NYC public schools.

I've had the great fortune of making love to women older than me, but that didn't happen until I was in my 40s and they were in their 50s, 60s and 70s. I can see why older women prefer younger men. They might be more respectful to them than their same-age peers. It also can also provide them with an opportunity to give advice, teaching a younger man on the ways of life and love, etc. Some of that happened to me with the older ladies I was with.

The question that many might ask is are these longterm relationships. Do they go the distance? Some do. But I only know one married couple where she's older than he is; the age difference is five years. They seem as happy today as they were 17 years ago when they were married.
 
In my experience, older women seem to be more bold in flirting with younger men. I had a few of them hitting on me in my mid 20s and early 30s. Most of them were divorced women looking to just have some fun with no strings attached. Not all of them one night stands but just casual sex for a small period of time. Thanks to them, i learned a lot of things about pleasing a woman, as younger men just tend to just go in and out till they are done. So, wherever you are ladies, THANK YOU!!!
 
I haven’t been with a younger man but I know women who do.

I think what men and women want changes with age - when men are younger they are more likely to want freedom, no strings and it’s all about the sex as they get older they are more likely to want to settle down.

For a lot of those women I think when they are younger they are looking to settle down (a lot of women are pretty uneducated about sex and society can limit sexual behaviour) and when they get older have done the settling and think stuff it I want the freedom, no strings and all the sex 😂.
 
My wife's experiences in her 30's was being pursued as the sexy older woman by 20-somthing men. They called on the medical office where she worked and were eager for sex with an experience woman. She gave a few of them a thrill, one time only for each.
 
I have always wanted the freedom of enjoying what I wanted to enjoy with whomever I wanted. There is a freedom of being with someone older (experience, desire, fulfilling a need, and tabooness) and with being with someone younger (raw animal passion, energy, .and tabooness).
 
When I was in my twenties I had affairs with two older married women. The one was treated horrible by her husband and the other was I believe bored with her marriage. I enjoyed my time with them , especially the thought of taking another man's wife and them going home with my cum in them.
 
I’m an older guy. I hit the gym to stay in shape for when that special day arrives. That’s a hint to the younger women on here. The young ladies at the gym are amazing.
 
I’ve always loved older women, the experience and confidence, I’m 36 and recently had a fling with a 49 year old, amazing!
 
I have been an older woman's younger man for a long time and I really appreciated the envious scandalized looks. I also think there's something feminist about it; tiresome big shot guys have always flaunted young mistresses but let's lavish this privilege on wonderful women!
 
My wife had a 23 year old 2 days after her 55th birthday. I caught them on the dining room table by coming home at the wrong time. She said afterwards it was just pure lust and when he fucked her for well over an hour before he came himself, after she had orgasmed a few times, she knew she wanted it again. The noises she was making at the time gave a clue as to how much she was enjoying it. He was, and is, the son of friends of ours and that led her to more of the same. She has been very promiscuous since she was 30, but with men of around her own age, and now at 70 she still sees Martin and a number of others.
 
I'm curious to hear peoples thoughts or experiences on why we hear about a lot of women who seduce younger men.
Female teachers, tutors or someone in a position of power who sleep with a younger man.
Is it a Maternal instinct thing where the female feels like she needs to nurture the younger adult or is it just lust and temptation?
Any females ever get into a situation like this ?
Maybe they just know which younger men are going to be interested and then pursue it to its conclusion? My wife let a paramedic go in front of her in the supermarket queue because obviously paramedics are busier than housewives shopping. She spoke to him in the car park and it seems she gave him her number 'in case he was ever in need of a cup of tea in our area'. He got much more than a cup of tea although she says it was not her intention at the outset. I do not believe her given her history but there it is. This was a couple of years ago when she was 68 and he was 27. She still sees him and he is very attentive and no doubt she has found precisely what keeps him interested. No PMs please.
 
Young people often have an energy, a thirst for life and a curiostity that can be missing in some older ones. Those are all attractive traits in themselves - it doesn't have to be about anything maternal or physical.

I think most adults think of themselves as younger than they actually are. Is it so strange if we are attracted to people that match our self-image rather than the calendar years?
 
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