mf1438
Experienced
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- Sep 2, 2016
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**Seeking HL women for candid discussion**
“In recent years, there has been a veritable explosion in therapeutic approaches, self-help books, and groups aimed at treatment of “sexual addiction”. In this chapter, Kafka uses the term nonparaphilic hypersexuality disorder” to describe this phenomenon.”
I just love the wisdom of the crowd. I asked for book recommendations to breathe life back into my dead bedroom and somebody recommended “Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy”. It’s an excellent reference book for clinicians and after browsing through a few of the chapters I found my “sexual problem” described so eloquently in lucky chapter 13, **Nonparaphilic Hypersexuality Disorders**. Shortly after I fell into this plethora of knowledge I met with a sex therapist who recognized the book just by its cover. Apparently there is a small group of forward thinking therapists who really get it when it comes to this kind of stuff. Halleluiah! Can I get an amen?
My first assignment to cure my dead bedroom once and for all is to develop alternative response strategies to the stressors and trigger that put me into a tailspin and looking for love in all the wrong places. Instead of engaging in problematic sexual behaviors when my wife rejects my sexual advances for the umpteenth time this month, I’m supposed to find my HL female counterparts to engage in some virtual fun.
Without hurting anybody’s feelings, I’m supposed to connect with women who, like me, have a healthy appetite for sex. Once we compare notes through some candid discussion, we’re supposed to get some ideas we can use to bridge the gap. “The New Rules of Marriage” by Terrence Real calls these misery stabilizers. Does anybody know what I’m talking about? If not, don’t worry about it, but if you do, you’re part of an elite group of women I would love to connect with at this moment in time.
If you like doing these things, then you fit the profile.
+ Recommend books about sex to read and discuss
+ Reading my erotic writings about sex (I tend to be raunchy)
+ Talking about sex, writing about sex, sharing your views on sex
+ Talking about the sex toys you use and enjoy
+ Writing about your sexual fantasies, acts of sex, what thoughts turn you on
“In recent years, there has been a veritable explosion in therapeutic approaches, self-help books, and groups aimed at treatment of “sexual addiction”. In this chapter, Kafka uses the term nonparaphilic hypersexuality disorder” to describe this phenomenon.”
I just love the wisdom of the crowd. I asked for book recommendations to breathe life back into my dead bedroom and somebody recommended “Principles and Practice of Sex Therapy”. It’s an excellent reference book for clinicians and after browsing through a few of the chapters I found my “sexual problem” described so eloquently in lucky chapter 13, **Nonparaphilic Hypersexuality Disorders**. Shortly after I fell into this plethora of knowledge I met with a sex therapist who recognized the book just by its cover. Apparently there is a small group of forward thinking therapists who really get it when it comes to this kind of stuff. Halleluiah! Can I get an amen?
My first assignment to cure my dead bedroom once and for all is to develop alternative response strategies to the stressors and trigger that put me into a tailspin and looking for love in all the wrong places. Instead of engaging in problematic sexual behaviors when my wife rejects my sexual advances for the umpteenth time this month, I’m supposed to find my HL female counterparts to engage in some virtual fun.
Without hurting anybody’s feelings, I’m supposed to connect with women who, like me, have a healthy appetite for sex. Once we compare notes through some candid discussion, we’re supposed to get some ideas we can use to bridge the gap. “The New Rules of Marriage” by Terrence Real calls these misery stabilizers. Does anybody know what I’m talking about? If not, don’t worry about it, but if you do, you’re part of an elite group of women I would love to connect with at this moment in time.
If you like doing these things, then you fit the profile.
+ Recommend books about sex to read and discuss
+ Reading my erotic writings about sex (I tend to be raunchy)
+ Talking about sex, writing about sex, sharing your views on sex
+ Talking about the sex toys you use and enjoy
+ Writing about your sexual fantasies, acts of sex, what thoughts turn you on
