Not-sexy sexy

[SubtleFriction]

So this might just be a personal quirk of mine, but I find women a lot sexier when they're not dressed to be overtly sexy. So, for example, a woman in a professional business suit is sexier (to me) than a woman in a skimpy hot pink miniskirt. A woman in jeans and a tee-shirt is sexier than a woman in spike heels and a garter belt. A woman in her normal flannel pajamas is sexier than a woman in a see-thru negligee.

What makes it even hotter is catching a glimpse of a woman's inner sexual self in a completely mundane situation. She gives you a subtle suggestive glance, or bites her lip at an opportune moment -- the tiniest of hints that her thoughts are someplace other than where they should be.

I think it's the tension between outer propriety and inner debauchery that I find so enticing. Being a straight-up slut is too obvious. Being a secret slut is much more intriguing.

Am I alone in feeling this way? And are there any women who enjoy living this sort of double life?

 

[JtheKidd]

Sexiest

I would agree with you my friend.

 

[sickpup1957]

Hell ya your right my friend, nothing better than checking her out and have to let your mind work a little. Wounder what she looks like beneath that dress, good fun.

 

[Snowbunnie12]

The fun and erotica is in the tease. Real life we don’t walk around with no bra on at work and make passes. but maybe we let you have a glimpse down our shirt so you can see a very sexy bra(it’s not an accident I know what I’m doing). Under my business slacks you have no clue but might on occasion get a peek of my thong on my hip... the devils in the details. The men are puppies in the office and just want attention. The women are sharks and will rip you to pieces at the slightest sign of weekness.

 

[sickpup1957]

I think I would like being a puppy in your office. Your totally right the tease is the fun and very sexy

 

[LupusDei]

I would agree. Innocence is alluring. Propriety is intriguing. Contrast is highlighting.

There are time and place for sexy sexiness, and open sluttiness, especially when it is previous "good girl" who does it, but that is just more of the same just a bit extended.

But a more general answer could be, it's not the clothing at all. Nudity is exactly as sexy as school uniform, or a spacesuit.

 

[twister947]

I agree. Posed pictures are fun to look at, but blatant t&a in my face actually sorta pisses me off. Can't explain why, but there it is.

 

[clistenovena]

Am I alone in feeling this way? And are there any women who enjoy living this sort of double life?

Not sure if "enjoy" is the word I would choose to describe the double life. "Required," perhaps? Can't go flaunting my inner debauchery at work (would kinda like to stay employed), nor would the flaunt go well at the local market. I mean, I could let my freak flag fly in the frozen food section, but the funny looks would just get awkward after a while. Not to say I wouldn't put it past me to find the just-right-shape popsicle and do the wiggly eyebrow thing at my husband while I put them in the cart...

Still. Time and place is where it's at.