ok im not gay but have a question

[sotaken]

i know this is a gay and lesbian forum here and im not gay and my wife is not bi but i do have a question for everyone out there.

me and a few friends were all talking one day and the sex subject got brought up one of them said his one buddy said that just becuz someone gets turned on looking at a mans cock doesnt make him gay.

so what im asking here is if a guy can get turned on by the thought site or what ever of a mans cock but doesnt like the thought of touching another man anywhere else and doesnt think of himselfas gay or by what is he? i know i dont like the stereotype of things but this is a question i was alittle comfussed about please answer and help.

 

[sexylilmissie]

my thoughts? someone who is arroused by erotica. this can be male or felmale, but a phallic object has been denoted for years as causing reactions among both sexes.

an erect penis causes concious or subconcious thoughts about what is done with one which can turn the mind and body on.

i am female and get turned on by gay sex (pics, stories, movies etc) i would have to be male to be gay so i guess this just means i have a healthy libido.

 

[sotaken]

thats kinda what i had thought about it too. i mean alot of people get turned on at different times by different thigns and it all depends i guess on what thought run through our minds at the time about it. i personally think anything sexual can turn anyone on at any given time depending on the time and subject of the matter at that time ( ok i hope that made sense lol )but then agian that same thing may not turn you on agian for along time or it might become a dayly thing you never can tell.

 

[Queersetti]

thats kinda what i had thought about it too. i mean alot of people get turned on at different times by different thigns and it all depends i guess on what thought run through our minds at the time about it. i personally think anything sexual can turn anyone on at any given time depending on the time and subject of the matter at that time ( ok i hope that made sense lol )but then agian that same thing may not turn you on agian for along time or it might become a dayly thing you never can tell.

I thought it made sense. The ambiance of sexuality can be a turn on, even without the specifics involved being something that particularly appeals to the observer.

Being gay is a lot more than just being aroused by genitalia.

 

[sotaken]

ok well i guess im not going to get alot of post about this but i do thank both of you for your time in reading this and im glad to know that other people are thinking like i am on this, i do feel that being gay lesbian or even bi is more of a life style then a sexual preferance. i mean in my eyes any woman or man can go down on anyone or get off to anyone but it take a certain life style to enjoy doing it and to keep doing it. for me i love women and thats that but for some the like both and for some the prefer the same its all good in my eyes and nothign to be ashamed of either. i think sex is a state of mind and that being aroused comes from your own thoughts and feelings in a given time and place.

 

[webber1998]

Hey, i don't know about most guys, but just about ANYTHING sexual in nature can get me horny. Mabye I'm different because I like to have sex with both male and females. So, I think it is perfectly natural to get aroused by a man or a woman.

 

[sexylilmissie]

Hey, i don't know about most guys, but just about ANYTHING sexual in nature can get me horny. Mabye I'm different because I like to have sex with both male and females. So, I think it is perfectly natural to get aroused by a man or a woman.

webber...congrats on 100+ but where is your av?

 

[webber1998]

webber...congrats on 100+ but where is your av?

Thanks, didn't realize that I hit 100. Will have to come up with an AV I guess....

 

[webber1998]

Oh, and ... LOVE your AV !!!!!

 

[sexylilmissie]

thanks! dont it just make you want to..........and then,........

 

[webber1998]

Oh, absolutely !!!.....

 

[sdedalus]

thanks! dont it just make you want to..........and then,........

It makes me want to fill in the blanks if you know what I mean.

 

[sdedalus]

i know this is a gay and lesbian forum here and im not gay and my wife is not bi but i do have a question for everyone out there.

me and a few friends were all talking one day and the sex subject got brought up one of them said his one buddy said that just becuz someone gets turned on looking at a mans cock doesnt make him gay.

so what im asking here is if a guy can get turned on by the thought site or what ever of a mans cock but doesnt like the thought of touching another man anywhere else and doesnt think of himselfas gay or by what is he? i know i dont like the stereotype of things but this is a question i was alittle comfussed about please answer and help.

