I'm a 47 year old straight, married man from Oslo, Norway. A 6'3" (191 cm) tall Viking with graying blonde hair and blue eyes. I love reading, writing, hiking, and learning new things.
Sexually, sensually, and romantically, I am a switch, something which has caused me plenty of confusion through the years. This because the two sides are often in complete opposition to each other:
My DOM side:
I just love having (almost) total control over a woman. What she does, what she says, where she goes, what she wears. I do not like brats, since I hate endless conflicts and discussions, but I prefer eager, willing, funny, creative and perhaps a little feisty women. Feel free to talk back at me, unless you're not allowed to! I am strict, but I am not mean and aggressive in my dominance.
My sub side:
I love being teased until I am nothing but a quivering mess begging for attention, for a smile, for a touch, to be tied up, to be teased even more, and to be allowed my orgasm... eventually. I love playful, fun, caring, yet confident women who enjoy the fact that their sheer femaleness can make a man their slave.
These two sides are so different that it's taken me many years to figure out just how complicated I am, and to accept it.
So, what's the perfect partner for this mess of a man like?
I have realized that my sub and Dom sides would not mesh well at all, should they be set up on a date My sub side would resent any attempts at control and discipline unless he was kept constantly aroused. My Dom side would not want to waste his time on someone that stubborn, argumentative, always trying to top from the bottom.
So, in effect, while I do enjoy flirting with both subs and Dommes, my perfect fit would be a submissive lady who has a serious teasing streak to her. Who loves to serve and obey, but who also loves seeing need and helplessness in a man's eyes. A need only she can satisfy.
If you want to get to know me better, please send me a message!
Sexually, sensually, and romantically, I am a switch, something which has caused me plenty of confusion through the years. This because the two sides are often in complete opposition to each other:
My DOM side:
I just love having (almost) total control over a woman. What she does, what she says, where she goes, what she wears. I do not like brats, since I hate endless conflicts and discussions, but I prefer eager, willing, funny, creative and perhaps a little feisty women. Feel free to talk back at me, unless you're not allowed to! I am strict, but I am not mean and aggressive in my dominance.
My sub side:
I love being teased until I am nothing but a quivering mess begging for attention, for a smile, for a touch, to be tied up, to be teased even more, and to be allowed my orgasm... eventually. I love playful, fun, caring, yet confident women who enjoy the fact that their sheer femaleness can make a man their slave.
These two sides are so different that it's taken me many years to figure out just how complicated I am, and to accept it.
So, what's the perfect partner for this mess of a man like?
I have realized that my sub and Dom sides would not mesh well at all, should they be set up on a date My sub side would resent any attempts at control and discipline unless he was kept constantly aroused. My Dom side would not want to waste his time on someone that stubborn, argumentative, always trying to top from the bottom.
So, in effect, while I do enjoy flirting with both subs and Dommes, my perfect fit would be a submissive lady who has a serious teasing streak to her. Who loves to serve and obey, but who also loves seeing need and helplessness in a man's eyes. A need only she can satisfy.
If you want to get to know me better, please send me a message!
