Hi, ive just come out of a long term relationship and wonder if there are any women out there that just want the same as me, some good, meaningful sexual encounters? We've all had a good FUCK now and again but there's nothing like BEING with someone, holding them as you make love, it doesnt have to be slow it can be hard and fast as long as it means something.
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babydoll2u
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badboylee said:
there are plenty of us...
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badboylee said:
I couldn't agree with you more. I good fuck is great but nothing beats that feeling of knowing this means something.
Hope you find one.
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No not all are bad!!!!
If you asked most women, we would say that we KNOW that not all men are bad. There are very few that are truly truly BAD. It is the same thing as with guys though, we get burned a few times and we get cautious. We like to blow off a little steam, and vent our feelings. Gender bashing(wether it be women on men, or men on women) is a good way to just let go of the hurts and frustrations of being single and looking fro something meaningful. Now, to stick up for the ladies.....it is really really hard to find a man that wants that, and actually does the things you describe.
I have met too many guys who have said they want those same things, and the majority fo them have done a 180 turn a short time later. Do I think they were lying or intentionally decieving me or other women they may have told the same thing to? Not at all babe. I do believe they were looking for it, and did not find what they were lookign for, or did not give it enough of a chance to work before they moved on. Is that bad, no not necessarily. We both know most men would rather loosed a limb then tell a girl there honest feelings, especially if t hose feelings involve the words"this just isn't working for me" I hope you find what you are looking for. We all just want to be happy, so I get what you mean. The perfect balance of sexual attraction and a deeper meaning, but not necessarily a full blown relationship. Good luck!
If you asked most women, we would say that we KNOW that not all men are bad. There are very few that are truly truly BAD. It is the same thing as with guys though, we get burned a few times and we get cautious. We like to blow off a little steam, and vent our feelings. Gender bashing(wether it be women on men, or men on women) is a good way to just let go of the hurts and frustrations of being single and looking fro something meaningful. Now, to stick up for the ladies.....it is really really hard to find a man that wants that, and actually does the things you describe.
I have met too many guys who have said they want those same things, and the majority fo them have done a 180 turn a short time later. Do I think they were lying or intentionally decieving me or other women they may have told the same thing to? Not at all babe. I do believe they were looking for it, and did not find what they were lookign for, or did not give it enough of a chance to work before they moved on. Is that bad, no not necessarily. We both know most men would rather loosed a limb then tell a girl there honest feelings, especially if t hose feelings involve the words"this just isn't working for me" I hope you find what you are looking for. We all just want to be happy, so I get what you mean. The perfect balance of sexual attraction and a deeper meaning, but not necessarily a full blown relationship. Good luck!
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Yep, there are those of us who hold out for such things.
Don't give up.
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badboylee said:
perhaps if you had personal details in your profile such as age, location...you might get what you are looking for
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Gotta FEEL for her ...
or else it is too mechanical for me. Like I am using a female body to masturbate with. (I think my mind is too active and keeps telling on me if I don't feel anything for her. Reminds me throughout the fucking )
Have gone "female" free for over a year a few times - rather than go through this. (longest time was 2 years)
Also - I have found that "fucking" inevitably leads to the eventuality that a woman will "feel" for me. I guess I am a coward at heart - because I would rather forgo the entire process than deal with whatever feelings she will go through over the fact that I have been fucking her without feelings ... once she makes hers known to me.
Over the years - I have had many male friends tell me how the "fucked" this one and fucked that one .. all proud and shit. I always asked them the very same question ... yea - but how did YOU feel the second after you came?
Always the same answers. None of them appealing to me
or else it is too mechanical for me. Like I am using a female body to masturbate with. (I think my mind is too active and keeps telling on me if I don't feel anything for her. Reminds me throughout the fucking
)Have gone "female" free for over a year a few times - rather than go through this. (longest time was 2 years)
Also - I have found that "fucking" inevitably leads to the eventuality that a woman will "feel" for me. I guess I am a coward at heart - because I would rather forgo the entire process than deal with whatever feelings she will go through over the fact that I have been fucking her without feelings ... once she makes hers known to me.
Over the years - I have had many male friends tell me how the "fucked" this one and fucked that one .. all proud and shit. I always asked them the very same question ... yea - but how did YOU feel the second after you came?
Always the same answers. None of them appealing to me
True!
Like Eddie Murphy said in RAW.."I love to fuck somebody im in love with, but i aint making love to anybody"
Even one night stands have to have a connection somewhere along the line, ive had a few in the past and not one has meant nothing to me.
Like Eddie Murphy said in RAW.."I love to fuck somebody im in love with, but i aint making love to anybody"
Even one night stands have to have a connection somewhere along the line, ive had a few in the past and not one has meant nothing to me.
