Older Widows abandoning all sexual norms?

[CurtGiles46]

I sometimes wonder if older widows just abandon all sexual norms and become sluts like having sex with the mail man and stuff like that?

A friend of mine who is a trucker said he’ll occasionally see women over 55 or 60 lingering around truck stops just wanting to be passed around from one trucker to another.

I find it kind of hot to think that maybe people reach a certain age or life circumstances and they no longer care about the downfall of their social reputation and they just make their whole life having the most bodily sexual pleasures.

 

[haventdonethat]

Old Ben Franklin was, for the most part, correct!

I have been with two widows, one in the past and now my present GF.
They were/are the most wanton women I have ever met. Totally insatiable, multi orgasmic and very W E T!

 

[Ssbbw4u1974]

I'm not 55, I'm almost 50 and have been a widow for near 2½ years. For myself, I was promiscuous since I was 18.. but, I was a very independent woman my whole life, and enjoyed having sexual encounters often

I'm thinking that the reason older widows may turn slutty is because a lot of women lived with their parents until they turned 18, then got married right away?
When I was 18, I babysat for a lady who had just left her husband. Her story was just that, as I described above. Married right out of high school, now she was feeling lost.

So, the women are now single/widowed and death does something to the libido. At least for me. Mine increased after my spouse died. I didn't go for anyone IRL, only virtual.. but I use orgasms to cover the pain.,

I hope this helps

 

[Hotshots44]

Let me tell you, that i've had the horniest dirty talk dm communikation here on lit with a lovely lady, who is in her 60s

 

[hulmule]

I've always loved older woman. Been with a few widows . There have never been with anyone else, so it was a whole new world to explore for them. Boy am i glad. They are wonderful lovers . i'm mid 60's now and still love and would pleasure an older woman

 

[womaneater58]

I'd love to find an older woman, widow or not.

 

[MrMikelobe1952]

I sometimes wonder if older widows just abandon all sexual norms and become sluts like having sex with the mail man and stuff like that?

A friend of mine who is a trucker said he’ll occasionally see women over 55 or 60 lingering around truck stops just wanting to be passed around from one trucker to another.

I find it kind of hot to think that maybe people reach a certain age or life circumstances and they no longer care about the downfall of their social reputation and they just make their whole life having the most bodily sexual pleasures.

I suppose its arousing to think of them as horny older women. But its also worth considering that they are desperate poverty-stricken women looking to make some money.

 

[Monica_112]

Men hit their sexual peak at 19, women hit theirs in their late 30s and 40s

do the math

 

[StrongMaster7]

As an older (63) man with a wife who is not interested in sex, I know a few women my age who may be married to men who are not interested in sex. It may be wishful thinking, but sometimes I feel like we should be able to take care of each other's need.

 

[jimmy_woods]

As an older (63) man with a wife who is not interested in sex, I know a few women my age who may be married to men who are not interested in sex. It may be wishful thinking, but sometimes I feel like we should be able to take care of each other's need.

Seems like it could be a win-win situation for both sides.

 

[twister947]

I suppose its arousing to think of them as horny older women. But its also worth considering that they are desperate poverty-stricken women looking to make some money.

Or drug addicted.

 

[Luganis]

Years ago I read a book about how men and women change as they age.

“The primary female sex hormones are estrogen and progesterone, which means men's primary sex hormone is testosterone. However, women do produce small amounts of this as well. Similarly, men also produce small amounts of estrogen and progesterone.”​

According to the book, women that went through menopause (and men through andropause) suffer of hormonal changes or imbalances.

Some women start to produce more testosterone and less estrogen (after menopause) in their body, increasing libido (as well as other effects).

Some men (after andropause) instead produce less testosterone generating an imbalance in their body and lower libido, and become softer and more caring.

I hope this may explain a bit the changes. Of course, society norms, and lack of sexual exploration in their early 20’s may also have a psychological effect…

 

[Winchester3030]

As an older (63) man with a wife who is not interested in sex, I know a few women my age who may be married to men who are not interested in sex. It may be wishful thinking, but sometimes I feel like we should be able to take care of each other's need.

