Oh Fuck me why don't you? The all-too-well-known problem of unequal sex drives.

[iDreamInNude]

I started a very intense relationship 3 months ago with a handsome, scarily intelligent, witty man. Although sex has been infrequent due to busy schedules, it has been, well, earth shattering for me. I've squirted, passed out from orgasms, screamed until my throat ached. And oh the times he's cum inside me, in my pussy, my mouth. He's never gone without such a release (well except when we fucked each other raw that one time) He has struggled with my "rougher" desires, and is hesitant but seems to want to try new things.

Not is it only physically marvellous, I have never been so emotionally connected with someone. And he has expressed the same to me many times.

And yet...

Last night whilst I eagerly sucked on him he sighs and says, "I think your sex drive is too much for me."

This is not the first time this has been brought up... just not so bluntly said.

I feel I should make you more aware of our sex habits. As I said, sex is infrequent as we live a fair distance apart and he is a full-time student. We do not go for hours at a time either. Perhaps an hour or two.

I could not help but feel hurt. "Am I really too sexual?" "Perhaps he doesn't find me that desirable?" I told him that I didn't know how to respond to that. And he didn't know what to say either. I am glad he told me, because I want to find a solution. I'm just not sure what that solution is.

I masturbate everyday almost and although I find it pleasurable, it hardly replaces having the warmth of someones skin slamming against you or simply moving softly under your hands.

I'm not open to finding other sex partners. I want to make this work with him. We do not want to separate because I am more sexually driven than him. It's just neither of us are sure how. And I am looking to creative minds for advice.

Please do share.

 

[ChinaBandit]

If the sex is infrequent, and you are as wild as written, he is either seeing someone else or simply not into you as much as you are into him. There is no other, logical, answer. Sorry.

 

[iDreamInNude]

Well if that be the case, I hope he would have the balls to share such a thing with me.

Although, I do believe some people genuinely do have lower sex drives, but still have satisfying relationships. I like to think that we can actually "DO" something to both be satisfied.

 

[ChinaBandit]

Could clarify exactly what infrequent means?

 

[iDreamInNude]

Infrequent because we only can see each other once or twice a week because of work and schooling. We do have sex almost every time we can see each other, unless it is completely impractical (dinner with parents for example)

 

[ChinaBandit]

Once or twice a week is actually perfect for a man my age. I'm 50!

I assume he's a lot younger.

If he's younger than 35, and you don't have jobs PLUS kids, daily isn't too much. However, let's say 3 to 4 times a week at worst is totally normal for a guy then.

If you are talking about dinner with parents and shit, maybe he's not even 30.

Something's not right.

 

[iDreamInNude]

We are both 22. And sex is about 1-2 times a week. Which is not something I am used to, being a type of girl that has gone for literally 48 hours of sex before. (except dinner and bathroom breaks, of course ) Dinner with the parents is occasional since we both seem to want to have an extended place in each other's lives and getting to know family seems appropriate.

 

[blobfish]

I started a very intense relationship 3 months ago with a handsome, scarily intelligent, witty man. Although sex has been infrequent due to busy schedules, it has been, well, earth shattering for me. I've squirted, passed out from orgasms, screamed until my throat ached. And oh the times he's cum inside me, in my pussy, my mouth. He's never gone without such a release (well except when we fucked each other raw that one time) He has struggled with my "rougher" desires, and is hesitant but seems to want to try new things.

Not is it only physically marvellous, I have never been so emotionally connected with someone. And he has expressed the same to me many times.

And yet...

Last night whilst I eagerly sucked on him he sighs and says, "I think your sex drive is too much for me."

This is not the first time this has been brought up... just not so bluntly said.

I feel I should make you more aware of our sex habits. As I said, sex is infrequent as we live a fair distance apart and he is a full-time student. We do not go for hours at a time either. Perhaps an hour or two.

I could not help but feel hurt. "Am I really too sexual?" "Perhaps he doesn't find me that desirable?" I told him that I didn't know how to respond to that. And he didn't know what to say either. I am glad he told me, because I want to find a solution. I'm just not sure what that solution is.

I masturbate everyday almost and although I find it pleasurable, it hardly replaces having the warmth of someones skin slamming against you or simply moving softly under your hands.

I'm not open to finding other sex partners. I want to make this work with him. We do not want to separate because I am more sexually driven than him. It's just neither of us are sure how. And I am looking to creative minds for advice.

Please do share.

Does he seem to show an unusual interest in other men and their sphincters?

 

[ChinaBandit]

Agreed.

The dude's either into hairy sacks or she's part of a juggle act. If juggling, he doesn't much care if she's the ball that falls to the ground.

