Okay, being honest here

[Jay Richards]

Okay, look. I'm about 4 3/4" fully hard. That's the fact. Is that a COCK or is that just a pee pee...or a penis...or a little ding dong?

When I write a story I say cock, but, who am I kidding?

Sometimes I see pix of "Girls" with dicks, and their dick is bigger than mine. Pisses me off.

Jay Richards

 

[LauraWilling]

Well, You won't make the well endowed list, but I've seen smaller! Average is only 5.5 to 6.5, I think. If it is thick that helps more than length and if you know how to use it is the most important. I think it would be fun to play with, though. I'm not very big myself except one area.

 

[HoldYouDown]

That's a cock.

 

[savmitch1038]

Make love to every woman under the pretense you have nothing to be ashamed of, because you don't. There are many more ways than just a penis to give a woman an orgasm. Quit worrying about what you have or dont have and give the next woman you have sex with the best 4.75" of her life!

 

[dr_scorpion]

to be honest i've never measured it but i know i have a small cock. what a woman once told me was not to worry about that because worrying wouldn't change it or make it bigger, instead i should focus on doing my best, some woman would be satisfied and some wouldn't, that's when i stopped worrying.

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Okay, look. I'm about 4 3/4" fully hard. That's the fact. Is that a COCK or is that just a pee pee...or a penis...or a little ding dong?

When I write a story I say cock, but, who am I kidding?

Sometimes I see pix of "Girls" with dicks, and their dick is bigger than mine. Pisses me off.

Jay Richards

I vote that it's a cock as I am not much bigger. Sure some guys (and girls) are size queens, but most of us enjoy the "average" sized cocks just fine!

 

[LauraWilling]

All great advice Jay Richards. Especially how Savmitch1038 said. I was trying to be lighthearted, not making fun of you, but worrying about size. I've had some great lovers with smaller cocks, and yes I would call what you have a cock. Definitely!

 

[ADogWithABone]

By the data:
The median length is 13cm. You're at 12cm, which is only about 8% less than the median length. I doubt people could even notice this insignificant difference.

Being able to estimate things to within 10% is an unusual ability. I doubt an average person could tell the difference between a 12cm and 13cm dick. That is, to the observational abilities of the average person, you are the median size.

 

[policywank]

It is a cock. It’s not a big one but you know that. We are all made up of many features and we all have unique views on what is important in our mates. There is no right and wrong about it - just personal preferences.

It is a statement of the obvious that some women care about cock size less than others. Find someone who wants you for you and don’t disparage the ones that don’t.

 

[ontoit2]

Hell, many of those "Pretty Girls with dicks" thread have cocks bigger than most guys! Don't know how that happens.

Just use yours and both you and the ladies enjoy it!

 

[HoldYouDown]

The male mind can be warped by what it sees online. (Including my avatar pic, which no, is not me. I hate khakis. ) Porn glorifies large penises.

I recommend you read this article about this woman's book -

https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/may/27/me-and-my-penis-100-men-reveal-all

Some of the confessions are interesting. One man with a larger penis admits to having issues with self-confidence, for example. The grass is not always greener.

 

[HardAndy]

I hear a lot of body shaming, most things on a body cannot be controlled. In some cases weight is out of our control, nobody has any control over breast size, shape , areola size, shape or colour. Nobody has any control over labia size, nobody has control over penis size!
All bodies are beautiful and sexy!
Love to have fun with anyone of you

 

[Sigmund7]

I'm a bit bigger than the OP, but still on the down side of average. While it would be fun to have a giant cock for a day or so, just to see what it was like, I rather like the advantages of being small - oral, anal, fits well in panties, etc. I wouldn't trade up.

 

[Jay Richards]

Oh yes,

I'm a bit bigger than the OP, but still on the down side of average. While it would be fun to have a giant cock for a day or so, just to see what it was like, I rather like the advantages of being small - oral, anal, fits well in panties, etc. I wouldn't trade up.

Yes, that would be nice. I have to say, I said I'm @ 4 3/4...it's probably more like 4 1/2 and it'a aways been a concern. Both of my brothers are 7-8"

Jay

 

[bimori]

Yes, that would be nice. I have to say, I said I'm @ 4 3/4...it's probably more like 4 1/2 and it'a aways been a concern. Both of my brothers are 7-8"

Jay

The great thing about it is it’s not IQ. It’s also not like it something you can change I say be happy with what you have there are plenty of us out hear that love small cocks. Both men and women.

