not happy

[BiSmiley]

not to mince words I'm extremely unhappy with a few people, mostly in real life but in other places but then agian its not their fault entirely. societies wrongs and rights I spose

sorry I'm ranting but still the last person I spoke to today is the last straw all this talk of being open minded and not caring, mind you I've heard the same words from so many people but what has got me in such a bad mood is when one of the few people I trust.

twenty minutes or so ago I finally broke the news to a friend I've had for YEARS, that I was bisexual...

guess what happens, he gets MAD AT ME! gives me a look and just leaves just goes home.

to think I was interested in him for the longest time...never could tell him now I probably wont, not with that reaction even if he talks to me again, not sure I can forgive him for doing 'this' either.

I need to rant I'm sorry

I mean whats so bad about it, sure my experience is minimal in this area but it doesn't stop me from thinking this whole situation is bullshit

I need some liquor

 

[Stella_Omega]

Give him some time to process. And try not to have a hangover tomorrow at work.

 

[Ike_The_Spike]

You say he's been your friend for years. He probably thought he knew you pretty well, and is now shocked to find out he didn't know you nearly as well a he had thought.

Give him some time, he needs to absorb this news.

 

[BiSmiley]

Give him some time to process. And try not to have a hangover tomorrow at work.

Lucky me I don't have to work for the next few days
and I still have a whole bottle of Forty-Creek, can't stand whiskey but tonight is an exception

You say he's been your friend for years. He probably thought he knew you pretty well, and is now shocked to find out he didn't know you nearly as well a he had thought.

Give him some time, he needs to absorb this news.

You both have a good point, but I've known the guy for ten years all the way back to public school I'd think that'd afford a little courtesy a LITTLE consideration.

its taught me one thing though I'm NEVER telling my family

 

[CandiCame]

Lucky me I don't have to work for the next few days
and I still have a whole bottle of Forty-Creek, can't stand whiskey but tonight is an exception



You both have a good point, but I've known the guy for ten years all the way back to public school I'd think that'd afford a little courtesy a LITTLE consideration.

its taught me one thing though I'm NEVER telling my family

Yeah, I'm actually really worried about that to- and the thing is, you tell someone, and if they react like that, you have no idea who they've told!

He probably won't tell anyone though- he might just be freaked out because he thinks you're gonna try to fuck him- I know this sounds stupid, but I swear to GOD this has happened to me; some people really think that every gay/bi man (or if they're a chick every strait/bi man) is trying to fuck them, so they get scared. The safety's suddenly gone until he has time to realize- 'oh wait, it's the same guy.'

I really hope that everything works out for you man;

I prefer rum to whiskey, but fuck, I'll drink it if it's there.

So what else happened? You said you were bummed about a lot of shit- I can understand friends being dicks pissing you off, but it's also crazy that it was on top of other shit.

Hey, if you want to pm or anything, I'm always here.

 

[BiSmiley]

Having cooled off, and suffered from a hangover for most of the day

I'd like to thank you guys for the advise so far, time will tell if 'he' gets passed that if not then I'll move on.

again thanks for putting up with my rants