I totally agree with this, my wife and I get along great. She doesn’t like sex , I Do! Looks like the world would be a happier place if we could get our needs met

 

[Islander55]

I think that one issue is that women tend to get wrapped up in being a good wife and mother when they get married and once the kids are grown and on their own and especially after losing a husband they cared for, they may well decide to indulge their sexual side. An older women is no longer a virgin, knows what sex is all about and probably does not have to worry about getting knocked up. I know for myself as I get older, there is that feeling of "if not now, when".

 

[Crownvic]

I think that one issue is that women tend to get wrapped up in being a good wife and mother when they get married and once the kids are grown and on their own and especially after losing a husband they cared for, they may well decide to indulge their sexual side. An older women is no longer a virgin, knows what sex is all about and probably does not have to worry about getting knocked up. I know for myself as I get older, there is that feeling of "if not now, when".

Ready for some new sexual adventures....

 

[Bettytheboo]

I'm older, and I've been divorced for decades and I love being free of marriage. I've had sex with some wonderful men who feel the same. I've always had a big sex drive since I hit puberty, now I'm in my 60's I still love sex and it shows no sign of abating.

 

[SheWaits4it]

As an older widow, I know that my libido is still strong (why am I here). I can enjoy sex without the trappings of life. I don't need to worry about cheating, I don't have to worry about getting pregnant. I don't want a marriage; I had that. I want the thrill that sex brings. I want communication. I don't want it broadcast to the world that I'm still enjoy sexual relations. Just because widows are older doesn't mean they can't be great partners.

 

[Crownvic]

I'm older, and I've been divorced for decades and I love being free of marriage. I've had sex with some wonderful men who feel the same. I've always had a big sex drive since I hit puberty, now I'm in my 60's I still love sex and it shows no sign of abating.

That’s fantastic Betty..

 

[Islander55]

Ready for some new sexual adventures....

I feel that sex is an important part of my life. I think it is good for me both mentally and physically. While I do get out and do many things that I enjoy, having a nice orgasm still rates pretty high for me. I have been fortunate with good health and do try and stay reasonably fit. I guess being retired does give one the ability to enjoy more than one hobby.

 

[SheWaits4it]

I suppose its arousing to think of them as horny older women. But its also worth considering that they are desperate poverty-stricken women looking to make some money.

I take offense to this. I am not poverty stricken. I do not need a sugar daddy. I am a woman with normal sexual desires. Just because I am a widow doesn't mean I died too!

 

[OlderHubby71]

I totally agree with this, my wife and I get along great. She doesn’t like sex , I Do! Looks like the world would be a happier place if we could get our needs met

Same situation here. Could not agree more.

 

[Uncut1969]

Give me A older women every time no games and they know what they want and tell you! No hang ups ! I have always been attracted older women

 

[stxjimmy]

I'm older, and I've been divorced for decades and I love being free of marriage. I've had sex with some wonderful men who feel the same. I've always had a big sex drive since I hit puberty, now I'm in my 60's I still love sex and it shows no sign of abating.

Lovely post Betty, it’s good to hear of an older person still enjoying erotic fun
on their own terms and accepting/following their own desires
without the need to be in a relationship. x

 

[Bettytheboo]

Thank you!

Lovely post Betty, it’s good to hear of an older person still enjoying erotic fun
on their own terms and accepting/following their own desires
without the need to be in a relationship. x

 

[allthetimeitsthere]

As an older widow, I know that my libido is still strong (why am I here). I can enjoy sex without the trappings of life. I don't need to worry about cheating, I don't have to worry about getting pregnant. I don't want a marriage; I had that. I want the thrill that sex brings. I want communication. I don't want it broadcast to the world that I'm still enjoy sexual relations. Just because widows are older doesn't mean they can't be great partners.

Very true, thanks for saying that.