Not-Chubby Chicks Need Love, Too.

[RastaPope]

Well, they do.

And yet, they seem to be easy prey both here on the board and in the media. You know what I'm talking about. There's a double standard, has been for awhile. It's perfectly fine to say that it's so OBVIOUS Calista Flockhart is anorexic and needs to eat a cookie, but if someone dares suggest that Camryn Manheim is fat, watch out buster.

Where's the love for girls who aren't "rubenesque"? I'll tell you, there isn't any. It's that trend. There's the excuse that girls who aren't at least chubby are part of the brainswashing schemes of the media and fashion industries. Well, that excuse stops working after awhile, I think.

All I'm saying is that skinny/in-shape/svelte/less than chubby girls need some sweet loving too, and I can't do it all on my lonesome.

Where's the love?

 

[Cristalyn]

What about us short girls? We need love too.

 

[RastaPope]

What about us short girls? We need love too.

You get love. No real stigma about height.

 

[Elizabeth]

Jesus Christ...shut up. ALL women need loving, period.

 

[Jim_Henson]

Depends... more than a foot and a half below my height and I cant do it... I can only spread my legs so far to kiss standing up.

 

[superlittlegirl]

I've always thought of myself as being rather soft-to-the touch, so imagine my surprise when two people on TWB's "Would you eat this person" thread commented that I was "a bit too thin" for their tastes. I'm not getting my panties in a knot about it or anything, but it seems that thinness is percieved as being a compliment, so speaking about it (and essentially judging it) is deemed acceptable. But what if someone had come on and said I was too fat for their tastes? I wonder what would have happened then?

 

[Guest]

Fat Chiks Rule!

"Non-chubby" chicks get plenty of love every day.

There is an atmosphere of hatred in this society for women who are not thin. Try shopping for clothes if you don't believe me. Try shopping for a bathing suit sometime. The world is tailor made for the needs of a population that comprises less than 20 % of the adult female population of America. (and yes, I am going to limit my discussion to America and not any developing nations, because the issues are not the same.)

Try buying a meal at a fast food place if you're not the perfect image of pre-pubescent thinness. Everyone watches you put each french-fry in your mouth, You can see them calculating each fat gram on their little fat-chick-o-meter. Skinny girls don't get the scrutiny, though, because they are good little girls who nibble celery and drink tab to keep those inches off the hips.

Please. This is one place where size is not an issue, and you really don't need to grouse about it. If you feel like thin chicks are unloved on a porn site, it's time to get your head checked.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Just be careful with them, they've got sharp edges.

 

[Starfish]

I've always thought of myself as being rather soft-to-the touch, so imagine my surprise when two people on TWB's "Would you eat this person" thread commented that I was "a bit too thin" for their tastes. I'm not getting my panties in a knot about it or anything, but it seems that thinness is percieved as being a compliment, so speaking about it (and essentially judging it) is deemed acceptable. But what if someone had come on and said I was too fat for their tastes? I wonder what would have happened then?

See, I see you as a big fatty. I wanna smoke your ass, and then
eat your peach for a snack when I get the munchies.

Do you come in peach flavor like I imagine?

Where the fuck is this thread at anyway?

See, I have to agree with you. I think that comment was offensive because they should want to lick you for your vaginatarianism, even if you are going to hell, not for your narrow scrawny ass.


(you are lovely and very sexy, btw :roes

 

[superlittlegirl]

Just be careful with them, they've got sharp edges.

Watch out! I'll cut ya!

 

[Pyper]

Fat Chiks Rule!

"Non-chubby" chicks get plenty of love every day.

There is an atmosphere of hatred in this society for women who are not thin. Try shopping for clothes if you don't believe me. Try shopping for a bathing suit sometime. The world is tailor made for the needs of a population that comprises less than 20 % of the adult female population of America. (and yes, I am going to limit my discussion to America and not any developing nations, because the issues are not the same.)

Try buying a meal at a fast food place if you're not the perfect image of pre-pubescent thinness. Everyone watches you put each french-fry in your mouth, You can see them calculating each fat gram on their little fat-chick-o-meter. Skinny girls don't get the scrutiny, though, because they are good little girls who nibble celery and drink tab to keep those inches off the hips.

Please. This is one place where size is not an issue, and you really don't need to grouse about it. If you feel like thin chicks are unloved on a porn site, it's time to get your head checked.

Oh, come on. (I don't believe I'm responding to an unregistered.)

You know how hard it is to find clothes for a small, slim woman in America? Clothes sizes keep getting bigger and bigger, yet the numbers remain the same. Pants are too long, shirts don't fit right, you end up looking like you're wearing hand-me-downs because clothes don't fit snugly as is the fashion.

The idea that skinny girls are skinny because they don't eat is just a nasty a stereotype as fat women are fat because they can't stop eating. If you don't want being overweight to somehow be attributed to your character instead of your eating habits, don't attribute being underweight to being anorexic or shallow and only concerned with dieting.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Fat Chiks Rule!

"Non-chubby" chicks get plenty of love every day.

There is an atmosphere of hatred in this society for women who are not thin. Try shopping for clothes if you don't believe me. Try shopping for a bathing suit sometime. The world is tailor made for the needs of a population that comprises less than 20 % of the adult female population of America. (and yes, I am going to limit my discussion to America and not any developing nations, because the issues are not the same.)

