(not a personal) how to pick up a guy M4M- curiously looking for my first time

[bulginbicurious]

Hello

Is it stupid to think it can happen at the gym? Or do I have to go to a 'gay friendly' bar or restaurant hot spot? Maybe I'm better off just having a cup of coffee and wait for a smile.

Looking for it to just 'happen' and go with it. Not looking to resp to an add or request one via post.

Never really sought this out before. Maybe I'm just ready...Any help?

Thanks

 

[Chrissi]

Yes, some gyms can be very cruisey. If you are looking for that type of NSA anonymous encounter, then it is as good as any other. However, be aware that at gyms people usually return on a regular schedule, so....