 

[SissySalina]

sissy use to be a 2 1//2" fully hard but size only matters in your head and comparisons with others. So don't compare and do the best you can.

 

[destined]

Okay, look. I'm about 4 3/4" fully hard. That's the fact. Is that a COCK or is that just a pee pee...or a penis...or a little ding dong?

When I write a story I say cock, but, who am I kidding?

Sometimes I see pix of "Girls" with dicks, and their dick is bigger than mine. Pisses me off.

Jay Richards

Like others have said, you cannot change size. There are more important things about a man that go into being a good lover than size. You can do just fine with what you have.

 

[BBCfan]

Okay, look. I'm about 4 3/4" fully hard. That's the fact. Is that a COCK or is that just a pee pee...or a penis...or a little ding dong?

When I write a story I say cock, but, who am I kidding?

Sometimes I see pix of "Girls" with dicks, and their dick is bigger than mine. Pisses me off.

Jay Richards

its truly all relative...I have a 7.5 " dick that's 5.5 around. I've always felt big and had great feedback from lovers but my current GF dated mainly tall black guys before me.
She never commented on my size. Once she divulged the size of some of her lovers I felt like I was 4".
Her most frequent on and off FWB lover has a beercan thick 10" cock , so she obviously loved being filled with a massive cock...

But before me she rarely ever came during sex. I was able to be patiently help her figure out how to come whenever she wants .

Ill never fill her like he did but I can please her differently, no way he could pound as hard as I'm able. She says I fuck like a madman which is a fine replacement for your cock is so huge,lol

I asked her if she won't miss being fucked by such a huge dick, and she says size is nice but other things are way more important.

Its similar to my experience with pussy. I've had some super tight pussies I could barely fit in and felt amazing. The look of pleasure they got from being filled was hot and feeling huge was great....but I don't crave their pussy or miss or even think about it. I'd rather be in my GF as our chemistry is awesome.

So use your 4.5 inches to it max potential, you'll find a tight pussy or you can always try a cock sheath to mix it up. We got what we got and might as well accept it

 

[Jay Richards]

Thank you

The great thing about it is it’s not IQ. It’s also not like it something you can change I say be happy with what you have there are plenty of us out hear that love small cocks. Both men and women.

Thanks, love your reply, and all other replies. Yes, I's not IQ.

Jay

 

[curiouschattycouple]

You have a tongue too. Also, some positions are far more stimulating - most women come from clitoral stimulation, not penetration so figure out how to grind public bones and intercourse will be a screaming success.

 

[Bustybeauty999]

If course it’s a cock! You have nothing to worry about! People are obsessed with porn dicks and boobs. Most real people don’t look like that. Thankfully!

 

[jehoram]

I'll say it again:

Big boxes like big cockses.

Small boxes like small cockses.

There are women out there with shallow vaginas who dread even normal size boners bumping against their cervixes. They're all for you. Just let prospective fuckmates know what you've got, and let them decide. What you tell them might just be music to their ears.

 

[ttlvr]

Yes, that would be nice. I have to say, I said I'm @ 4 3/4...it's probably more like 4 1/2 and it'a aways been a concern. Both of my brothers are 7-8"

Jay

I'm betting that your brothers knew your size growing up. Teens being teens, I'm sure they told everybody. Probably an open secret

 

[CandK_inSE]

All I can say to you is learn how to use it. There’s so much more to sex than simple pounding. Varying speed, varying motion, teasing with the tip, etc. I’m just a hair bigger than average, but a few of my partners told me that my movement was better than guys who were bigger. One of my girlfriends took a 10 inch cock, however, he was not thick at all. She said it felt like she was being fucked by a needle. She would want mine over that all the time.

My wife’s first partner was 3 1/2 inches. She got nothing out of it because he tried to pound and grind her, and was an asshole about it. She said there were so many things he could have done, but had no idea to use what he had. Her advice is the same. Learn to use it. Don’t be an asshole and just think you can do the same thing as a larger man.

 

[OldFred65]

I love all cocks, size is not really important. As long as they shoot cum down my throat and/or up my ass, they are all fine with me. My wife feels the same way.