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Lesliefem

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Yes,
I'm 40, (My name is Leslie) I'm hapilly married with 3 children
(Son 18, Daughter 12, Son 5).

I've been married 20 years this past April and was faithful until summer of 2000 when I for some reason had an affair with an 18 year old guy who worked with me.

Since then all I've been thinking about is SEX, all kinds, my husband doesn't know of my affair and in fact after that first affair I have had others. I just want to see if I can TALK my way out of this horniness.

I've done some shameful things since that summer I started cheating and am afraid I'll be lead (by others or myself) to some really more bad things.
 
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Hey MOMMA!!!

Hey Leslie, You sond sexy!!!

Tel me what you dide with your young stud!
Have he foreced you or do you like him?

Have you ever got buttfucked by him?
 
Reply to Friendlyguy

OK,
I guess I should have expected all the dirty men to start asking questions!!

Yes, my ass has been taken by probably 20+ young dicks in the past year, happy?
 
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wanna chat? and if you want to just say so and ill contact you
 
hi

I am a 20 year old chap that needs to fuck an older women. I am interested in erotic chat and pictures and possible more, please contact me
 
25 yr old Canuck

Hey there my sexy sweet, I am a very sensual, young eager
man.

I love to imagine many things, expecially when I am encouraged.

we could chat on icq or talk on the phone
Beep me if you dare

Thrudd 117113616

THIS IS OPEN TO ANY LADIES
 
erotic chat

Leslie,
Very honest and to the point message. No you won't be able to talk your way out of anything but your clothes. You are enjoying yourself and having a great time. Sex does that to people.

Can you keep you marriage together is the question? I would love to talk with you and enjoy erotic chats...let me know if you are interested. E-mail me at bones18034@hotmail.com. Your phone and when to call if you dare.
 
a young one 4 you

I am 27 male,, I am looking for some one to have an online fling with....on yahooo(live cam) if you like this pic then email me or pm me :)...I am looking forward to seeing you


jameer

C:\Documents and Settings\ADMINISTRATOR\My Documents\My Pictures\QuickCam\Album\Pictures and Videos\Pictures\Picture 2.jpg
 
Yowza!

Talk's cheap, but while we're on that subject, isn't phone sex fun? Does phone sex even *count* as infidelity?
 
Hello Leslie,
Seeing's how I don't know all the relevant details of your life... take all that follows with a grain of salt... I am not any kind of Doctor and the advice is not endorsed as such...(that's my disclaimer...)

The first question I'd have for you is "have you sought out professional help"? I t might be helpful or unneccesary for you, it all depends on what end your're trying to reach through your post. If you want to talk through your desires to return your life to it's state prior to your affair then read what follows and depending upon your own conclusions you may still wish to get help in some form (whether a professional counseler or support group) as that is how most psych pro's will deal with it anyhow, they let you talk yourself to the point they want you to get to (with a few helpful pointers) while charging big bucks.

My two cents on the issue;

1. Everyone goes through the "seven year itch" phase of wanting someone other than their mates. It can happen anytime in the relationship. Not everyone acts on the impulses it's an individual thing to work through, either alone or with your spouse's understanding and help.

2. When we deny an impulse and don't work it out in it's earliest stages the impulse can build and build until we do act on it. An example might be speeding... we're taught not to speed when driving, but everyone will want to speed at some point. Holding back from acting on the impulse only makes the impulse stronger through denial... the next time the urge is stronger to speed and requires more mental energy to overcome...(denying yourself chocolate or some other comfort food because of dieting is another example that comes to mind)

3. We all have deeply rooted do's and don'ts (taboos) in our mental makeup. The problem with them is that when on of the don'ts get's busted out by action you can be swept away by it, like standing under a dam when the floodwaters come down. This shift is often very shocking to people and some will totally give in to the new form of actions in their lives because they are so overwhelmed by them. An example might be someone who comes out of the closet and are adamantly, militantly, bought into that venue or lifestyle without any thought that there might be other options for them when only days before they were exactly the opposite in their mindset.

Have you ever dieted on a denial type of program? The situation you're describing may be analogous to this. Years of denial that eventually expresses itself in a spree of actions. For instance early on in your relationship you may have felt the desire for change... this change may have been the desire for an affair that went unacted upon or a shift in the relationship from the one phase into another that left you feeling unsatisfied. Either way this lack of fulfillment eventually expressed itself through your recent actions.

Is there hope?

Yes. It all hinges on what you define as the end result you are seeking. From there it is a matter of working through yourself to a defined set of goals.

The number one thing to keep in mind is being honest with yourself.
You mentioned "shameful acts" in your posting. Are they really shameful? At the moment to you they must not have seemed so or would you have acted on them?
A large part of this is that you may be looking at your actions with the same set of judmental beliefs that you had before you began commiting them and judging yourself by them.

Maybe what you're doing is wrong, maybe it's not, the question is: What drives you to do them? Idnetify the root causes of WHY you want to do these things and you may find the reason for your actions and feel some degree of control over yourself. This isn't a magic bullet that will "fix" you or even neccesarily change how you act. The idea is that by knowing your own motivations you will empower yourself to be able to act in the manner you really desire to, whether it's seeking to return to a certain point in your familt relationship or living a double "alternative" lifestyle or making changes in you current life that reconcile your desires and needs.

Hope this rambling helps,
:cool:
Doug
 
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love older women/mom types

i would love to chat with you hun, feel free to email or pm me.......i have a pic
27 in so cal



james in costa mesa california
 
Hey, you asked for somebody young, and you might not get anyone younger than me on this board! im nearly 19, so if you want to chat about anything, reply to this please
 
I just wanna point out that you junior einsteins are posting to get a response from someone who hasn't posted in over 2 years. Pay attaention to when messages were created. Later.
 
loose all the ham shanks girl - break free an get over here to liverpool next year for our matthew st festival xx:)
 
replicant said:
I just wanna point out that you junior einsteins are posting to get a response from someone who hasn't posted in over 2 years. Pay attaention to when messages were created. Later.
Click to expand...

Some people are slow on the uptake! Junior Einsteins? Man that made me laugh!!!
 
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