Older or Younger? Your choice!

[Darksaint]

Hey all! I'm new to the thread but wanted to know what you all thought about dating/fooling with a member of the opposite sex. Do you prefer older or younger? If so, do you have a quick blurb why you do? Facination or not, voice your thoughts!

I myself love older women. I'm currently 25 but find myself looking to older women for my affections. Something about being with an older woman makes me crazy! My experience stems from my first time and honestly my best! I was travelling and met her while eating out. She and I went and had a few drinks and really hit it off. I was a bit scared she'd laugh at me because I was a virgin, but oh... was she gentle and take good care of me!! Get shivers just thinking about it! And I'd love to experience that again Feel free to PM me if your a female. I don't rule out that younger than 25 aren't fun to be with just maybe I need some proof. So far the older women are winning in my book.

This was originally posted in the personals... so no, your not seeing deja vu!

 

[Darksaint]

hehe, bumping my own thread *cheers*

 

[kikmosa]

I said younger but it's because my current interest is 5 years younger then me.

 

[Darksaint]

Hehe, that's ok! We'd be in a tough fix if we all liked everyone the same age! It's what tipped me off to this question!

Sad to say, I don't have a current. Actively looking - work a ton but hoping this site might open up a chance or two.

So they are 5 years younger? How long you been together and is it still like the first day?

 

[kikmosa]

Hehe, that's ok! We'd be in a tough fix if we all liked everyone the same age! It's what tipped me off to this question!

Sad to say, I don't have a current. Actively looking - work a ton but hoping this site might open up a chance or two.

So they are 5 years younger? How long you been together and is it still like the first day?

Lol, he doesn't even know I'm interested. He's a good friend of mine and we share an apartment. But he has a girlfriend and I care enough for him not to get between them.
Have to go now. Bed time for mee. Have to work early tomorrow. Night.

 

[Darksaint]

night sleep well!

I hope love guides your heart and your dreams

 

[midwestyankee]

When I was in high school and college I preferred older girls but by a few years out of college I started to date younger women and there has been a younger woman (or more than one) in my life ever since.

Younger women still see life in terms of possibilities not lost opportunities. I am a quintessential optimist at heart and younger women always seem to have a more joyful outlook on life.

 

[Darksaint]

hey 5 people voted!
Seems like I'm not the only one the older opposite sex! It's close tho, 3 - 2!
Feel free to post why you like what you like, this is not a place to be shy!

 

[Darksaint]

Very insightful!
Thanks Midwestyankee!

I think that older women have an aura to them that cannot be mistaken for anything but confidence in themselves. I'm attracted to women who are very passionate about their feelings and have gone over a few bumps in the road to get there.

Keep posting!

 

[Darksaint]

Here's a bump for my thread!


I had an older woman who really cared for me - I was an idiot and threw it away because we lived in different states. I wish I had another chance for her. Sometimes Youth can shine through at the worst times! Gotta Live and learn


So for the one that got away --- a thousand (F) for you!

 

[Sapphiregem]

Well I would prefer younger for many reason as long as they look older then me though LOL

 

[chrys]

I said older but honestly lately I've been turned on by damn near every guy that walks by me.

 

[Darksaint]

so you want a younger companion that looks older than you?! Hmmm... *brainstorms*

LoL

what interests you so much about the younger opposite sex?

 

[Darksaint]

Chrys I'd say the same about women!! LoL

Some young guys, and I do mean some ( under 2%) can act mature in most if not all situations

I'm still a kid at heart and don't want to let go of that.

 

[Sapphiregem]

so you want a younger companion that looks older than you?! Hmmm... *brainstorms*

LoL

what interests you so much about the younger opposite sex?

Well I am not talking about that much younger

Hell no I want a man with experience LOL

Don't want to have to teach a boy

 

[Darksaint]

I've never had instruction but have always pleased the ones I've been with, no complaints for sure. Honest truth!

 

[College_geek]

I vote older mainly because I'm 18, and going younger than 18, now that I'm in college, feels weird to me (as it is also not really legal, isn't it?). I also like same age, but most guys my age are asses and are only into the looks of a girl, so I tend not to bother with them. I will look, but not touch.
I did have a 40 year old Physics teacher who was quite attractive, and although I didn't really lust for him, it was always a pleasure to go to his class.

 

[cookiejar]

I've always been attracted to older men. One of my best lovers was 22 yrs. older. That's not to say I would rule a younger man out.

 

[Zergplex]

Zergplex Says

There should be a 'doesn't care' option. I don't really care weither a person is older or younger then me, thats not an issue. There are alot of things that run throiugh my mind before dating someone, but generally age isn't one of them.

-Zergplex

 

[Hornymama]

i don't really think it matters as long as you're attracted to each other and hit it off. I know a lot of guys who prefer older women....something about us "oldies" just turn them on.
i've been married for 20 years and we're the same age. But i still look and i like all ages....as long as they're older than my son lol

 

[College_geek]

i don't really think it matters as long as you're attracted to each other and hit it off. I know a lot of guys who prefer older women....something about us "oldies" just turn them on.
i've been married for 20 years and we're the same age. But i still look and i like all ages....as long as they're older than my son lol

Yeah...that's sort of like me with older guys. It's weird for me to look and think in that way about guys who are my father's age. Not that they're not attractive, but you get the point.

 

[Hornymama]

Yeah...that's sort of like me with older guys. It's weird for me to look and think in that way about guys who are my father's age. Not that they're not attractive, but you get the point.

yeah i understand. and i say as long as two people are happy with each other it shouldn't matter....and it shouldn,t but i guess i can't honestly say i would have a relationship with someone a lot younger than myself. I'd feel like i was robbing the cradle or such. but i think my biggest thing would be as ho got older and more mature would he still desire me or someone his age or younger

 

[tn_8tiv]

yeah i understand. and i say as long as two people are happy with each other it shouldn't matter....and it shouldn,t but i guess i can't honestly say i would have a relationship with someone a lot younger than myself. I'd feel like i was robbing the cradle or such. but i think my biggest thing would be as ho got older and more mature would he still desire me or someone his age or younger

You raise a good point HM...it's so easy as an older guy to try and recapture his youth and some believe the way to do that is to go for younger women. The real downside of that is what would you do as you continue to age and you can't keep up. Sometimes we have to stop and reevaluate the real priorities in a relationship. Sex is wonderful and when two people can truly communicate in all ways, the sex gets even better. But to communicate, there has to be mutual interests and sometimes those interests improve with experience and age.

So, everything considered, I have to believe that as long as your minds are similar in age, everything else will naturally follow.

 

[Hornymama]

You raise a good point HM...it's so easy as an older guy to try and recapture his youth and some believe the way to do that is to go for younger women. The real downside of that is what would you do as you continue to age and you can't keep up. Sometimes we have to stop and reevaluate the real priorities in a relationship. Sex is wonderful and when two people can truly communicate in all ways, the sex gets even better. But to communicate, there has to be mutual interests and sometimes those interests improve with experience and age.

So, everything considered, I have to believe that as long as your minds are similar in age, everything else will naturally follow.

you're a smart man....yes, sex is a wonderful thing but i would have to have the communication and such that goes with a good relationship. i couldn't have sex for just "sex" i don't think...

 

[tn_8tiv]

you're a smart man....yes, sex is a wonderful thing but i would have to have the communication and such that goes with a good relationship. i couldn't have sex for just "sex" i don't think...

*smiling* wanna try?

Seriously, thanks hon. When the sex is over, if you can't communicate, what happens...turn over and go to sleep...what the hell is that good for?