Older Couple NeedsHelp

[caldwdp]

I need some help or should I say we both need some help .I am dating and going to marry a woman who is 63 I am 62.
We started having sex about two weeks ago. My problem is that in her prior marrage her husband would not engage in any type of foreplay. (they were marries for about 40 years) During there love making the only thing they did was vaginal penetration. She had never had her clit touched (I know very hard to believe, but true) .In fact she said she always went off from the penetration. I know this may be hard to fantom , but she never in all thoes year's ever touched a man's member.
She is VERY willing to learn new things and as part of helping along I told her I would obtain a book she could use to provide her with info on love making. I was wondering if anyone out there would have any ideas as too a book I could get her .
Thanks

 

[SweetErika]

Well, welcome, and congratulations on the impending marriage.

There are tons of great books and you may want to check The Blank Manual, but there's also some fantastic information online, as I'm sure you know. Would she be willing to come here to How To alone or with you? Two of my other favorite sites are http://www.clitical.com/ and http://www.the-clitoris.com/ .

We also just read a great book on anatomy, arousal, and oral sex called She Comes First ; it's targeted to men, but I learned a TON about my body and sexual response. We downloaded it from our local library actually. I've heard good things about the Good Vibrations Guide to Sex too... it's supposed to be "the most complete sex manual ever written."

In addition to suggestions you get, you might want to consider searching Amazon.com since you can "look inside" and read comprehensive reviews on many of the books, and taking a trip to a larger book store and browsing together.

 

[Ezzy]

Go with the standards like "The Joy of Sex" "More Joy of Sex" these will give a reasonable all round grounding.

There are also titles for the oldies like: -

The New Love and Sex After 60
Still Doing It
Sex Over 50
All Night Long : How to Make Love to a Man Over 50
How to Make Love All Night (and Drive Your Woman Wild) (And Drive a Woman Wild : Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking)

These and other titles are available online so you don't have the embarasment of asking for the last title in your local book store.

Try Googling something like "60 + sex manuals" use the words inside the quotes without the quotes.

 

[LadyJeanne]

Wow, you two have such a fantastic adventure ahead of you!

Here are a couple of books from Betty Dodson. I'd recommend both, since I'm guessing she may not have masturbated very much?

http://bettydodson.com/sex41pag.htm

http://bettydodson.com/orgasmsfortwo1.htm


And check out Betty's home page. There are all kinds of articles there that might help your fiancee do some additional sexploration:

http://www.bettydodson.com/subbetty.htm

Have fun!

 

[Ezzy]

Here are a couple of books from Betty Dodson. I'd recommend both, since I'm guessing she may not have masturbated very much?

I am sure you are wrong about Betty not masturbating!!!

 

[LadyJeanne]

I am sure you are wrong about Betty not masturbating!!!

damned misplaced pronouns!


Betty's in her 70's and still going strong!