Non-Perky Nipples?

[serijules]

Ok I need some reassurance here...

My nipples rarely get hard, at least not without a lot of stimulation or chill. They are sensitive enough, but they just don't get hard, and are rather on the small side to begin with (as are my breasts). I love having them clamped, pinched, licked, sucked, etc...and certainly feel the attentions. My nipples just don't really react much.

When playing, my partners always seem a bit, well, put off by this...as if they think I am not enjoying their attentions or whatnot, and it makes me rather self conscious. At a play party this past weekend, I started paying attention to nipples, and found that most women seem to have very attentive nipples. Makes me wonder why I'm so different?

Any others have this problem?

 

[serijules]

Hrm, I meant to post this in the other forum...oh well, hopefully it fits here ok too.

 

[Kellygus]

I wish I could help you, I have the opposite problem.....

 

[graceanne]

I'm like that, too, and I have large nipples. I don't think the size has anything to do with it. On the other hand, before kids I had very . . . perky nipples. I think nursing three kids did it to me.

 

[witcha]

I'm like that, too, and I have large nipples. I don't think the size has anything to do with it. On the other hand, before kids I had very . . . perky nipples. I think nursing three kids did it to me.

We need proof for that tho *offering choco covered cherries*

 

[Neomagalie]

......

 

[graceanne]

We need proof for that tho *offering choco covered cherries*

Oh, I'd love to share, but my cd rom doesn't work, so I can't put the pics on my digital camera onto my camera, and I'm not taking pics of my boobs and then sending them to walgreens so some pervy teenager can see them.

 

[witcha]

Oh, I'd love to share, but my cd rom doesn't work, so I can't put the pics on my digital camera onto my camera, and I'm not taking pics of my boobs and then sending them to walgreens so some pervy teenager can see them.

Ok..sounds plausible to me

 

[Sir_Winston54]

Ok I need some reassurance here...

My nipples rarely get hard, at least not without a lot of stimulation or chill. They are sensitive enough, but they just don't get hard, and are rather on the small side to begin with (as are my breasts). I love having them clamped, pinched, licked, sucked, etc...and certainly feel the attentions. My nipples just don't really react much.

When playing, my partners always seem a bit, well, put off by this...as if they think I am not enjoying their attentions or whatnot, and it makes me rather self conscious. At a play party this past weekend, I started paying attention to nipples, and found that most women seem to have very attentive nipples. Makes me wonder why I'm so different?

Any others have this problem?

I've heard in other threads that nipple rings, etc., can, in some instances, provide perkier nipples... you might want to look into that if you're really self-conscious about it.

We want before and after pics, though.

 

[serijules]

I've heard in other threads that nipple rings, etc., can, in some instances, provide perkier nipples... you might want to look into that if you're really self-conscious about it.

We want before and after pics, though.

I used to say no way to nipple rings...now lately I've been craving them! I just worry my nipples are too small or something...

Anyone with smaller nipples have nipple peircings? Also, are there other options besides rings, for starters? I suppose it's kind of silly to think they may be too small as many men have them and my nipples are not as small as most mens.

Thanks for putting THAT idea in my brain again Sir_Winston...I think... <g>

 

[sophia jane]

Ok I need some reassurance here...

My nipples rarely get hard, at least not without a lot of stimulation or chill. They are sensitive enough, but they just don't get hard, and are rather on the small side to begin with (as are my breasts). I love having them clamped, pinched, licked, sucked, etc...and certainly feel the attentions. My nipples just don't really react much.

When playing, my partners always seem a bit, well, put off by this...as if they think I am not enjoying their attentions or whatnot, and it makes me rather self conscious. At a play party this past weekend, I started paying attention to nipples, and found that most women seem to have very attentive nipples. Makes me wonder why I'm so different?

Any others have this problem?

I have large nipples (very self-conscious about that) that don't get all that perky with stimulation. So you're definitely not the only one!

SJ

 

[Aeroil]

Hmm, yup I have the exact same problem

lol, okay sorry but someone had to.
In all honesty though it's true, I have heard that some guys' nipples can get pretty stiff when they're turned on.

 

[jasonlf]

I have inverted nipples

I made out with a girl once. She had inverted nipples. It freaked me OUT.

I didn't even know that they existed until then. How common are they?

 

[graceanne]

I made out with a girl once. She had inverted nipples. It freaked me OUT.

I didn't even know that they existed until then. How common are they?

Well I have one inverted nipple. My step grandma has inverted nipples too. I don't know if they're common, but they're not uncommon.

 

[Miss Diva]

Well I have one inverted nipple. My step grandma has inverted nipples too. I don't know if they're common, but they're not uncommon.

I have the exact opposite problem. They can go on at any time any where for any reason. Even under a padded bra they will stick out.

 

[graceanne]

I have the exact opposite problem. They can go on at any time any where for any reason. Even under a padded bra they will stick out.

My step mom's like that. I guess it takes all kinds to make a world.

