Maybe you can chalk this up to attempt #9,000 of a younger man looking for an older woman online. Maybe we really don't know what we're doing, what we want, how to handle a real woman; maybe we're just blindly attracted to voluptuous features and experience. Maybe all we're good for is a bit of eye candy and compliments.
Maybe that's all bullshit.
I'm J, and I'm a young man. Doesn't matter really how young (don't worry, well over 18) because age is a rather meaningless number to me. Long time lurker, first time poster on lit. I'm here looking for a cougar.
We've all seen the articles and heard the trashy radio interviews about younger men with older women. The explosive attraction and chemistry, the complimentary personalities and lifestyles, the unmatched sexual connection. I can't put my finger on exactly what it is that attracts me head-over-heels to older women, but it's there in spades and not going away any time soon. There is a definite physical allure to be sure, and not just the obvious parts. Something about a face, a pair of eyes that has seen it all already, a seasoned brow that has been there and done that... but also a definite intellectual and emotional attraction. Sure, college girls are nice now and again, but I grow quickly impatient with the "wooo let's get smaaaashed cuz' you're supposed to do that at college!" attitude. An older woman knows who she is, what she wants and needs, what she can't stand and what turns her on. And that only scratches the surface as to what draws me in...
Things I bring to the table:
I'm not a pushover. That's right, I've got a pair and I'm not afraid to use 'em! Maybe some cougars want super young, naive, spineless boytoys to puppet around: this is not me. I have my own life, my own interests, my own convictions and desires, and I hope for someone to compliment the me that's already there, not erase and reformat into some manservant.
I'm extremely sexual. No, I don't mean I fuck everything with legs within 20 feet, I mean sex and sexuality is a huge part of who I am. Most guys my age think about sports and the next time they're gonna get drunk; I think about how to best please my fantasy woman in every way possible. I should like to think I have a very healthy libido and drive and have all that legendary youthful stamina everyone is talking about. I masturbate and watch porn often and am always seeking new ideas and stimulations.
I'm a virgin. Didn't see that one coming?
It's true, and it's largely been by choice. Of course, I've been with girls and had a few steady relationships but have decided never to go all the way yet (though I've probably done everything else imaginable). I don't know if that will be a repellant or a turn-on, but it's me.
Things you should bring to the table:
You're mature, both in years and in mind/heart/spirit. Maybe you have kids, maybe you're married, maybe you're my 2nd grade teacher. You take care of your health and are comfortable with your body and its curves. (A "few extra pounds" can actually be very desirable, but when it's vastly more than a few that says a lot about who you are and what your body means to you...) You are in peachy mental/emotional health. You're sexually open and expressive. Maybe you like to take charge and lead me by the hand; maybe you just want to feel desired and attractive. You can type quickly and employ proper spelling and grammar. You're intelligent, warm, honest, open, and worth everything I want to give you.
What I'm looking for:
I have a cougar thing, not a mommy thing. I'm happy to just chat on occasion, share intimate thoughts, explore eachother sexually, or to really, really connect on the deepest of levels; I don't burn bridges and I don't shy away from a journey just because I don't know where it will take me. I'm approaching this with an open mind, a giving heart, and a healthy, hard young cock
I'm very visual/aural, and am open (eventually) to sharing along those avenues as well.
I'm not here because I'm bored or just blindly horny; I'm going to stick with this until I find what I'm looking for. I know I just joined the forums and I may not be super active posting in all of the incredibly meaningful playground threads, but I'm here to stay. Even if "just friends" is all that's in the cards for us, I'd rather make that friend than miss that opportunity for some bullshit reason. I'd appreciate some love in the thread to keep it floating, but you should probably get me alone on PM the attention you deserve.
Well, if you're made it this far you're already a keeper I'll shut up now and let fate work her magic. I hope this sparked an interest in at least a few of you and can lead to some beautiful music together.
Looking forward,
J
Maybe that's all bullshit.
I'm J, and I'm a young man. Doesn't matter really how young (don't worry, well over 18) because age is a rather meaningless number to me. Long time lurker, first time poster on lit. I'm here looking for a cougar.
We've all seen the articles and heard the trashy radio interviews about younger men with older women. The explosive attraction and chemistry, the complimentary personalities and lifestyles, the unmatched sexual connection. I can't put my finger on exactly what it is that attracts me head-over-heels to older women, but it's there in spades and not going away any time soon. There is a definite physical allure to be sure, and not just the obvious parts. Something about a face, a pair of eyes that has seen it all already, a seasoned brow that has been there and done that... but also a definite intellectual and emotional attraction. Sure, college girls are nice now and again, but I grow quickly impatient with the "wooo let's get smaaaashed cuz' you're supposed to do that at college!" attitude. An older woman knows who she is, what she wants and needs, what she can't stand and what turns her on. And that only scratches the surface as to what draws me in...
Things I bring to the table:
I'm not a pushover. That's right, I've got a pair and I'm not afraid to use 'em! Maybe some cougars want super young, naive, spineless boytoys to puppet around: this is not me. I have my own life, my own interests, my own convictions and desires, and I hope for someone to compliment the me that's already there, not erase and reformat into some manservant.
I'm extremely sexual. No, I don't mean I fuck everything with legs within 20 feet, I mean sex and sexuality is a huge part of who I am. Most guys my age think about sports and the next time they're gonna get drunk; I think about how to best please my fantasy woman in every way possible. I should like to think I have a very healthy libido and drive and have all that legendary youthful stamina everyone is talking about. I masturbate and watch porn often and am always seeking new ideas and stimulations.
I'm a virgin. Didn't see that one coming?
It's true, and it's largely been by choice. Of course, I've been with girls and had a few steady relationships but have decided never to go all the way yet (though I've probably done everything else imaginable). I don't know if that will be a repellant or a turn-on, but it's me.Things you should bring to the table:
You're mature, both in years and in mind/heart/spirit. Maybe you have kids, maybe you're married, maybe you're my 2nd grade teacher. You take care of your health and are comfortable with your body and its curves. (A "few extra pounds" can actually be very desirable, but when it's vastly more than a few that says a lot about who you are and what your body means to you...) You are in peachy mental/emotional health. You're sexually open and expressive. Maybe you like to take charge and lead me by the hand; maybe you just want to feel desired and attractive. You can type quickly and employ proper spelling and grammar. You're intelligent, warm, honest, open, and worth everything I want to give you.
What I'm looking for:
I have a cougar thing, not a mommy thing. I'm happy to just chat on occasion, share intimate thoughts, explore eachother sexually, or to really, really connect on the deepest of levels; I don't burn bridges and I don't shy away from a journey just because I don't know where it will take me. I'm approaching this with an open mind, a giving heart, and a healthy, hard young cock
I'm very visual/aural, and am open (eventually) to sharing along those avenues as well. I'm not here because I'm bored or just blindly horny; I'm going to stick with this until I find what I'm looking for. I know I just joined the forums and I may not be super active posting in all of the incredibly meaningful playground threads, but I'm here to stay. Even if "just friends" is all that's in the cards for us, I'd rather make that friend than miss that opportunity for some bullshit reason. I'd appreciate some love in the thread to keep it floating, but you should probably get me alone on PM the attention you deserve.
Well, if you're made it this far you're already a keeper
I'll shut up now and let fate work her magic. I hope this sparked an interest in at least a few of you and can lead to some beautiful music together.Looking forward,
J
Don't apologize. I can take a joke. Trust me my self confidence is big enough that I can laugh at myself. I laugh at myself alot. 
