Odd question

[Apollo6470]

I like to pose online as a woman and get men off, huge turn on for me! Does this make me gay? This is a honest question because the thought of being with a man isn't arousing

 

[dluvstoread]

I like to pose online as a woman and get men off, huge turn on for me! Does this make me gay? This is a honest question because the thought of being with a man isn't arousing

No.......but it does make you an ass for pretending to be somebody you are not!!

 

[Stella_Omega]

It makes you a virtual drag queen.

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

It makes you a virtual drag queen.

*snorts laughter*

 

[Dizzyfish]

I am a female and sometimes
I like to reverse the roles and
play a male, just to feel the
dominance without all the cutesy
stuff that a lot of women want out
of role-play romances, which bothers
the living shit out of me. Sometimes
it's just interesting to do something
we wouldn't normally do. Don't feel
weird that you do it, curiosity doesn't
hurt and enjoying it doesn't hurt either.
You aren't the first person to pretend to
be something they aren't, and you wont
be the last. That's for damn sure.

 

[Debbie920]

I had a great chat one day with a women and we chatted for a few days about all sorts of things then all of a sudden she said she was actually a man pretending. The problem I had was it all seemed so real and confusing a man could talk they way he had. He did it because he said too many men and not enough women to chat to and as he wasn't a stud or perfect he couldnt compete with the men to get to chat to women so he decided to be female and chat to other females.

Took me a while to accept this actually goes on and no I stopped talking to him because I lost trust in him. What else was a lie from him sort of problem I had

 

[azdesert73]

Yes, of course it makes you gay!!! So does washing you're hair...what a dumb question. This is up there "with pull my finger".

I like to pose online as a woman and get men off, huge turn on for me! Does this make me gay? This is a honest question because the thought of being with a man isn't arousing

 

[Stella_Omega]

I had a great chat one day with a women and we chatted for a few days about all sorts of things then all of a sudden she said she was actually a man pretending. The problem I had was it all seemed so real and confusing a man could talk they way he had. He did it because he said too many men and not enough women to chat to and as he wasn't a stud or perfect he couldnt compete with the men to get to chat to women so he decided to be female and chat to other females.

Took me a while to accept this actually goes on and no I stopped talking to him because I lost trust in him. What else was a lie from him sort of problem I had

I wonder if you are a man or a woman? Your profile doesn't say...

I personally doubt that anyone is being hurt by OP's games except himself. Dudes who log into chatrooms for a quick wank whilst talking to a woman... Why should they care about the actual sex on the other end? There's something about a hard dick that wipes all those qualms right away, especially if it's deniable.They don't see you, they get off, they don't care much beyond that-- If they did they might be looking for a real body at the library or the grocery store.

But if its bothering OP-- he needs to do some soul searching. if he's only a little bit curious as to other people's opinions-- I personally, don't think he has much to worry about.

 

[grrlongrrrl]

Funny how many woman replied to this thread.

K

 

[kcwordsmith]

it makes you dishonest

I wonder how prevalent this is in the online world. I'm sure I've gotten off before with a man posing as a woman. I like to think that the vast majority of people online don't lie but that's a little presumptuous of me. Just another reason to be very cautious. Of course, I've gotten off with men, too, so I would rather they just be honest.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Funny how many woman replied to this thread.

K

Sad how few men did!

The men tend to answer the easy threads-- "Did you suck a cock today? "Wanna see my panties?" Which Shemale vids give you a boner?"

Women tend to get into the harder questions.

 

[Safe_Bet]

Sad how few men did!

The men tend to answer the easy threads-- "Did you suck a cock today? "Wanna see my panties?" Which Shemale vids give you a boner?"

Women tend to get into the harder questions.

(I'm not going to ask you if you want to see my panties, Stella, because I already know the answer! )

 

[Stella_Omega]

(I'm not going to ask you if you want to see my panties, Stella, because I already know the answer! )

See? Easy! (Silk boxers? )

 

[HerLittlePiggy]

See? Easy! (Silk boxers? )

I didn't think it required an answer really. Of course it doesn't make you gay. Gay means you exclusively date and or have sex with the same sex.

