OK boys, whats the attraction with older women
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tendril said:
Hmmm--I'd be a bit careful about applying the phrase 'much older' to women 40+, as some of those Personals posters are only about 10 years younger than that...
But, IMHO as someone who was once a young man lusting after older ladies, there are a few explanations (covered on other threads similar to this one)--
1. The fantasy of an older 'teacher' showing the young 'student' the way to make love to a woman
2. The common belief (true?) that women reach their sexual prime at 30+, while men do the same at 18 or so--hence the pairing is 'natural'
3. As one 'older' woman once said, the fact that there are a number of 'older' women who realize that teasing and playing games can be a big waste of time--and if they want sex, they'll just come out and say it
4. Plus, as a personal note, the fact that older women somehow seem more 'real' and accessible than the images of young, airbrushed models that we see all the time in the media
How's that?
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And all this time I thought it was my confidence...
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Well, I'm not 40 yet....so maybe the other factors in your theory kick in then...RomanHans said:
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Hey there sexy woman! And you're right of course... sexy and a bit unpredictable....or maybe that's just me?1sexylady said:Well I am...*cough..cough..choke..choke..* and it is because we are just sooooo damn **SEXY** .
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interesting thread, never wanted an older woman always a little younger then me by like 2-3 years,
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DevilBoy79 said:
not all younger guys can handle an older woman. just kidding....everyone has their own preferences. It's all good.
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1sexylady said:It is ok not to want an older woman but you really did miss out...
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3. As one 'older' woman once said, the fact that there are a number of 'older' women who realize that teasing and playing games can be a big waste of time--and if they want sex, they'll just come out and say
Roman
naw not missing out in anyway trust me, as for the 2nd comment, please my woman just takes what she wants from me, and damn its good
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DevilBoy79 said:quote:
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Originally posted by RomanHans
3. As one 'older' woman once said, the fact that there are a number of 'older' women who realize that teasing and playing games can be a big waste of time--and if they want sex, they'll just come out and say
Roman
naw not missing out in anyway trust me, as for the 2nd comment, please my woman just takes what she wants from me, and damn its good
See #3 ^ there...it is not true...just playing with you sweetie...go with what works for you always...
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1sexylady said:See #3 ^ there...it is not true...just playing with you sweetie...go with what works for you always...
I know, no worries just voicing my opnion when i get the chance, cant do it too often lately
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It depends on your point of view....sexyone and the fiestyone are YOUNGER women to me! More mature ladies know what they want, aren't afraid to voice it, and, as a result, get their satisfaction. That to me is very appealing and sexy! AA
More mature ladies know what they want, aren't afraid to voice it, and, as a result, get their satisfaction. That to me is very appealing and sexy! AA
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alwaysawake said:It depends on your point of view....sexyone and the fiestyone are YOUNGER women to me!
So coming right out and saying what you want and meaning what you say, that in itself is a turn on ? Who'd have thought, wow, interesting point.
Tendril, I'm another woman in this age group. Speaking for myself, maybe it's that I don't ask for any commitment? (nor do I promise any ). I just accept that it's their preference and enjoy it. Maybe they just prefer older women the same way other men prefer blondes or whatever. And, conversely, some women prefer much older men. That side of the coin seems to be so much more 'socially acceptable'. Funny, isn't it?
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hypatia said:Tendril, I'm another woman in this age group. Speaking for myself, maybe it's that I don't ask for any commitment? (nor do I promise any ). I just accept that it's their preference and enjoy it. Maybe they just prefer older women the same way other men prefer blondes or whatever. And, conversely, some women prefer much older men. That side of the coin seems to be so much more 'socially acceptable'. Funny, isn't it?
"...the other side of the coin...." oh so true!
I know I for one could not resist the flabby skin and waist high boobs of a good 70 year old. Such is the curse of being a "young guy" Ok that couldn't be more not true. I myself have no particular fetish for or attraction to older women. But I think it's partially the taboo aspect to it. And more than that it's the thought that they have been there and done that. They know what they're doing and exactly what to do with what and all that. Not speaking for myself as I said before, but I could see why other guys might be attracted to that.
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Re: Re: OK boys, whats the attraction with older women
10 years or less...<sniff sniff> Oh wait. I don't post to the Personals.
Neffer mind.
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10 years or less...<sniff sniff> Oh wait. I don't post to the Personals.
Neffer mind.
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Re: Re: Re: OK boys, whats the attraction with older women
Neffie is ALWAYS attractive to me!Neftoon_Zamora said:
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Re: Re: Re: Re: OK boys, whats the attraction with older women
Awww..thanks AA.
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Awww..thanks AA.
Hmm, in praise of "mature" women!
I find, looking back on my sexual history, that all of my best relationships have been with women older than me. In some cases, just a few years older, in some, 15-20 years older.
Why do I love older women so much? Partially, it's their confidence. When a woman reaches her 40's or 50's she usaually knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask for it.
Whether she wants anal sex, bondage, having me eat her "cream pie", to be a public slut, or to be a dominant vixen, an older woman is usually pretty clear about her needs and desires.
They have, hopefully, worked through the hang-ups and baggage that we all grow up with.
And let's face it, mature women today are, on the whole, much more attractive than they were 20 years ago. Better health care, yoga, good diet, and gym work have led to a proliferation of 40-50 year old women who are stone-cold sexy foxes.
I find, looking back on my sexual history, that all of my best relationships have been with women older than me. In some cases, just a few years older, in some, 15-20 years older.
Why do I love older women so much? Partially, it's their confidence. When a woman reaches her 40's or 50's she usaually knows what she wants, and isn't afraid to ask for it.
Whether she wants anal sex, bondage, having me eat her "cream pie", to be a public slut, or to be a dominant vixen, an older woman is usually pretty clear about her needs and desires.
They have, hopefully, worked through the hang-ups and baggage that we all grow up with.
And let's face it, mature women today are, on the whole, much more attractive than they were 20 years ago. Better health care, yoga, good diet, and gym work have led to a proliferation of 40-50 year old women who are stone-cold sexy foxes.
