Oh, fuck. What now?

[oni]

At 19, I married. She was bisexually experienced, and I was a virgin before I met her, but she promised to live monogamously, and indeed, I've never had anything to complain about there.
The problem is that since then, I've started to become interested in men. I didn't think that was possible, back then. But three years later, recently, I found myself performing fellatio on another guy, and enjoying it.
I've never seen any kind of believable evidence for reincarnation or an afterlife, so I want to make sure I'm fulfilled and living to the fullest here. But I don't want to just leave someone who loves me.
Boku wa oni desu
What now?

 

[zach79]

3 words:
Jerry Springer Show


Welcome to Lit

 

[oni]

Hm... Thanks for the welcome. But although I've grown desperate enough for answers to air my problems in front of a bunch of people, I'd still rather do it anonymously, or at least pseudonymously... Maybe if they start having guests by email...

 

[peachykeen]

Soooo...why are you talking to a bunch of strangers about this, and not the person who is supposedly your partner in life?

 

[phrodeau]

One word: Strap-on.

 

[JerseyBoy]

But three years later, recently, I found myself performing fellatio on another guy, and enjoying it.

Once I found myself in a 7-11 using the instant cappacino machine and enjoying it.

 

[Gord]

Re: Re: Oh, fuck. What now?

Once I found myself in a 7-11 using the instant cappacino machine and enjoying it.

SHIT - you can get help for that PM me any time if you need to talk

 

[JerseyBoy]

Re: Re: Re: Oh, fuck. What now?

SHIT - you can get help for that PM me any time if you need to talk

thanks, but extended therapy has helped a great deal already...

...and they're going to let me outside in the playground today

franks and beans!

 

[binkley]

Re: Re: Re: Re: Oh, fuck. What now?

franks and beans!

Don't forget your SPAM.

 

[SINthysist]

You don't just FIND yourself fellating another man...

 

[WhatsHerName]

At 19, I married. She was bisexually experienced, and I was a virgin before I met her, but she promised to live monogamously, and indeed, I've never had anything to complain about there.
The problem is that since then, I've started to become interested in men. I didn't think that was possible, back then. But three years later, recently, I found myself performing fellatio on another guy, and enjoying it.
I've never seen any kind of believable evidence for reincarnation or an afterlife, so I want to make sure I'm fulfilled and living to the fullest here. But I don't want to just leave someone who loves me.
Boku wa oni desu
What now?

I was thinking the same thing...what lead up to you and this other man?

Have you considered at least talking to your wife about this?? I would seriously suggest if you are wanting to continue your marriage and possibly get what you can't on the side that you give her the option to at least be ok with that or to opt out.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

Gosh, so you're both bi. THAT'S not going to work...

 

[Backyard sweaty]

Verybadgirl:
Gosh, so you're both bi.

Sounds like the make'ns for the perfect 4-some.

 

[Guest]

Are you a red goblin or blue?

 

[VeryBadGirl]

Verybadgirl:
Gosh, so you're both bi.

Sounds like the make'ns for the perfect 4-some.

BS - you and me should CALL them!!! He PERFORMS FELLATIO and ENJOYS IT!

 

[hogjack]

At 19, I married. She was bisexually experienced, and I was a virgin before I met her, but she promised to live monogamously, and indeed, I've never had anything to complain about there.
The problem is that since then, I've started to become interested in men. I didn't think that was possible, back then. But three years later, recently, I found myself performing fellatio on another guy, and enjoying it.
I've never seen any kind of believable evidence for reincarnation or an afterlife, so I want to make sure I'm fulfilled and living to the fullest here. But I don't want to just leave someone who loves me.
Boku wa oni desu
What now?

Oni, you haven't described the other factors in your relationship beyond, oh, the fun stuff. But most relationships [in the many varieties exhibited or described in Lit] have a matrix of factors which determine their viability for any length of time. Beyond her and your bi-sexuality there is, one would think, a lot more to your situation.


With only this data to go by I suggest a weekly come one, cum all orgy of epic proportions. But with more insight and background -- all supporting a clearer understanding of the situation -- there could be much better feedback.

 

[PepperminTrish]

Gosh, so you're both bi. THAT'S not going to work...

VBG, I think I'm going to start following you around the board. You just make me laugh!

 

[Backyard sweaty]

From VBG:
BS - you and me should CALL them!!! He PERFORMS FELLATIO and ENJOYS IT!

I called the last time. Your getting spoiled.

 

[LukkyKnight]

oni, this is the one fundamental question:

Soooo...why are you talking to a bunch of strangers about this, and not the person who is supposedly your partner in life?

For your marriage to endure requires communicating. You can't expect that nobody will change once they get married, people grow until they become worm-food. Time for you to choose to nurture what you've got, to work at growing closer together, not letting the inevitable processes drive a wedge between you.

Best of luck.

 

[VeryBadGirl]

VBG, I think I'm going to start following you around the board. You just make me laugh!

And YOU, my dear, have an excellent set of tatas!

 

[PepperminTrish]

And YOU, my dear, have an excellent set of tatas!

Why thank you!
I'll bring 'em with me as I follow you around.

 

[hogjack]

Yes

Ditto on the tattas but the bi-guy needs help.

 

[JerseyBoy]

Re: Yes

Ditto on the tattas but the bi-guy needs help.

I'm thinking he was the post-n-run type...

...let's continue on with the tattas

 

[PepperminTrish]

I do believe that this is the first time that my tatas have highjacked a thread!

 

[JerseyBoy]

I do believe that this is the first time that my tatas have highjacked a thread!

i see they're loaded...but are they dangerous?