Not Squirting, But What?

[twister947]

My lover is 57. Insatiable is too strong, but definitely on that end of the spectrum. She has multiple, sometimes cascading, orgasms, but has never squirted, gushed, or seeped. But.

Occasionally, like maybe once a weekend, upon coming, her pussy "floods." It goes, in an instant, from comfortably wet to awash. This is not a urethral emission, but what? Strictly internal.

Thoughts?

 

[sunandshadow]

Yes, that's squirting, aka gushing. Why do you think it's not?

 

[twister947]

Yes, that's squirting, aka gushing. Why do you think it's not?

Squirting, as I understand it, is external. Fluid is expelled from the urethra. This is internal. I've never experienced anything like it. She says the orgasms when this occurs don't feel any different.

Whatever. It's quite wonderful.

 

[SweetErika]

Does she get any feelings of needing to pee, or a slightly different feeling of buildup and release before these super juicy orgasms? Is there always g-spot stimulation involved in bringing her to these orgasms? Is the gushed fluid like her regular arousal lubrication, or does it have different qualities (smell, taste, color)?

I've never seen myself ejaculate, but it feels much like you're describing - that a good "gush" of fluid is coming from somewhere in my vagina. Whether it's actually coming from the paraurethral area, I've no clue, but it feels more vaginal. It's nothing like the "squirting" in porn, just a slightly different feeling of release that's accompanied by a quick gush of fluid that's different from my regular natural lube (more watery, but definitely not urine, and slightly sweet).

Researchers aren't 100% certain of how female ejaculation works yet. There's some very good info that's probably accurate for most women, but anatomical differences, anomalies and the remaining mysteries of g-spot stimulation and female ejaculation could all be factors that explain why some women don't experience "textbook" ejaculation. Hell, my g-spot is WAY further in/up and far more difficult to reach than the 1.5-2 inches we're taught. Maybe your lady has fluid producing glands or something that does make her ejaculate internally. *shrugs*

If I were you, I'd take it as her form of ejaculation. If it's unique or rare, that's pretty cool. If it's a gush of lube vs. what we believe to be ejaculate, great. The important thing is that you two are enjoying yourselves and each other!

 

[swingerjoe]

How do you know "she has never squirted?" I've been with more than a few women who squirted, and they all squirted differently.

What's the point of asking the question? Simply curiosity?

 

[love_269_girl]

You take her to wonderful place once a weekend. Savor it!! Don't get hung up on the technicalities of wether she is gushing or squirting. She is having great sex!

 

[Mr.G]

Other than many notes (still) from people who try my TRY THIS technique I get notes from couples asking how they can STOP the "squirting - ejaculation".

As was said above. If she is having that much fun WHY do you feel something is missing. Many women never have an orgasm their entire lives and many posts are ," She has 30 G-Gasms every night now but she won't / can't squirt. WHAT are we doing wrong?"

My best answer is wasting time on the computer asking dumb questions. Just enjoy it.

The fluid appears to come from the SKEENE GLANDS. Again, as Erica pointed out, the best researchers don't have a clue. Some are still debating the existence of the G-SPOT / A-SPOT etc so don't be surprised when the ejaculate is a mystery too. Some researchers have stated that it is urine - 100% - because THAT in their limited understanding of female anatomy is the ONLY possible reservoir of that much fluid.

ANy lover who has been splashed by it, TASTED IT, gone paddling through it will tell you it is NOT urine. Oh sure some women forget to go pee before and some have weak PC muscles but if she's peed and is producing fluid it is clear or creamy / cloudy colored is almost always TASTELESS so the researchers, as usual, need to drop their lab coats and find some healthy woman who likes to cum - A LOT - and ejaculates and then and only then will they realize the SKEENES fill with fluid and will void that fluid at various rates, speeds and quantities (depending on the woman) before, during and sometimes even after orgasms.

 

[twister947]

How do you know "she has never squirted?" I've been with more than a few women who squirted, and they all squirted differently.

What's the point of asking the question? Simply curiosity?

Yes, just curiosity. I'd like to more fully understand what's going on...not trying to improve anything necessarily, although there's always room to be a better lover. Sometimes you gotta ask "dumb questions" to get to a smarter place.

Thank you, Erika, for your thoughtful and helpful reply.