Um well I guess not because some lesbians like watching gay guys having sex, go figure.... I for one think the difference is I want to have sex with a guy. That is why I say I am bisexual.

 

[simonedb27]

i just wanted to add my two cents and say how much your av turns me on too.

as for the other subject: i think a lot of people are turned on by anything sexual but are afraid to talk about it or even admit it to themselves because they think it means that they have to be bi or gay. being bi or gay has more to do with a lifestyle and continual arousal by certain things rather than being occasionally aroused by cock. just like being heterosexual is an entire lifestyle, being bi or gay is as well. being heterosexual isn't just about being turned on by the opposite sex and being bi or gay isn't about being turned on by both sexes or the same sex.

 

[sdedalus]

i just wanted to add my two cents and say how much your av turns me on too.

as for the other subject: i think a lot of people are turned on by anything sexual but are afraid to talk about it or even admit it to themselves because they think it means that they have to be bi or gay. being bi or gay has more to do with a lifestyle and continual arousal by certain things rather than being occasionally aroused by cock. just like being heterosexual is an entire lifestyle, being bi or gay is as well. being heterosexual isn't just about being turned on by the opposite sex and being bi or gay isn't about being turned on by both sexes or the same sex.

that was confusing... my eyes just ran right over it without reading a single thing...

 

[simonedb27]

stop being rude. so i am not a writing major.

point is....people can be turned on by anything sexual but do not have to consider themselves gay/bi/hetero just based on what turns them on.

 

[sdedalus]

that was better... LOVE YOU!

 

[Lingerie_Dreams]

I am not attracted to men but an erect cock is a very sexual image particularly if it’s a group situation, but I'm not turned on by seeing gay sex.

 

[richdon03]

i know this is a gay and lesbian forum here and im not gay and my wife is not bi but i do have a question for everyone out there.

me and a few friends were all talking one day and the sex subject got brought up one of them said his one buddy said that just becuz someone gets turned on looking at a mans cock doesnt make him gay.

so what im asking here is if a guy can get turned on by the thought site or what ever of a mans cock but doesnt like the thought of touching another man anywhere else and doesnt think of himselfas gay or by what is he? i know i dont like the stereotype of things but this is a question i was alittle comfussed about please answer and help.

I love the sight of a full, glorious, moon or a beautiful sunset, but I would never wish to go there. Even if I did, it would be vastly different from the view that so fascinated me, in the first place.

Some people just enjoy beauty, for beauty's sake.

Just because I like to look at the sunset doesn't mean I want to be an astronaut.

 

[Escierto]

i know this is a gay and lesbian forum here and im not gay and my wife is not bi but i do have a question for everyone out there.

me and a few friends were all talking one day and the sex subject got brought up one of them said his one buddy said that just becuz someone gets turned on looking at a mans cock doesnt make him gay.

so what im asking here is if a guy can get turned on by the thought site or what ever of a mans cock but doesnt like the thought of touching another man anywhere else and doesnt think of himselfas gay or by what is he? i know i dont like the stereotype of things but this is a question i was alittle comfussed about please answer and help.

In my case I have never been attracted to a man nor have I ever had sex with a man.

However. My girlfriend is transgender and unlike most trans women, she is a top. In other words, she likes to fuck and be sucked and I am super happy being her bottom. I love her and her gorgeous big cock!

 

[Bisexguy70]

Why would you even care what your label is? Yes i consider myself bi because im attracted to men and woman. I like having sex with a man. If someone said i was Gay then im Gay. No matter what im attracted to a mans body. I LOVE cock. I dont look at men and am attracted to them. I Just like mutual naked play. At the end of the day, does it really matter?. If Im on my knees dressed like a woman sucking cock im not like… Oh man i think im gay. No! I think, my goodness this guys cock feel good in my mouth. Hes caressing my body and it feels so amazing. His touch excites me. If the guy pretends im a slut and denies hes being sucked by a guy, well so be it!! I just hope im satisfying his sexual desires. Growing up saying things like, oh thats so Gay! Like it was bad. Perhaps taboo, but i cant deny my sexual attraction to a mans body and enjoy it.