Oh Look.. Another Anal Sex question

[RazeByFire]

... What a surprise. But this on is a bit different.

I would like to hear from some of the lovely Lit women on the subject.

Why do you like it? How do you know when you wnat it that way? Do YOU want it that way or do you just do it when your lover asks?

How do you prepare for it? Do you always have a 'ritual' kind of thing, or is there ever just a time when you just want your lover to lube it up and give it to you.

How do you feel mentally when you take it, or give it. Forgot about that for a sec. Do you get off on it? Because it's so nasty or because of a more physical reaction? Or maybe both.

Just wanted some female perspective for a story I am considering writing. Thanks in advance.

 

[huskie]

oh man I'm pulling up a chair and listening in on this one.

 

[huskie]

bump

 

[huskie]

bump...... agin! Damn it!!!!

 

[shescurious]

I am just trying to decide if I want to go there...I'll be back.

 

[just pet]

I've been there
But the slides aren't ready from the trip yet

 

[Calamity Jane]

just pet, do you get those slides made at WalMart? The reason I ask is, I think they kept a copy of my last set. Be careful!

Seriously, RBF... a general search on the word anal would probably yeild you 1000 hits. Give it a shot.

 

[huskie]

just pet, do you get those slides made at WalMart? The reason I ask is, I think they kept a copy of my last set. Be careful!

Seriously, RBF... a general search on the word anal would probably yeild you 1000 hits. Give it a shot.

Thats not any fun, PC???

 

[Nora]

I make it a policy never to answer questions about anal sex from someone who lives in my city.

 

[Calamity Jane]

I've been accused of that a lot lately.

 

[huskie]

I make it a policy never to answer questions about anal sex from someone who lives in my city.

But I live it in Central, NC.???

 

[just pet]

just pet, do you get those slides made at WalMart? The reason I ask is, I think they kept a copy of my last set. Be careful!

Was that you?
They had some blown up for display
Very nice

 

[sheath]

BUMP

For responses to the original question.

I'll post my own answers when I have more time.







Come on, answer!

S.

 

[fgarvb1]

The search ideal was a good one.

Also look over at the How To boardfor more infromation.

 

[sorority_girl]

Why do you like it? How do you know when you want it that way? Do YOU want it that way or do you just do it when your lover asks?

Hm. It's a bit of a give and take, no pun intended. When I was seeing someone, we loved to experiment. So for me it was always very mutual.

How do you prepare for it? Do you always have a 'ritual' kind of thing, or is there ever just a time when you just want your lover to lube it up and give it to you.

No, no ritual here. Generally for me, it's got to be post-first orgasm, or it just doesn't feel good. So the majority of the time, I'd get awesome oral sex... and then when I was moaning and clenching, I'd feel him slide in. (Believe me, it took practice to get that good.) To answer the other question, no, I never really thought, "Let's have some wild anal tonight", but he had the thought occasionally, and we'd act on it.

Oh! I forgot! Being that both of us were really really clean people, we'd always take a shower beforehand.

How do you feel mentally when you take it, or give it. Forgot about that for a sec. Do you get off on it? Because it's so nasty or because of a more physical reaction? Or maybe both.

Anal is definitely a different physical sensation. Mentally... I think I feel more taken. I can say that it doesn't feel as good as some fiction would have people believe, but in combination with other sorts of stimulation - my lover generally played with my nipples and I played with my clit - it can get very hot. I've gotten off on it, but it was much like getting off on anything - a buildup of sensation so intense that orgasm is *going* to happen.

I've never considered anal to be inherently 'nasty' - I consider scat to take that crown... and just from a hygiene perspective, I really don't like stories that feature the insta-sub female "cleaning" her partner's dick post-anal sex. EW. But that's a personal thing, and who knows? I could be in the minority.

Just wanted some female perspective for a story I am considering writing. Thanks in advance.

Female perspective is always a good thing. I'm glad that you asked. Let us know how the story goes.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Was that you?
They had some blown up for display
Very nice

Why thank you darlin.


In answer to the original question... I'd never have anal sex. How nasty can you get?

You can accept that as an answer, or you could search for a thread called 'Speaking of Lube, And My ASS' to get my real answer.

