Ok, here goes, UK Male Seeking Domme

UKVoyager

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Ok, here goes nothing. I am not really holding out much hope...but you never know.

I am a 40 year old UK male, been here for a little while and had some interesting conversations already. I want to now explore my more submissive side. I always have thought of myself as a switch, but feel myself drawn more to being submissive. I am married, but this side of me is something that my wife does not connect with at all. I am looking for an online Lady to Domme me and train me. I will say that I am really only looking for online at this stage, a meet would probably never happen, heck a reply will probably not happen even.

I am interested in many aspects of submission, particularly humiliation, dressing up, anal,doing tasks(not all sexual), orgasm denial, ruined orgasms, tease sessions. I am not into major pain, but I do like being pushed. Pee play is something I would maybe like to explore, but not poo play, really.

If this were a perfect world I would love a Domme who would take me and train me, giving me tasks to do by email (I have access at work). Maybe sending her photo or video proof of the tasks. I love trying new things and being pushed into broadening my horizons in this matter. I am prepared to IM, text chat, voice chat and cam, I have come to understand I am quite an exhibitionist, it turns me on to be watched doing humiliating tasks or whatever I am commanded to do. I work weekends, but have Thursdays off and would love to have them as a regular "playday" if you are able to make that happen, even better.

I am looking for a Lady over 30 experienced or not. BBW are more than welcome, as are more mature ladies. I do not expect you to go on cam, however voice chat with you would be a most welcome bonus. I would prefer a lady from UK/ Euro timezone as this would make it easier to be in touch regularly. Once I find that we have "clicked", I would only be following your orders/ tasks.

What can the Lady expect in return? Well, that is a question I have asked myself a lot before posting. I guess that it would be the knowledge I am doing your bidding, I am attentive loyal and willing to try most things for your viewing pleasure. Knowing that I am submitting to you and catering to your every whim also.

Apologies for the length of this post, I do want to "get it right" and be as honest as I can about this. If you have read this far and would like any more information about me, please PM me. I know that there are lots of these type of ads from submissive men on here, I just hope that some lady is willing to give me a try and see for herself what I hope I have to offer.

Again thanks for reading.
 
You say you want to explore your submissive side and almost whole post is dedicated to what you want and you need...
Out of curiousity, a question. Or two ;)

What do you think a Domme would want and need from you?
And what in reality you can offer her?
 
Interesting questions, and are there any good answers, I did try to answer this, not very well sorry. I think that a Domme would want to know that she is capable of controlling me, and having me do her bidding. I am willing to learn and be trained over a long period of time, not just here for a one time thrill.

What can I offer her? Again difficult, but respect and a desire to serve and be under her control so that she can mould me into the person she wants me to be, pushing me and giving her the knowledge that she is in total charge during our time together.

Thanks for answering this thread, and making me think a little bit more about what I can offer. I hope that has answered your questions?
 
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