Try buying a meal at a fast food place if you're not the perfect image of pre-pubescent thinness. Everyone watches you put each french-fry in your mouth, You can see them calculating each fat gram on their little fat-chick-o-meter. Skinny girls don't get the scrutiny, though, because they are good little girls who nibble celery and drink tab to keep those inches off the hips.

Please. This is one place where size is not an issue, and you really don't need to grouse about it. If you feel like thin chicks are unloved on a porn site, it's time to get your head checked.

I just have to say, as a not exactly thin person, that is complete bullshit and I think all of us 'brick shit houses' need to get the fucking chips off our shoulders about our weight. If you're not happy, do something about it and quit blaming it on your size.

 

[Laurel]

I just have to say, as a not exactly thin person, that is complete bullshit and I think all of us 'brick shit houses' need to get the fucking chips off our shoulders about our weight. If you're not happy, do something about it and quit blaming it on your size.

Exactly. Sexy isn't a dress size.

Hating us skinny chicks is as pointless and rude as hating heavier chicks. We're all born into our skin - we don't choose it. We can modify it to some degree, but some things (barring surgery) can't be changed. I'll never have big boobies or a round stick-out ass. I could bitch about it, but why? What would that change?

Be who you are, and don't worry about what other people do or don't do. No matter what you look like, there will always be people who think you're hot, and others that don't. That's life.

But walking around bitter is very unattractive.

 

[Silverlily]

what she said

You know how hard it is to find clothes for a small, slim woman in America?

Easier than tall and thin. For the longest time, tall sizes didn't start until a size eight, a generous eight.


Fat, scrawny, short, tall, I have learned one thing, it's personality that makes the real difference in the end.

 

[RastaPope]

Re: what she said

Fat, scrawny, short, tall, I have learned one thing, it's personality that makes the real difference in the end.

That or boobies, anyway.

 

[Private Vasquez]

Watch out! I'll cut ya!

With what?

Hey, but what about the not-exactly-skinny-and-not-chubby chicks? (Because it all matters so much, you know.)

 

[Jim_Henson]

I just have to say, as a not exactly thin person, that is complete bullshit and I think all of us 'brick shit houses' need to get the fucking chips off our shoulders about our weight. If you're not happy, do something about it and quit blaming it on your size.

Did I happen to mention I love you?

 

[Pyper]

Re: what she said

Easier than tall and thin. For the longest time, tall sizes didn't start until a size eight, a generous eight.

Not trying to start an argument, just a rhetorical question:

WTF is up with small sizes lately? I usually wear a size three or a size five, and freakin' pants are always at least four inches too long! How many size threes are there walking around that are 5'8? HUH? (Except maybe Silverlily. )

[/rant]

 

[SaucyWench]

I just have to say, as a not exactly thin person, that is complete bullshit and I think all of us 'brick shit houses' need to get the fucking chips off our shoulders about our weight. If you're not happy, do something about it and quit blaming it on your size.

Bravo! Well said! I would like to add, that if you aren't getting any lovin' and are blaming it on your size...maybe you'd better step back a minute and think about what else someone sees while looking at you. I won't hang with or give lovin' to whiny little jerks, no matter how thin/fat/skinny/chubby they are.

SW

 

[Rambling Rose]

People are watching me eat french fries? Kinky.

 

[Calamity Jane]

Did I happen to mention I love you?

Gawd! What's a girl gotta do to get a troll?????

I heart you too Cheffie.

 

[Guest]

I just have to say, as a not exactly thin person, that is complete bullshit and I think all of us 'brick shit houses' need to get the fucking chips off our shoulders about our weight. If you're not happy, do something about it and quit blaming it on your size.

Who is blaming anything on my size? I don't think I was. I am a happily married, successful small business owner, with 3 darling children. I hardly think that my successes in life net me a chip on my shoulder. You must be reading some of your own insecurities into what I have to say, hmm?

All I'm saying is Jeez Louise we have such a thinness driven media. We are not all meant to be a size 2, yet that is the overwhelming message that every print and TV media source sends us. The acceptance and demand for thinness is repeated ad infinitum until we are tricked into questioning the normalcy of our natural size. I'm not huge, but I'm not a size 2 either. I'm sure that most of us here at Lit aren't size 2s. But the people whose asses get kissed are the little girls who feel it perfectly fine to prance around naked drawing attention to their posteriors. And then they have the gall to complain that someone criticized them for being thin? Grow a thicker skin, little girls. And put some pants on.

 

[superlittlegirl]

With what?

Hey, but what about the not-exactly-skinny-and-not-chubby chicks? (Because it all matters so much, you know.)

With my not-exactly-skinny-and-not-chubby chick issue swiss army spork, of course!

I always thought I fit into the abovementioned category myself. It's comfy there.

 

[Silverlily]

But the people whose asses get kissed are the little girls who feel it perfectly fine to prance around naked drawing attention to their posteriors. And then they have the gall to complain that someone criticized them for being thin? Grow a thicker skin, little girls. And put some pants on.

Anonymous... how scary.

Underweight my whole life, never got my ass kicked.

but thank you for playing...

 

[Pyper]

But the people whose asses get kissed are the little girls who feel it perfectly fine to prance around naked drawing attention to their posteriors. And then they have the gall to complain that someone criticized them for being thin? Grow a thicker skin, little girls. And put some pants on.

I'm not a size two, I don't prance around drawing attention to my posterior (except that one time when I injured it skiing), and sorry, I will go put some pants on now.