 

[sterlingclay]

 

[RazeByFire]

thanks Sorority Girl, that was the kind of answer I was looking for.
Not the 'How' but 'How do you feel'.

Oh, Nora, so you live in Austin huh. did you make it to the Litogether. I didn't as I awas unaware that there was one. BooHoo, woe is me, etc. Anywho, you're married and I am in a wonderful solid relationship with my gf. So no excuse for you; now spill!

 

[sorority_girl]

thanks Sorority Girl, that was the kind of answer I was looking for.
Not the 'How' but 'How do you feel'.

Very welcome.

 

[Nora]

thanks Sorority Girl, that was the kind of answer I was looking for.
Not the 'How' but 'How do you feel'.

Oh, Nora, so you live in Austin huh. did you make it to the Litogether. I didn't as I awas unaware that there was one. BooHoo, woe is me, etc. Anywho, you're married and I am in a wonderful solid relationship with my gf. So no excuse for you; now spill!

Errrrr...seein' as how I'm the resident austin put-togetherer and cheerleader for all local Lit-togethers, I'll take responsibility for you not being there. Someone remind me to add him to the list when I get home?


Umm...yeah, but what if you're the guy in the next office over. How would I ever be able to face you in the atrium if you knew all my deep, dark secrets?

 

[sheath]

Originally posted by RazeByFire
Why do you like it? How do you know when you wnat it that way? Do YOU want it that way or do you just do it when your lover asks?

I like it becuase of the way it makes me feel. And I'm into slight pain, and anal sometimes gives that, especially if he's pounding deep and fast. How do I know I want it that way? I just know. Sometimes I think, "I want to be as slutty as he can possibly imagine", and nothing turns him on more than watching as I lower my ass onto his cock and ride him that way. NOTHING. I will do it anytime he asks, but since we both love it so much, he doesn't have to ask.

How do you prepare for it? Do you always have a 'ritual' kind of thing, or is there ever just a time when you just want your lover to lube it up and give it to you.

There are times, especially when my man and I are roleplaying, when I just want to be fucked. Very little lube, or none at all. It hurts like hell, but hey, those are the BDSM nights. But most of the time, it just naturally evolves that way. If I had to say it is a certain way most of the time...we usually have vaginal sex, and as I am orgasming, he slips out of me and into my ass. SEXY.

There isn't any kind of 'ritual'. I do prepare for it by being very clean, but of course, showering every day is enough. I know some people use enemas and such, but we've never done that. Never had any need to do that.

How do you feel mentally when you take it, or give it. Forgot about that for a sec. Do you get off on it? Because it's so nasty or because of a more physical reaction? Or maybe both.

Taken. Absolutely, completely taken. Depending on the mood, this can be more of a dominance thing or more of a 'loving' act. Not that dominance can't be loving, but I think you get what I'm trying to say there. If he lets me give it I feel POWERFUL. So incredibly powerful.

I do get off on it. I actually cum harder that way than any other. I like the 'nastiness' factor, but only because my boyfriend likes the 'bad girl' mentality sometimes. (We both have a thing for Angelina Jolie, so you can imagine...lol) The physical sensation is incredible...I love what it does to me. I cum hard this way, and cum often, but I think I'm in the minority with that.

Anal usually happens on one of those 'anything goes' kink nights...and luckily, those nights come along quite often.

 

[RazeByFire]

Wow! Thanks Sheath, that sounds grrrreat!

And Nora, wouldn't that make your day interesting? But. to spoil it for you I don't work in an office, I'm not a professional. I'm a student. And besides, I don't know what you look like.

 

[Nora]

Wow! Thanks Sheath, that sounds grrrreat!

And Nora, wouldn't that make your day interesting? But. to spoil it for you I don't work in an office, I'm not a professional. I'm a student. And besides, I don't know what you look like.

Eeeeek! Toddler alert!!

Whatcha studying?

Hmm...well I do have that one little fantasy about the guy who works upstairs and across the hall from me...

(and I added you to the contact list for austin/centex stuff so you won't miss the next meet!)

 

[sterlingclay]

Re: Re: Oh Look.. Another Anal Sex question

 

[RazeByFire]

Thanks again Nora. Mostly I am just studying basic stuff that everyone has to have. I'm considering computer science though.

Are you gonna give any details about this guy upstairs? Please!?