Non-ejaculatory orgasms (for guys)

[Sensitivehead]

I have read about this kind of thing and it sounds like a real El Dorado of prolonged sexual pleasure. But I wonder if the whole so-called Tantric and multi-orgasmic (via not ejaculating) thing is achievable or just another urban myth? So if there are there any guys on Lit who have actually experienced this, please enlighten us all. Or indeed if you have wasted your life trying, with no success.

I enjoy edging, and can sometimes be at the point where I think I've gone just a bit too far and am irrevocably going over the top. But through contracting my lower abdominal and "Kegel" muscles as forcefully as I can, I sometimes can come back from the precipice. Of course that is great because then I can savour that fabulous climb of pleasure again and again and.....

So far so good, but I have not had a non-ejaculatory orgasm doing this. And fyi, I'm doing this solo since the missus is out of action due to chronic health issues.

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[curl4ever]

My favorite is to do about a fifteen-minute hands-free extended orgasm followed by a manual ejaculation. (There is fluid that comes out during the fifteen minutes, but it seems to be a lubricating type rather than the end ejaculate.)

 

[Sensitivehead]

Well thanks Curly but you're just like me, you come liquidly, so no cigar.

So come (!) on guys, who's actually done this? Is it bullshit? I want to hear from those Tantric yogi's who can't stop smiling coz they came 20 times last night but still have a full tank left for tonight's fun!

Or are there any ladies who have fucked with a guy who orgasmed repeatedly but didn't actually fill her with semen?

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[Bigspurt]

Sounds like a dream to have orgasm contractions with out ejaculating. I'm kind of opposite, I will edge and when I am close, I'll stop and just hole myself motionless, cum a little then go back to it.
One trick I read once, in addition to kegals if you press your tongue to the roof of your mouth it helps, at least for myself, to stop the impending orgasm. In addition, if I do this, all those little spurts result in a pretty small volume when I actually do have the orgasm.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Rub your prostate. Massage it. I do externally, over the balls. It's the sweet spot. You have to be patient, take your time, go fast when you feel like it, slow down when it feels right. I've had orgasmic waves come over me. Not sure if they qualify as orgasms but it's a much better sensation than the typical buildup from stroking. Lots of precum and it can take a while.

 

[Pines]

Rub your prostate. Massage it. I do externally, over the balls. It's the sweet spot. You have to be patient, take your time, go fast when you feel like it, slow down when it feels right. I've had orgasmic waves come over me. Not sure if they qualify as orgasms but it's a much better sensation than the typical buildup from stroking. Lots of precum and it can take a while.

I would like for you to elaborate a little more on this. Where exactly do you mean when you say "over the balls" ? I know that I enjoy pressing hard at the very base of my cock but I doubt that is what your speaking of.

 

[HoldYouDown]

I would like for you to elaborate a little more on this. Where exactly do you mean when you say "over the balls" ? I know that I enjoy pressing hard at the very base of my cock but I doubt that is what your speaking of.

Yeah I didn't explain it well. So at the base/bottom of your scrotum, or perhaps a little north, if you press down you can feel your prostate. For me it's at the near-end of my balls, so when I massage it my sack gets a little action, too. It's a spot that can give you some great sensations if you do it right. I'm not into self-penetration (or any) so that's how I do it. The prostate is about the size of a walnut.

I've rubbed it various ways without stroking and have had crazy orgasmic sensations without cumming. I don't know if I'd call them orgasms, maybe just intense edging. I've cum that way too and it's amazing. Sometimes in the past when I've gone to rub n tug massage joints they know to touch it while stroking, probably to get guys to cum faster. But you won't necessarily cum fast if you take your time with it.

 

[Pines]

Thanks I'll need to work on that. When I'm pressing there I'm actually pressing on either side of of my shaft that passes under the scrotum. Pinching the shaft in this area is very pleasurable.

 

[HoldYouDown]

Thanks I'll need to work on that. When I'm pressing there I'm actually pressing on either side of of my shaft that passes under the scrotum. Pinching the shaft in this area is very pleasurable.

