Not who... I wanna know HOW!

[Calamity Jane]

So I was talking to a girl at work tonight, and everytime she refers to sex, she says "making love". And all I can think is *yawn*. I mean, I'm sure making love is nice, and I've engaged in the activity, but on a day to day basis, I prefer a good fuck. Know what I mean?

So, what I want to know is, what do y'all prefer? And for you fence straddlers, I'm willing to conced that both activities are nice, and have their virtues. I want to know if, on a day to day basis, you had to choose one, which would you choose more often?

 

[Elizabeth]

Fuck. Without a doubt.

 

[sigh]

despite my frequent posts to the contrary, i'm a love-maker more than a fucker

honestly, i've never fucked anybody i didn't love first

on the other hand, fucking somebody you love is pretty great too

 

[cymbidia]

Hot wild panting screaming BDSM-style fucking.
Please.

 

[Problem Child]

missionary position, with all the lights off.

 

[modest mouse]

my thoughts...

I have often judged the development of my relationships on fucking and makeing love. After the usual introductory sex there exists some type of wavering mish-mash of fucking and emotional sex(makeing love). Gradually each person gains some integration with the other as to when each is occurring. I considered my relationships to be very involved when we were both comfortable enough with each other to honestly throw the emotional and intellectual components beside the bed for awhile and fuck like bunnies on meth. Once this stage is reached then sessions of makeing love can be bundles of affection and emotional communication.

 

[seXieleXie]

Hot wild panting screaming BDSM-style fucking.
Please.

thank you ma'am may i have another?

 

[Calamity Jane]

missionary position, with all the lights off.

brat

 

[Problem Child]

brat

You, in the ass, with a metronome for timing and a circus clown sitting in the corner reading the Christian Science Monitor. And you have to hold a papaya in your mouth while I wear a Henry Kissinger mask.

 

[cymbidia]

Brat on hallocinogens?

 

[Calamity Jane]

only if you'll wear nipple clamps and pink silk crotchless panties

 

[Problem Child]

Exactly Cym. Magic mushrooms are mandatory for any sexual encounter with me.

 

[Problem Child]

only if you'll wear nipple clamps and pink silk crotchless panties

I will if you'll wear a fireman's hat and let me write the Declaration of Independence on your ass in blueberry syrup with a toothpick.

 

[Calamity Jane]

name the time and place darlin... i'll bring the syrup

 

[cymbidia]

Enquiring minds want to know.

Exactly Cym. Magic mushrooms are mandatory for any sexual encounter with me.

To enhance the shared primal aspects of the entire experience, PC, or because someone needs to be that removed from reality to proceed with the deed?

 

[Calamity Jane]

just

 

[Problem Child]

Re: Enquiring minds want to know.

To enhance the shared primal aspects of the entire experience, PC, or because someone needs to be that removed from reality to proceed with the deed?

The latter of course. Who in their right mind would fuck me?

 

[sexy-girl]

why cant you do both at the sametime ?

 

[Calamity Jane]

Fence straddler

Because, for the purposes of this here thread, we're all gonna assume the acts to be mutually exclusive. (oh my god, that was missourian!)

Anyway, making love = soft, slow, gentle, candle light, roses, soft lighting and all that

fucking=up against the wall, hard and fast, lots of panting and grunting, and you don't know if the light is on or not because you're about to pass out...

see the difference?

 

[cymbidia]

Re: Re: Enquiring minds want to know.

The latter of course. Who in their right mind would fuck me?

No one in their right mind would fuck you over, perhaps. As to just plain fucking you, there already exists a passel of Lit honeys pushing and shoving and scratching and biting to be first in that line. You didn't know?



Sexy-girl? Feeling better? I hope so. And one can, of course, do both at the same time, just not every single time. At least not in my life. Some instances are pure ragged lust while others are composed of the ethereal heights of emotion. Most are in-between those two extremes someplace, but not all of them, for sure.

 

[sexy-girl]

Anyway, making love = soft, slow, gentle, candle light, roses, soft lighting and all that

fucking=up against the wall, hard and fast, lots of panting and grunting, and you don't know if the light is on or not because you're about to pass out...

see the difference?

again i prefer to do both at same time ... start off slow and gentle then get more heated


i see what your saying though and i guess i like both i couldnt pick one as being better ... i like to do them either at the same time or sometimes i prefer only being gentle ... sometimes only being quicker and harder



thanks cym im not sure about better maybe a bit i just phoned in sick for work im going back to bed in a sec ... all you people must be up pretty late

 

[lovetoread]

Hard, fast,and against anything. I never have been into the fine wine,candles and slow kind of sex.

 

[juicylips]

Fucking juicylips..

Raw..uninhibited...no questions asked..up against the wall...fucking my brains out.....

I am always ready to be fucked like that....

Afterwards.... I do the romantic love stuff. Kissed, stroked, held...


But only after I have been fucked breathlessly...

Cassidy

 

[SweetCherry]

fucking=up against the wall, hard and fast, lots of panting and grunting, and you don't know if the light is on or not because you're about to pass out...

Oh, this one! This one! And lots of screaming with it.

 

[macuk]

making love without a doubt