Non-sexual intimacy

[Corbie]

I know this is a porn site and all, but I know a lot of us come here because of loneliness.

As much as I post wild comments on a lot of pictures, the thing I could use most right now is just some hugging and touching. No fucking or anything.

 

[sexymilf44]

Everyone needs a hug now and then!

 

[Saint_Ann]

I know this is a porn site and all, but I know a lot of us come here because of loneliness.

As much as I post wild comments on a lot of pictures, the thing I could use most right now is just some hugging and touching. No fucking or anything.

So...you want one of us to drive over and touch you???

 

[Corbie]

Everyone needs a hug now and then!

yes we do.....

 

[Corbie]

So...you want one of us to drive over and touch you???

I'm setting this up for a discussion on Non-sexual Intimacy.

 

[Hypnobitch01]

Intimacy is something that should never only be reserved for a sexual relationship. There is platonic intimacy as well. 5 hugs a day is the key to happiness.

Author of: The Trophy Wife, Birds of a Feather, Conri and Red, My Other Mistress, And more….

 

[Dom70]

I call that companionship.

 

[Dom70]

and YES I enjoy it and desire it as well.

 

[Tigersman]

There are times that all I want is have my lover's head on my shoulder as we fall asleep.

 

[Oshkosh60]

It was a tough time in my former marriage. I had gone into the kitchen and went to give my spouse a hug. She recoiled and said something like. "You are always wanting to touch me...." I stepped back and just nodded. She didn't mean what she said in a good sense. I wasn't nodding in agreement, it was more of a so that how things stand. I decided right then I would not initiate an contact. No hugs, no holding hands, no pats on the back or butt. Definitely no sex and I would sleep on the far side of the bed just to see how long it would be until she initiated any and I mean ANY type of contact.

I caved on day 27.

I knew things were going to work out ....but we had kids and stayed married another five years.

I have let most of the hurt and hurtful memories go.....but there are three or four that I will probably take to my grave and that is one of them.

 

[Corbie]

Intimacy is something that should never only be reserved for a sexual relationship. There is platonic intimacy as well. 5 hugs a day is the key to happiness.

Author of: The Trophy Wife, Birds of a Feather, Conri and Red, My Other Mistress, And more….

It's been over five years since I've had hugs of any kind.

 

[Darkrhytm]

It's been over five years since I've had hugs of any kind.

I give everyone hugs if they are huggers. Hugging is awesome

 

[bethany_s]

My bf and me took a love languages test while back and the top 2 of both of ours is touch. Even if it’s not intimate we like being near each other and like in the car his hand is often on my leg or we hold hands or cuddle on the couch watching movies. Everyone is different but it feels comforting and reassuring always feeling his touch.

 

[Corbie]

Moving up

 

[Wonderer67]

i am a hugger and very physical person.

Intimacy is critical for me.

But just wondering, there’s a special intimacy too in just communicating with people. I have found lots of great friends on lit, many of whom I communicate with quite often.

Do you have some good friends here on lit that you can share your personal thoughts and feelings?

I know it’s not the same as physical intimacy, but even that may be better than nothing.

 

[Great_Scot]

It's what I miss most in my life.

 

[Dom70]

It was a tough time in my former marriage. I had gone into the kitchen and went to give my spouse a hug. She recoiled and said something like. "You are always wanting to touch me...." I stepped back and just nodded. She didn't mean what she said in a good sense. I wasn't nodding in agreement, it was more of a so that how things stand. I decided right then I would not initiate an contact. No hugs, no holding hands, no pats on the back or butt. Definitely no sex and I would sleep on the far side of the bed just to see how long it would be until she initiated any and I mean ANY type of contact.

I caved on day 27.

I knew things were going to work out ....but we had kids and stayed married another five years.

I have let most of the hurt and hurtful memories go.....but there are three or four that I will probably take to my grave and that is one of them.

Sounds just like my story. We lasted 6 years with her not initiating anything. We are now not together. Communication...communication...communication !!!!! Woulda probably solved it...on both sides.

 

[Dom70]

My bf and me took a love languages test while back and the top 2 of both of ours is touch. Even if it’s not intimate we like being near each other and like in the car his hand is often on my leg or we hold hands or cuddle on the couch watching movies. Everyone is different but it feels comforting and reassuring always feeling his touch.

That is my primary love language as well

 

[Dom70]

I give everyone hugs if they are huggers. Hugging is awesome

Amen

 

[13Fantasies]

Hugs are my life blood. Still get a lot, mainly from my kids. A few from close friends. Occasional ones from my wife. Definitely a need that goes more and more unfulfilled every year

 

[live4thebj]

I like a light touch back scratch as much as I like bjs.

 

[Corbie]

I like a light touch back scratch as much as I like bjs.

This!!!

 

[dreamysub]

Everyone needs a hug now and then!

I am afraid I need that daily and it seriously drives me nuts I can't and probably will never have that...

 

[dreamysub]

I give everyone hugs if they are huggers. Hugging is awesome

Same here and yes Hugs are beautiful. Makes you feel loved and cared for. I seriously don't understand someone doesn't need THAT!

 

[bunny4med]

You need to spend a lot time hugging, stroking, caressing and kissing all erogenous zones.