Silk boxers eh? Sounds sexy

 

[Safe_Bet]

See? Easy! (Silk boxers? )

Nah. Boxers are your kind of thing! I'm more into commando!

 

[CJontherocks]

I hesitated to respond because I have my own issues with honesty. I mean, let's face it, I'm a closeted bisexual man who only comes out here in Lit (and once while spending a weekend in the Castro, and once to a very dear lesbian friend).

I don't think that's any more honest than a man on the internet pretending to be a woman. I'm afraid to come out because people might not like me. Not only am I dishonest, I apparently have a weakness in my character that avoids confrontation and risk.

I used to think the fact that I like sex with men was a character flaw. Now I embrace my sexuality, and more, but I won't stand up and own it? I am a flawed character.

-- P

 

[Stella_Omega]

I don't think wanting to avoid confrontation and risk are especially a character flaw. Most of us would just rather live our lives, yanno? None of us signed up to be heroes when we found out we were gay.

 

[CJontherocks]

Oooh, I could think of it like this: I'm on a secret undercover mission as a subversive in the hetero world, plotting and facilitating the overthrow and eventual dissolution of heterosexuality.

Or maybe I'm just afraid dudes won't like me any more than girls do.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Oooh, I could think of it like this: I'm on a secret undercover mission as a subversive in the hetero world, plotting and facilitating the overthrow and eventual dissolution of heterosexuality.

Or maybe I'm just afraid dudes won't like me any more than girls do.

If that's you in your av, they'll want you for your body.

 

[haurni]

I'm a bi male who has played a female character in an on-line role-playing game for the last 5 years, and I very much enjoy role-playing sexual interactions with both men and women (though I prefer the latter). I don't advertise that I'm male behind the screen, but if I think someone is getting interested in me, or if they ask straight out, I'll tell the truth because I'd rather be honest than not. I've had virtual sex with any number of guys who'll happily fuck my elf girl in every orifice but are emphatically not gay, no sirree bob. I've also been with few bi & lesbian women who seem not to mind that I'm a guy.

There are lines that some people will cross but others won't, and that are important for their own identity. Re-evaluating that identity and concluding that you are gay or even bi instead of straight, or that you're transgendered, or whatever, means crossing a lot of those lines and that's something many people are not prepared to do. Does it mean you're gay? No. It could mean that you like playing the 'role' of a female, perhaps to express things that men usually can't. Or it might mean that you're bi. Only you can answer that question, and it may mean taking the risk of stepping across some of those lines and seeing if the grass is greener there. I do think it's better to be honest, though.

 

[thehoaxer]

So what is your female name on this site?

 

[Stella_Omega]

I had a funny situation where a female writer asked me for my opinion on her story. It turned out that she thought I was a man, and that's why she'd asked me. She was very angry and called me a faker when I corrected her mistake!

Because nothing says "Macho" like a sharpie on the upper lip, I guess.

 

[Nasty_Deeds]

I like to pose online as a woman and get men off, huge turn on for me! Does this make me gay? This is a honest question because the thought of being with a man isn't arousing

There is nothing wrong with reversing roles when playing online, if the other person knows you are actually a man. Role reversal can be hot, but it’s wrong to deliberately fool someone. Perhaps not surprising, but straight women who are bi-curious are often afraid to play with another women online, but find it hot to play with a man playing the part of a woman.

 

[squarejohn]

I like to pose online as a woman and get men off, huge turn on for me! Does this make me gay? This is a honest question because the thought of being with a man isn't arousing

Maybe not gay, but probably an AOL subscriber.

 

[smallncute]

non-females...

Hi,

I used to, util recently frequent he bi/lesbian room in lit chat.

The number of males in there posing as females was immense. Most were obviously posers with their attitudes and comments...

But there were a few, IMHO who were ore adept s acting as a female...

I a sure I chatted with a few but they were convincing for me to enjoy the fantasy we were exploring..

But They should not pose, but be them selves or at least say they are posing...

Miranda