LTMMC
Really Experienced
- Joined
- Jul 19, 2020
- Posts
- 251
Several of them exist, so it seems my posts will never become overly popular. One obstacle: what I write is not simple enough for the typical Litster to read. Men and women not encumbered by my type of obstacle, only need to write "here I am" and somebody is sure to comment on that. Because any idiot can understand a post like that. Whereas my posts require some intellect for reading and understanding.
Next my user name exudes no aura at all. Different from "one-tit:_beauty" or "seduce_me", or anything with baby or MILF in it. Perhaps I should set up a new account with a female user name, and advertise for a bi-sexual woman. And when a woman answers, tell her my GF is out today, and ask whether she'd mind putting the other side of her bi-sexuality in gear.
And then my ads are not fixated on sex only. Like many of them are here. Sex is easy to offer, and it's easy to assess, whether the person you just met via Lit improves your sex life or not. For me, better sex is only one of several things I seek. I also look for interchanging a lot more, and maybe the mutual liking I'd love to "interchange" means more to me than you telling me how you bring yourself to an orgasm. Not that I do not love to hear about the latter, but I am talking about priorities.
So how do I motivate you to PM me back? If my ads are not that popular, I mean.
My main problem for sure: a woman like I search for, only rarely comes here to read personal ads. And I bet that most women who do and like my ads, are "in good hands" already and have no need for the kind of affair on the side that I offer. The only motivation I can count on maybe, are women new to Lit, and women who just ended an unsuccessful relationship.
And the biggest obstacle here may well be lack of trust. I have received one or the other unfriendly comment after all, to ads of mine. So why get involved with a lateral thinker and a non-conformist, when you can have Pawan and Loveitdady or many other men not on anybody's Most Wanted list?
The only reason I can think of: I might turn out a more interesting fellow in the long run. So in case you are looking for a long-term involvement, read my ads again. My highest aim is mutual enrichment through the mails we exchange. I know it does not work out with everybody, but occasionally some enhancement or enrichment does happen.
And honestly, what do you have to lose? In case you find out that I bore you, you can always terminate again a mail exchange you have started with me.
Next my user name exudes no aura at all. Different from "one-tit:_beauty" or "seduce_me", or anything with baby or MILF in it. Perhaps I should set up a new account with a female user name, and advertise for a bi-sexual woman. And when a woman answers, tell her my GF is out today, and ask whether she'd mind putting the other side of her bi-sexuality in gear.
And then my ads are not fixated on sex only. Like many of them are here. Sex is easy to offer, and it's easy to assess, whether the person you just met via Lit improves your sex life or not. For me, better sex is only one of several things I seek. I also look for interchanging a lot more, and maybe the mutual liking I'd love to "interchange" means more to me than you telling me how you bring yourself to an orgasm. Not that I do not love to hear about the latter, but I am talking about priorities.
So how do I motivate you to PM me back? If my ads are not that popular, I mean.
My main problem for sure: a woman like I search for, only rarely comes here to read personal ads. And I bet that most women who do and like my ads, are "in good hands" already and have no need for the kind of affair on the side that I offer. The only motivation I can count on maybe, are women new to Lit, and women who just ended an unsuccessful relationship.
And the biggest obstacle here may well be lack of trust. I have received one or the other unfriendly comment after all, to ads of mine. So why get involved with a lateral thinker and a non-conformist, when you can have Pawan and Loveitdady or many other men not on anybody's Most Wanted list?
The only reason I can think of: I might turn out a more interesting fellow in the long run. So in case you are looking for a long-term involvement, read my ads again. My highest aim is mutual enrichment through the mails we exchange. I know it does not work out with everybody, but occasionally some enhancement or enrichment does happen.
And honestly, what do you have to lose? In case you find out that I bore you, you can always terminate again a mail exchange you have started with me.