Yup there's a little bit of that, too. It's pretty awesome!

 

[Pines]

Yup there's a little bit of that, too. It's pretty awesome!

Am I in the right area that your speaking of ?

 

[HoldYouDown]

Am I in the right area that your speaking of ?

I believe so...play around and see what feels good.

 

[HoldYouDown]

FYI it works best for me when I'm lying on my back.

 

[AsiaRoamer]

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[Sensitivehead]

That's good info HoldYouDown, sounds like you are pretty close to what I'm curious about. I've done internal prostate massage and it does produce some amazing sensations. I'll give the external method a try.

But back to my thread: I have read lots of stuff about actual multiple orgasms without ejaculation, and still want to know if this is a reality or fantasy?

 

[blade_rocknut]

Anal or prostate orgasms are a different monster altogether, and can completely wipe me out without a conventional ejaculation. Best is to go straight from one to the other....wow.

 

[thebeesknees]

This is a rather interesting topic to me....65 year old married Male with moderate diabetes, which is what I think has brought about what I have called dry orgasms. I never thought men would be wanting such a thing and have found myself embarrassed at the event. I still have the contractions of orgasm but produce nothing in the form of seminal fluids, I should also mention that I had a vasectomy about 30 years ago and not sure if or why that would have anything to do with my current condition. It has been a disappointment to not produce any fluids as it was always a great part of our love making to fill my wife with my cum or as the situation presented itself to give a facial or a pearl necklace, not to mention that she always enjoyed giving a great blowjob and swallowing every single drop!!! So I’m curious as to why a man might want to cum with nothing to show for it, as well as what the ladies feel about not receiving anything from there man. From what I have gathered on here many women enjoy a nice big load of cum. I’m willing to chat anytime about this with both the men and ladies of lit.....however I would definitely be happy to blow a load like the old days but perhaps that’s a thrill of my past. I also believe that as men grow older the prostate enlarges and brings about many of the problems we hear about on the media constantly. Much to consider here!

 

[peterthelicker]

“How to Make Love All Night (and Drive a Woman Wild)”
Male Multiple Orgasm and Other Secrets for Prolonged Lovemaking
by Barbara Keesling, Ph.D.

This seems to be what you are looking for. It has a series of exercises both solo and with a partner to achieve the dry orgasm; therefore, maintaining an erection.

Have I achieved this? Unfortunately no. Saw no signs of putting it to use so didn’t pursue it properly. Of course, upon reflection, I suppose I was looking at it backwards.

Good luck!

 

[Stillrandy]

If No Prostate....

After having had prostate cancer treatment 20 years ago, I have no prostate. All orgasms have been 'dry' in the sense we are speaking of. A small amount of pre-cum or something, but no ejaculation as prior to the prostate being radiated away. A fact of life for me, and (presumably) for other prostate cancer treatment guys. The orgasms are tremendous physical and emotional events, just dry.

 

[Fishing57]

Prostate Issues

After having had prostate cancer treatment 20 years ago, I have no prostate. All orgasms have been 'dry' in the sense we are speaking of. A small amount of pre-cum or something, but no ejaculation as prior to the prostate being radiated away. A fact of life for me, and (presumably) for other prostate cancer treatment guys. The orgasms are tremendous physical and emotional events, just dry.

I have not had any procedure but have dealt with an enlarged prostate for years. And most recently had a biopsy that showed a very small percentage of cancerous cells, I am in the maintenance mode for that. Monitoring the PSA.

As to orgasms, occasionally I get a small amount of fluid, sometimes nothing. But it feels pretty damn good either way.

 

[jackieblue808]

so I've been practicing orgasm denial for many years. usually cum about once a month. however in the past year I seem to be able to have an full body shaking orgasm without ejaculation. It is very intense.

 

[awired50]

Buy you an Aneros massager. It is definitely possible. I have experienced it many times. You will not regret it.
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