OK - Another Fisting Question (a little shy about posting)

Amora

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Been rather interested in anal fisting, I can take four fingers and thumb up to knuckle on the hand but no further. I tense up because of things I've read where it can affect bowel continence for a period of time afterwards, is this correct? Any experiences you are willing to share?

Thanks

Amora :catroar:
 
Doesn't affect continence as far as I know, though if it was a frequent practice over many years, there may be some associated issues for some. It may be that the lubricant may cause some increased need to go after it is over for the first few hours, but that is only usually if there is lots of lube and you have this tendency as a rule. Doing an enema a couple of hours before fisting may help relieve any worries.

Catalina :catroar:
 
Amora said:
Been rather interested in anal fisting, I can take four fingers and thumb up to knuckle on the hand but no further. I tense up because of things I've read where it can affect bowel continence for a period of time afterwards, is this correct? Any experiences you are willing to share?

Thanks

Amora :catroar:


basicly the anus has a muscle around it that controls your bowel control. so when you strech it out, all it does is recontract when there is no more stimulation. however if you tear or rip the muscle you have a chance you might loose some control of your bowel functions...
 
I agree with all that these other posters have stated. My bum loves to take a hand and everything there works just find.

While first attempting to open up enough to welcome a hand in I had to work through a bunch of emotional fears that prevented the needed relaxing. My partners were understanding and we just kept having a go till it worked. Stay with it, on one level working through your fears is a larger accomplishment then taking a hand. :D
 
Shankara20 said:
I agree with all that these other posters have stated. My bum loves to take a hand and everything there works just find.

While first attempting to open up enough to welcome a hand in I had to work through a bunch of emotional fears that prevented the needed relaxing. My partners were understanding and we just kept having a go till it worked. Stay with it, on one level working through your fears is a larger accomplishment then taking a hand. :D

I totally understans this, you see this is where I am, we starts, he can get in to the level I set earlier and I love it but if I feel his hand move any deeper I tense up, I basically tense at the point that it hurts a little, and starts to feel like there is too much pressure there. Guess we just have to keep trying. I want to, but it is a little scary, especially the whole, what if I tense up and he can't get out thing!! I can take a fairly large butt plug easily, but I think it might be an idea to try and find a slightly larger one to play with, to give me the extra confidence. Would this be a good idea?

Amora :catroar:
 
Amora said:
I totally understans this, you see this is where I am, we starts, he can get in to the level I set earlier and I love it but if I feel his hand move any deeper I tense up, I basically tense at the point that it hurts a little, and starts to feel like there is too much pressure there. Guess we just have to keep trying. I want to, but it is a little scary, especially the whole, what if I tense up and he can't get out thing!! I can take a fairly large butt plug easily, but I think it might be an idea to try and find a slightly larger one to play with, to give me the extra confidence. Would this be a good idea?

Amora :catroar:
I suggest considering an inflatable butt plug, one you can insert and then pump up to just slightly beyond the place you feel comfortable and leave it that way as long as you can. I struggled with a continuing slight panic that would develop with the urge to void that came with a full feeling. As I trained with the inflatable plug to not mind the full feeling I was able to get beyond that little panic as I pumped it larger and larger and larger over time. I blamed it all on my potty training as a child :D
 
Shankara20 said:
I suggest considering an inflatable butt plug, one you can insert and then pump up to just slightly beyond the place you feel comfortable and leave it that way as long as you can. I struggled with a continuing slight panic that would develop with the urge to void that came with a full feeling. As I trained with the inflatable plug to not mind the full feeling I was able to get beyond that little panic as I pumped it larger and larger and larger over time. I blamed it all on my potty training as a child :D


Hmm, I'm sensing a shopping trip, that sounds like an excellent idea Shankara, thanks!

Amora :catroar:
 
My old sub never experianced any problems sometimes he was alittle tender for awile but that dep how much we had worked it, fisting is one of my fave things to do to someone and i like to see how much they can take after a while, have gone as far as double fisting and had a foot in at one point then various objects etc.. if you ever want any advise or anything on this topic feel free to pm me..
 
Wow, we got so close last night, he got past the finger knuckles but just not quite past the thumb knuckle as well. Wow!! It was an amazing feeling, probably would have manged it but when his finger knuckles popped through the muscle I came really hard and then couldn't relax again, :rolleyes: :cool: :)

Like Catalina said on another thread, the journey is quite definitely the most fun!!

Amora :catroar:
 
Amora said:
Wow, we got so close last night, he got past the finger knuckles but just not quite past the thumb knuckle as well. Wow!! It was an amazing feeling, probably would have manged it but when his finger knuckles popped through the muscle I came really hard and then couldn't relax again, :rolleyes: :cool: :)

Like Catalina said on another thread, the journey is quite definitely the most fun!!

Amora :catroar:
Psst, that was me. ;)

And congrats on achieving a greater plane of happiness!
 
Etoile said:
Psst, that was me. ;)

And congrats on achieving a greater plane of happiness!

Whoops sorry Etoile, forgive me? I blame post-sex euphoria!

Amora :catroar:
 
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