 

[Quint]

My nipples are quirky too. They perk up when I'm cold or when they've been flicked, etc, but the sensation very rarely registers as enjoyable. It just sort of makes me irritated. And the perky isn't really what I've seen of other girls' nipples; they elevate my breasts, which is nice, but they don't ever stick out enough to play with (which I guess is okay since I don't like it anyway). So hey, imperfect nipples of the world, unite!

 

[writerz01]

One Point Of View

From one mans point of view. It doesn't matter to me if a womens nipples are large or small. In or out. As long as when I touch them or suck them, she receives the pleasure I intended.

 

[laurel-marie]

Ok I need some reassurance here...

My nipples rarely get hard, at least not without a lot of stimulation or chill. They are sensitive enough, but they just don't get hard, and are rather on the small side to begin with (as are my breasts). I love having them clamped, pinched, licked, sucked, etc...and certainly feel the attentions. My nipples just don't really react much.

When playing, my partners always seem a bit, well, put off by this...as if they think I am not enjoying their attentions or whatnot, and it makes me rather self conscious. At a play party this past weekend, I started paying attention to nipples, and found that most women seem to have very attentive nipples. Makes me wonder why I'm so different?

Any others have this problem?

Sort of...
My nipples need hard play to get erect, probably due to nursing.
Weird part is, simple things can make them get extremly hard, extremly fast (first sip of good coffee, good chocolate).

I'm sorry your partners have been confused by your nipple reaction, have you explained it to them?

 

[serijules]

I'm sorry your partners have been confused by your nipple reaction, have you explained it to them?

Actually, no I haven't and I really probably should have, but I just find it embarassing for some reason. Just like my inability to orgasm easily at anothers touch...I get so worked up worrying about them thinking I am not enjoying their efforts that I make it even harder on myself. It just takes very particular touches for my body to respond noticably through hardened nipples, or orgasmically (is that a word? didn't think so...) by actually coming at anothers touch, even though I may be very very turned on from those touches. Explaining it to them feels to me like I would be ruining a mood or something. I've had men I've played with reassure me that the fact that their cocks are not very hard is not an indication of disinterest or anything, but I'm always left doubting myself anyhow.

One topic I'm just not very good at communicating at. Must work on that.

 

[laurel-marie]

Actually, no I haven't and I really probably should have, but I just find it embarassing for some reason. Just like my inability to orgasm easily at anothers touch...I get so worked up worrying about them thinking I am not enjoying their efforts that I make it even harder on myself. It just takes very particular touches for my body to respond noticably through hardened nipples, or orgasmically (is that a word? didn't think so...) by actually coming at anothers touch, even though I may be very very turned on from those touches. Explaining it to them feels to me like I would be ruining a mood or something. I've had men I've played with reassure me that the fact that their cocks are not very hard is not an indication of disinterest or anything, but I'm always left doubting myself anyhow.

One topic I'm just not very good at communicating at. Must work on that.

I am famous for doubting myself, too.
For the longest time I would lay awake after sex, going over ever second and ever teeny detail, worrying if I was too loud..not loud enough, did I orgasm fast enough so he wasnt bored, maybe it was too fast, did he like my breasts...hmmm he didnt spend much time on them tonight , why...and so on.
(Back to the problem) Yep, communication is a big doubt buster.

 

[jasonlf]

Well I have one inverted nipple. My step grandma has inverted nipples too. I don't know if they're common, but they're not uncommon.

Does nursing and everything still work the same? I'm seriously intriqued.

 

[DVS]

I am famous for doubting myself, too.
For the longest time I would lay awake after sex, going over ever second and ever teeny detail, worrying if I was too loud..not loud enough, did I orgasm fast enough so he wasnt bored, maybe it was too fast, did he like my breasts...hmmm he didnt spend much time on them tonight , why...and so on.
(Back to the problem) Yep, communication is a big doubt buster.

Surely you know that because every woman is different, then every man is different, too. And, speaking as an ass man, I don't always spend a lot of time on a woman's breasts, because I have other areas in mind. My hands are usually working below the waist...so my mouth keeps her breasts busy.

And, if those nipples don't get hard, I'm not bothered. Usually her heart is beating fast, and her breath is quick, not to mention she's probably squirming as well as those little whimpers of pleasure that she can't hold back.

And, yes, it's the same with a man's cock. If you think about it and worry about it too much, it's not ever going to get hard, or stay hard. A watched pot never boils, after all.

 

[graceanne]

Does nursing and everything still work the same? I'm seriously intriqued.

Well, sorta. There are these hard plastic things you can use so you can nurse that force your nipple out, but OUCH. Frankly, since only one breast is inverted I just got to where I'd only nurse on the breast with the normal nipple. And no, I never dried out. I have very large breasts, and when they're full I could easily feed three of four children before I ran dry. My mom says I'm a human cow.

 

[jasonlf]

Well, sorta. There are these hard plastic things you can use so you can nurse that force your nipple out, but OUCH.

Hrm. Devices to make a nipple stick out... Ouch... Are you thinking what I'm thinking Marquis?