FrancesScott
Like a virgin
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- May 15, 2025
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Oh dear me…Everything you said is 100% Grade A "poor me" bull fertilizer, except for us arguing with each other. Yes we do, but in so doing we grow and learn as authors and people.
It's really too bad you are so fragile of psyche and so disdainful of discussion that you must make everyone an enemy to make yourself feel validated. How was I being dismissive of you? I simply stated my opinion of the situation and you interpreted that as being dismissive? You can feel as if I were; I can't tell you how to feel. I can tell you I wasn't being dismissive. If you felt that way it was not my intent, but it's also not my problem. I can't be responsible for your feelings.
But that's not what you are looking for huh? You are seeking to make me feel bad because I don't agree with your assessment of the situation, because I don't kowtow to your particular views. Sorry, but that ain't gunna' happen.
"Many online communities are like this" and "it happens a lot". That sounds like experience talking. The thing I would say is this: If you experience the same thing in many different places with many different people, maybe it isn't those people or places that are the problem. The one common denominator is you. Interesting, huh?
Comshaw