 

[dutchrain]

I started a very intense relationship 3 months ago with a handsome, scarily intelligent, witty man. Although sex has been infrequent due to busy schedules, it has been, well, earth shattering for me. I've squirted, passed out from orgasms, screamed until my throat ached. And oh the times he's cum inside me, in my pussy, my mouth. He's never gone without such a release (well except when we fucked each other raw that one time) He has struggled with my "rougher" desires, and is hesitant but seems to want to try new things.

Not is it only physically marvellous, I have never been so emotionally connected with someone. And he has expressed the same to me many times.

And yet...

Last night whilst I eagerly sucked on him he sighs and says, "I think your sex drive is too much for me."

This is not the first time this has been brought up... just not so bluntly said.

I feel I should make you more aware of our sex habits. As I said, sex is infrequent as we live a fair distance apart and he is a full-time student. We do not go for hours at a time either. Perhaps an hour or two.

I could not help but feel hurt. "Am I really too sexual?" "Perhaps he doesn't find me that desirable?" I told him that I didn't know how to respond to that. And he didn't know what to say either. I am glad he told me, because I want to find a solution. I'm just not sure what that solution is.

I masturbate everyday almost and although I find it pleasurable, it hardly replaces having the warmth of someones skin slamming against you or simply moving softly under your hands.

I'm not open to finding other sex partners. I want to make this work with him. We do not want to separate because I am more sexually driven than him. It's just neither of us are sure how. And I am looking to creative minds for advice.

Please do share.

Some people do have a much lower sex-drive as others. That is a fact.

 

[JAMESBJOHNSON]

At 22 he oughta want sex twice a day. I recall wanting sex twice an hour, in the good old days.

Forty years later, I now know that if your partner isnt UP for sex it means they have a problem with you or themselves.

 

[tactful]

This is just a guess, but, someone is gonna be getting a lot of PMs today.

 

[islandman]

No matter your sex drive, you lost me at "scarily intelligent".

 

[Lancecastor]

Here's where it's at:
He broke up with you while you were sucking his cock.​

(Islandman is probably smarter than that douche; I suggest you send him nudes immediately.)​

 

[shoulderblade]

If the sex is infrequent, and you are as wild as written, he is either seeing someone else or simply not into you as much as you are into him. There is no other, logical, answer. Sorry.

If he has a busy life the "other woman" is not like likely simply on pracftical grounds.

Could be low sex drive, stress or simply a case of not giving the relationship a high priority on his life scale.

In any case you seem to stuck in this spot.

This is just a guess, but, someone is gonna be getting a lot of PMs today.

 

[richard_daily]

I started a very intense relationship 3 months ago with a handsome, scarily intelligent, witty man. Although sex has been infrequent due to busy schedules, it has been, well, earth shattering for me. I've squirted, passed out from orgasms, screamed until my throat ached. And oh the times he's cum inside me, in my pussy, my mouth. He's never gone without such a release (well except when we fucked each other raw that one time) He has struggled with my "rougher" desires, and is hesitant but seems to want to try new things.

Not is it only physically marvellous, I have never been so emotionally connected with someone. And he has expressed the same to me many times.

And yet...

Last night whilst I eagerly sucked on him he sighs and says, "I think your sex drive is too much for me."

This is not the first time this has been brought up... just not so bluntly said.

I feel I should make you more aware of our sex habits. As I said, sex is infrequent as we live a fair distance apart and he is a full-time student. We do not go for hours at a time either. Perhaps an hour or two.

I could not help but feel hurt. "Am I really too sexual?" "Perhaps he doesn't find me that desirable?" I told him that I didn't know how to respond to that. And he didn't know what to say either. I am glad he told me, because I want to find a solution. I'm just not sure what that solution is.

I masturbate everyday almost and although I find it pleasurable, it hardly replaces having the warmth of someones skin slamming against you or simply moving softly under your hands.

I'm not open to finding other sex partners. I want to make this work with him. We do not want to separate because I am more sexually driven than him. It's just neither of us are sure how. And I am looking to creative minds for advice.

Please do share.

Does he know that you pretend to be a woman on the internet?

 

[islandman]

Does he know that you pretend to be a woman on the internet?

Perhaps.

But the pics I just received are fantastic!

 

[richard_daily]

Perhaps.

But the pics I just received are fantastic!

good tuck job?

 

[islandman]

good tuck job?

All I can say is that they're big enough to have my entire username written across them.

 

[richard_daily]

All I can say is that they're big enough to have my entire username written across them.

His balls?

Damn son.

 

[islandman]

His balls?

Damn son.

You're ruining this thread.

I hope you know that.

 

[richard_daily]

You're ruining this thread.

I hope you know that.

I think the OP took care of that well before I did.

 

[islandman]

I think the OP took care of that well before I did.

Fair point.

 

[neci]

get out now.

 

[hogjack]

I am looking to creative minds for advice.

So you logged into literotica. Good.

Whilst I am no expert on this topic I believe you've turned him gay.

It happens. We all wish you both well.

Knowing you two as I do I recommend making a suicide pact.