Older woman

[stargazer2]

Hello folks,
new too this b.b and hope that you can shed some light on this topic.

First off, I'm female and have always been attracted to same. I have it really bad for a woman who is late 40's maybe 50. I have known her for several years and just feel like I could melt to nothing when she is in my presence.
We are both in relationships and man she's just got to know how bad I have it for her. It would be crazy for me to tell her how I'm feeling because I just think it would be a nasty
and self serving thing to do. Plus I adore my partner.

Are these types of crushes normal. I feel like I'm cheating on my partner even though nothing has happened. I'm also curious. What is the old sex drive like when you are in your fifties. Probably just depends on the individual.
Any one here experience this nagging kind of a crush?

Thanks.

 

[Wizard]

Hummmm , Boy ya got me on that one.......I just don't know what to say there.

 

[Svedish_Chef]

I always have a nagging type of crush but the people change occasionally.

The worst thing about it is she probably doesn't know about it, but since it is a better/safer idea not to tell her maybe not so bad.

Hope you find your answer

Da chef

 

[stargazer2]

Perhaps just mind candy. Thanks for your advice. I'm sure that I will survive.

 

[Ted]

Hi Stargazer,

Well, Im new to all this, and I hope Im not jumping where I shouldnt be. Ive had a crush on this lady Ive known for over 5 years now. I met her my second day at my new job, she made a point of comming over to talk to me. This beautiful young lady actually wanted to talk to me. Im not dog meat, just very bashful. Anyway, after I picked my tongue off the floor, and got to know her, I realized that she was an angel whom fell from the heavens to be my friend and walk with me through this journey I am on. I have told her how I feel about her, I would kick my own ass later in life if I had kept my mouth shut. She is married, and I in a relationship, but I am human, and my feelings are gonna be what they want. I have not persued anything with her (except once before she was married) nor would I now. Im happy to have this wonderful woman in my life, and cant imagine it any other way. And yes, I still have this major crush on her. Does that make me a bad person? I dont think so, and neither are you. Were all the same deep down inside....all human.

 

[stargazer2]

Thanks Ted,

this woman is very much like an angel too. Bless your heart

 

[Ted]

*blush* Your welcome.