Off the cuff comment got me thinking

[jeninflorida]

So over the weekend we helped a friend enjoy their new house. A friend made a comment about a situation she was in before she married and basically gave a guy a blow job just to get out of having sex with him.

I wonder how many other people have been in this situation? Could a man be put into this situation (what if a cougar became very aggressive and hinted that a business deal would happen if he did her)?

Could something like this happen with a Coworker? A Client? A vender?

thoughts?

I also wrote about this on my blog....

to put a naughty spin on this, what if a blow job isn't sex?

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

So over the weekend we helped a friend enjoy their new house. A friend made a comment about a situation she was in before she married and basically gave a guy a blow job just to get out of having sex with him.

I wonder how many other people have been in this situation? Could a man be put into this situation (what if a cougar became very aggressive and hinted that a business deal would happen if he did her)?

Could something like this happen with a Coworker? A Client? A vender?

thoughts?

I also wrote about this on my blog....

to put a naughty spin on this, what if a blow job isn't sex?

Has some potential, for sure. Maybe a father is horny and Mama ain't helping him, but the daughter who comes home from college doesn't want to get pregnant or actually fuck her father, so she gives him a BJ and gets hooked on sucking her father off. Maybe she learns that Mama has similar needs and starts eating her out, too.

I played with this kind of thing in a sense with Robert, the father in "My Danish Daughter", who had a deal with his daughter that he wanted to make sure that he didn't knock her up and ruin her future, but she wanted him, so they agreed to oral and anal only, at least for now. If she was already pregnant, however, he would be willing to have full intercourse with her. He just didn't want to impregnate his own daughter (he was a lawyer, so he knew it could land him in legal trouble, so that was an additional motive).

 

[JustaSCOUNDREL]

The President of the U.S. said a blow job was not sex. I don't know if he made it an Executive Order or not.

Mike

 

[nakdsub]

No executive order was given...

He just celebrated with a nice cigar.

 

[jeninflorida]

He just celebrated with a nice cigar.

for kicks, why not have another female friend smoke THAT cigar?

 

[HeyAll]

So over the weekend we helped a friend enjoy their new house. A friend made a comment about a situation she was in before she married and basically gave a guy a blow job just to get out of having sex with him.

I wonder how many other people have been in this situation? Could a man be put into this situation (what if a cougar became very aggressive and hinted that a business deal would happen if he did her)?

Could something like this happen with a Coworker? A Client? A vender?

thoughts?

I also wrote about this on my blog....

to put a naughty spin on this, what if a blow job isn't sex?

What were her exact words?


But I read once that in class, the teacher was talking about sperm and a girl said, "Why does it taste so...." Can't remember the rest, but she realized what she said and was embarassed as people laughed.

 

[snoopercharmbrights]

Someone (elsewhere) asked "How do I stop him getting mad when I tell him it's the 'time of the month'?"

The reply was "Tell him it's the 'time of the blow job'."


Does this help the ideas along?

 

[Littletoo]

Wow, so much here. I'll start with the last, "is a blow job sex?" I got the answer to this in History class studying about Bill Clinton. Bill denied, under oath, "having sex with that woman." Turns out that Bill is Baptist. I learned that, for Baptists, "sex" requires two things: (1) intromission and (2) ejaculation. One of my Baptist friends talks about having "Christian Sex." That's what she means: everything and anything not involving BOTH (1) and (2). So at least for Baptists, having oral sex isn't "having sex." UNLESS you MISS and get some on her dress.

When I was in high school I was pretty afraid to have sex, so when things got heavy I did my crotch-dive. I went for his pants. This never failed me in high school. Teenage guys would MUCH rather lay back and get blown that to have to navigate the complexities of the female reproductive system to find the elusive "G-spot" that will verify their studliness.

This didn't work so well in college, and now that I'm older, I'm not afraid of sex, just BAD sex. I STILL find guys who would rather get blown, but that's because I'm still single and all the regular guys are married already.

 

[SEVERUSMAX]

That's odd. I grew up Baptist and we thought of it as being sex. Deviant sex, which is why I get such a nasty, "in your face" thrill from doing it (among other reasons), but sex nonetheless. But then I grew up independent Baptist, not Southern Baptist. Not being Baptist anymore, it's no longer forbidden intellectually, but some emotional corner of my brain still thinks of it as a way to stick it to the Man (Jehovah, on the off-chance he exists after all).