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ewopper

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yet she is around 21-23 and you're in your 50's do you do her or not knowing she's trying to seduce you yet her parents are good friends of yours
 
ewopper said:
yet she is around 21-23 and you're in your 50's do you do her or not knowing she's trying to seduce you yet her parents are good friends of yours


Do you wish to remain good friends with her parents ? 'Cos I'm fairly sure that 'doing' their daughter would upset them somewhat. As a friend they have given you their trust.
 
ewopper said:
yet she is around 21-23 and you're in your 50's do you do her or not knowing she's trying to seduce you yet her parents are good friends of yours

No. you don't "do her." As Witchie points out, there is a trust factor with her parents. Plus, if you are good friends, you have likely known the daughter since before she was 18, and "doing her" would just not be right. :cool:
 
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Stryderthorongil said:
No. you don't "do her." As Witchie points out, there is a trust factor with her parents. Plus, if you are good friends, you have likely know the daughter since before she was 18, and "doing her" would just not be right. :cool:
I totally agree.

Just not a good idea, ewopper. Sorry.
 
ewopper said:
yet she is around 21-23 and you're in your 50's do you do her or not knowing she's trying to seduce you yet her parents are good friends of yours

Why would her parents have to know about it?
besides, you're both all-growed-up, and she can make her own decisions.
If you're worried about the friendship, obviously, it's not a good plan... But also I would think that they could see that their little girl is old enough to think for herself, and hopefully you "doing her" wouldn't cause gaps in the friendship...
Again... what they don't know wont hurt them :kiss: Not meaning it in a sassy way, it is just true.
 
to me it depends on how good your friendship really is. if it's a couple whose friendship you truly value, I'd say no. otherwise, if you're sure the girl is really coming on to you, I'd go for it.... but maybe that's because I'm a horny middle-aged guy and being seduced by a sweet young thang is the stuff of fantasy ;)

I like tricky's answer in theory, but secrets have a way of coming out.
 
minority opinion

I'll take the minority position - I would explore every possibility with her...and try to pleasure both of us. In other words...I would go for it.
 
WantonWitch said:
Do you wish to remain good friends with her parents ? 'Cos I'm fairly sure that 'doing' their daughter would upset them somewhat. As a friend they have given you their trust.

That's a noble thought but she flirts with me in front of them,and I've decided to stay away from them for awhile, because like you said though they say nothing I see the confusion in their eyes whenever she flirts with me. Since I'm human my recourse is to stay away and hope it's just an infatuation, but in the meantime she gets me harder than Japanese arithmetic
taught by a Spanish teacher in a french class :D
 
WantonWitch said:
Do you wish to remain good friends with her parents ? 'Cos I'm fairly sure that 'doing' their daughter would upset them somewhat. As a friend they have given you their trust.

Yes I want to remain friends with her parents, but like I said in another post I'm staying away because her kissing me on the lips in front of them and sitting on my lap is wayyyyyy too hard to take. I may be old but I'm not cold.
:D
 
home nudist said:
I'll take the minority position - I would explore every possibility with her...and try to pleasure both of us. In other words...I would go for it.

I've thought about that but living in a small town like I do and everyone wanting to know your business I prefer not messing with her. But how long I can hold out I don't know. What do I do when she stops by to check on her uncle as she affectionately calls me, even though we're not related as far as I know. :confused:
 
BadBombshellBabe said:
sometimes, who we are attracted to is out of our control.

That's an understatement. A couple of times she's even tried to run her tongue in my mouth when we are not around her parents. If I was an asshole I'd do her and not think a second thought about it but I really treasure the friendship of her parents. :eek:
 
thiscouldbtricky said:
Why would her parents have to know about it?
besides, you're both all-growed-up, and she can make her own decisions.
If you're worried about the friendship, obviously, it's not a good plan... But also I would think that they could see that their little girl is old enough to think for herself, and hopefully you "doing her" wouldn't cause gaps in the friendship...
Again... what they don't know wont hurt them :kiss: Not meaning it in a sassy way, it is just true.

Well this young woman is spoiled, and she seems to be the type that would tell her parents to get them upset. So at the risk of not screwing some prime pussy I'll stay away as long as I can. I guess I have a heart... I'll probably hate myself in the morning but I'm going to try to pass it up
 
I'd go for it. If she's into me, and I'm into her...I'm going in her. Parents don't need to know, unless it gets serious. But if it's just for fun, mutual pleasure, nothing too serious...then discretion would be good. I'm curious as to how women would handle the reverse situation. If they're early 20's and are into a 50's man...how far would they go if he was a family friend that they've known for a long time.
 
as i stated in my previous post, if the attraction becomes HUGE, it takes on a life of it's own. even if you know that it's a terrible idea...and your ass would be dead if you were caught...you decide to throw caution to the wind for the thrill of being with that person.

i'm in a similar predicament...only worse.

so i can totally relate!!!!
 
Just because we are attracted to someone doesn't mean we must act upon it.

Although you've said her age is over 18, her behavior is very immature and reckless in my opinion. You mentioned her parents reacted to her overt flirting with confusion, there is something inappropriate about it to them.

There seems to be a lack of sensibilities all over the place.
 
BadBombshellBabe said:
as i stated in my previous post, if the attraction becomes HUGE, it takes on a life of it's own. even if you know that it's a terrible idea...and your ass would be dead if you were caught...you decide to throw caution to the wind for the thrill of being with that person.

i'm in a similar predicament...only worse.

so i can totally relate!!!!

I'm sticking with staying away from them for awhile hopefully she'll lose interest. but what do I do when they ask why I haven't been by in so long a time.
 
i have not, and don't intend to act upon my situation either. i just enjoy the flattery and attention, and leave it at that. i would think that if you don't respond to her affections, she'll get the hint and back off.
 
BadBombshellBabe said:
i have not, and don't intend to act upon my situation either. i just enjoy the flattery and attention, and leave it at that. i would think that if you don't respond to her affections, she'll get the hint and back off.

I sure hope so. In the meantime I'll continue to stay away
 
ewopper said:
I sure hope so. In the meantime I'll continue to stay away
Can you make plans with them elsewhere? Invite them to your home - just them?
 
Cathleen said:
Can you make plans with them elsewhere? Invite them to your home - just them?

My home is out of the question, because if they come over and she calls them on the cell they'll tell her where they are and she'll make some excuse to join them. I just think I'll stay away until she grows tired of the game :confused:
 
ewopper said:
I'm sticking with staying away from them for awhile hopefully she'll lose interest. but what do I do when they ask why I haven't been by in so long a time.

Have you ever tried telling them about it? If, as you say, you've seen confusion in their eyes, they probably have an idea as to how she's been reacting. At that point, she might gt mad at you and stop; if not, you've been up front with her parents about it.
 
southerntierguy said:
Have you ever tried telling them about it? If, as you say, you've seen confusion in their eyes, they probably have an idea as to how she's been reacting. At that point, she might gt mad at you and stop; if not, you've been up front with her parents about it.

Great Idea, but it's hard for me to confirm that trheir daughter seems to have the hots for me, when they have to know it. Besides as someone said earlier she's an adult. They can only ask her not to do what she's doing but they can't physically stop her. Right now a hiatus away from them seems to be the best solution.
 
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