Oh, hello there. It's you I've been waiting for. (Female sub looking for male dom)

[CatClaws]

So. Online dating/sexting/seeking is strange and awkward. It just is.

And yet, here we are.

We're busy, we're needy, and life sometimes gets in the way of you meeting "the one" or even having enough energy to make eyes at the cute person across the street. Or perhaps you're just a bit shy about meeting someone and finding out bdsm isn't their thing.

What am I looking for? I don't know. A dom, primarily, but also a friend. Preferably somewhere between 25-35, as I am 22 and have a bit of a thing for a slightly older man. Please note: if you do not understand how someone could be a feminist and a submissive at the same time, please do not message me. I'm looking for someone to explore with, someone who is willing to take their time and grow with me. I have an exceedingly busy schedule, and will not be free all the time. I would like to build up some trust before pictures. I'm located in the Midwest (USA), but that's more for your preferences than mine. I would be happy to remain entirely online.

Some notes about me so you know what you're in for:
22 female, dark curly hair and a curvy body. Workaholic, shy, and totally inexperienced with this kind of thing. My limited experience with such matters ended awkwardly when someone wanted to go from zero to asking for a contract in a matter of days. A bit hesitant about commitment, in case I hadn't make that obvious

Jeez, this was long, wasn't it?

 

[CatClaws]

Clarification

So, since it seems necessary to clarify, given some of the responses:

About the single, tumultuous, and nearly year since we stopped talking relationship, that little intro says it all. We were two different people and wanted two different things, and when I couldn't keep up anymore I tried to end things. It started out wonderfully but it moved too quickly, and I was probably too inexperienced to understand the kind of relationship my partner was asking for. That said, he did ask for a contract within the first week of us knowing each other, and when I tried to end things he continued to send messages after I asked to stop. I didn't honestly think bringing any of this up would be necessary, since it was a long time ago and I'd like to think I've grown since then. However, I mentioned it because I didn't want to seem disingenuous, and I wanted anyone interested to know that I'm not quick to commit to things like this anymore. I jumped in too fast once, and now I want to be a bit more circumspect. I had an ad up about a year ago looking for a dom, but I still consider myself a bit of a newbie, since three weeks of a relationship I didn't really understand seems hardly well-rounded.

Anyways, sorry if I confused anyone! If you're still interested after all my rambling, feel free to ask anything further you want to know.

 

[GallantWriter]

I have some experience in this area if you care to chat.

 

[DrRickMarshall]

Be safe and feel free to contact me anytime!

 

[Prince Albert]

Welcome, would love to mentor you if you're interested.

 

[RawHumor]

BDSM contracts are only as valid as far as you respect them and each other. A contract is something that typically gets brought into play after months or years of being together.

I'm glad you got rid of that first guy.

Good luck to you.

 

[SirSensual]

Welcome

Sorry you had such a bad experience to get you started. Things will get better and you will find one who fits what you want/need. Best of luck!