Not interchangeable

[Travler99921]

A question for bi's: do You feel your desire for sex with men and your desire for sex with women are two separate desires? I know, that to a large degree, I do. Sometimes I want sex with a man and other times i want sex with a woman. Seldom do I have a desire for sex for the first available regardless of sex.
It is not that i won't have sex with a member of the sex other than the one desired. It is just not as satisfying.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

 

[nostuff]

Yes, and no?

It's hard to say, because I've not found myself in a position to choose one way or another since that moment when I accepted my desire for cock. I'm inclined to say it's situational, meaning the opportunity at hand. I see a beautiful woman, and I want pussy. I see a handsome hunk, and I want cock. That seems to suggest the desire is the same, doesn't it?

Having said that, I sure seem to spend a lot of time thinking about cock these days. I'm easily distracted by a pair of tits, but my mind keeps going back to cock. Tells me that maybe the desires are separate.

Damn, it's complicated.

 

[Just2Kinky]

I may not be qualified to answer because I'm "trysexual" (if it's sexual, I'll try it), and coming from that POV I think I fall into a preference for "first available".
I can't honestly remember having a preference for one or the other whether planned or spontaneous except a few times in a bi swinger's group my ex and I belonged to. When the opportunity to tap or get tapped by someone I had been hoping to hook up with presented itself, they moved to the top of the list in front of other regular frequent fliers...

 

[cubbyfire04]

A question for bi's: do You feel your desire for sex with men and your desire for sex with women are two separate desires? I know, that to a large degree, I do. Sometimes I want sex with a man and other times i want sex with a woman. Seldom do I have a desire for sex for the first available regardless of sex.
It is not that i won't have sex with a member of the sex other than the one desired. It is just not as satisfying.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

Kinda? If I'm partnered with someone I emotionally connect with, sex with them is always first on my mind (man or woman). But when I'm single, I'm a "when opportunity knocks" kinda guy .

 

[Escierto]

I have absolutely no interest in men because I do not find them attractive. If I see an attractive woman I don’t care what she has in her pants. I will work with whatever she’s got! Of course these days I only have eyes for my one true love.

 

[MsNatalie99]

Truth be told, I've always identified as gay. I was born with a penis, I like the feel of a penis in my hand, I like the sense of empowerment by having one in my mouth, and I won't go into detail but I'm a bottom. However, I've always been curious as to what it would be like to be with a woman. I doubt that that's something I'll ever experience oh, and I'm fine with that. I think most of my interest comes from Curiosity. So honest question if I was more drawn to one or the other oh, it would be men. It's always been men, and I think it always will be.

 

[SuperSissy]

A question for bi's: do You feel your desire for sex with men and your desire for sex with women are two separate desires? I know, that to a large degree, I do. Sometimes I want sex with a man and other times i want sex with a woman. Seldom do I have a desire for sex for the first available regardless of sex.
It is not that i won't have sex with a member of the sex other than the one desired. It is just not as satisfying.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

Yes. And never the streams have crossed.

 

[2tallpaul]

I find sex with women emotional where as with men, more visual and working to bust a nut. Recently I had my first DP and climaxed harder, faster than ever in my life. Emotionally unattached and short of an outer body experience. My bi girlfriend was so proud telling me this is what I've been missing out on. For me, there is a big separation. For the tops, they love a good ass that milks them for all they are worth. For them, watching a video of me being pegged and coming was all it took. Having sex right out of the hot tub with a beautiful woman when she drags her nails under your balls and across a hairless body, that's erotic and emotional. She's a sexual tiger and loves FFM or more.

 

[Astroman72]

Yep, I definitely go through stretches where all I can think about is cock, and at other times it's only pussy. And I think they are kind of separate for me, as I rarely fantasize about MMF sex. Not saying I wouldn't enjoy that, but I tend to fantasize about one or the other, not both together.

 

[muycurioso]

A question for bi's: do You feel your desire for sex with men and your desire for sex with women are two separate desires? I know, that to a large degree, I do. Sometimes I want sex with a man and other times i want sex with a woman. Seldom do I have a desire for sex for the first available regardless of sex.
It is not that i won't have sex with a member of the sex other than the one desired. It is just not as satisfying.

Does anyone else feel the same way?

to be honest I see a lot of women that interest me, but very very few guys. Whatever that means. I have a lot of fantasies tho.